You know how people make fun about their contacts wishing them just during the festivals? Well that sort of relationships are important to me. Reassures me that I don't need to constantly stay in touch with these friends/family member but we mutually share positivity. Staying in touch like this is like keeping score of a test match. You are not too afraid of missing something but also you don't want to miss it out either. So you just check on it whenever you get a chance.