Lalitha Sahasranama T 1 : Whole life is filled w many fears . Fear of disease, separation, loss of : wealth, youth , power,death etc.
Goddess is :
Abhaya pradha - Protector, removes fear
& Purushaartha pradha - One who fufills our desires for dharma,artha,kama,moksha.
Lalitha Sahasranama T2
Goddess is not an entity who sits somewhere above, happy to give problems & tests....She is an expression of gratitude for that Supreme being that makes us breathe speak see hear taste touch feel& think ! That we can pray itself is Her blessing!