everytime award season comes up, im reminded of a conversation i had with an irl friend of mine who's a multistan...she once told me "i don't understand why you guys (army) have to try to win all the awards. i mean, you won, you're grp is already the most popular- -all you're doing is blocking the other hardworking grps who have music just as good as bts from getting a chance to be noticed"
im not going to lie, this pissed me off, but i didn't want to dismiss what she was feeling, that would make me a bad friend...so i told her our side

As I mentioned earlier today, this thread is regarding extreme dependency on the boys, and fans seeking validation through them...this thread did not come out of nowhere, it's been weighing on my mind for the past few of years. Also, I would love for this to be a discussion A majority if not all ARMYs started stanning BTS because of how incredibly relatable their music was. Many of us were struggling when we found BTS, we were depressed, lonely, detached, lost, left behind....on the edge of being gone

so, i hate talking about this because it was one of the most upsetting and scary moments of my time being an ARMY, but, let's take a trip to December 27, 2015, BTS is in Kobe Japan for a 2 day concert.... suddenly we start getting negative updates from ARMYs attending the concert they started telling us that the concert hadn't even started yet, the boys weren't coming out, they kept delaying the concert, this wasn't normal, cause Japanese concerts are very very well organized and punctual...about 20-30 minutes after the time the show was supposed to start