If you've ever had a chat with a girl and she ghosted you for "no reason", here's your reason:

You were perfectly nice and great, but too serious and formal to make her feel attraction towards you

Here's how to be more playful and flirty, and avoid "interview chats" 🧵 1. Mess with her... a LOT

Joke about her, tease her, diminish the things that she likes, challenge her

You don't need to be super polite and formal to be respectful. Messing with someone isn't rude. It's fun and flirty. You are both in the dating apps for the same reason

10 unattractive behaviours men can have when first meeting a woman: 🧵

1. Being too shy/introverted, not giving enough material to continue the conversation

2. Focusing only on sexual escalation without showing interest in the girl's personality, thus looking thirsty 3. Talking (and bragging) about himself continuously

4. Getting too nerdy, spending too much time on one (technical) topic

5. Being too serious or pedantic

Sometimes nice guys do finish last 🧵

Because they try to play it safe, for fear of "offending" the girl. I think it's more fear of rejection

You're on a date with a girl, let's say it's the 2nd date. She is interested and playful with you Trying to touch her lower back or leg, or even kissing her IS NOT GONNA OFFEND HER

Being rejected when making a move IS NOT GOING TO KILL YOU. You just shrug it off, give some more time and keep being flirty with her

There is a more nuanced explanation to this 🧵

Flirting is a process, rather than an end result

A girl who is in the process of dating you/getting to know you could be flirty, to some extend, but still not certain about whether she is attracted to you

https://twitter.com/GotPickup/status/1710281321543786549

Of course if she is flirting heavily and being very sexual then that's a strong signal of interest and you should respond to that

However, I imagine what most women want is for men to understand that they might always change their mind about sex

How to not fuck up with women who might be attracted to you: A thread 🧵

Sometimes you might meet a woman who finds you very attractive. Maybe you are handsome, maybe you're funny, perhaps you are her type With other women, no matter what you do, they would never be attracted to you. Maybe they don't like blond guys, or you're too nerdy for her

Most of the time however, and especially if you're already on a date with her, she is probably somewhere in between

How to build a flirty & sexy mood on dates: 🧵

1. Use her name as you speak
2. Disagree, challenge & tease her playfully (not in a serious way)
3. Ask her to give you something she's wearing (a bracelet, ring etc) and play with it or wear it yourself, even if it's feminine 4. Touch her hands
5. When walking, softly touch her lower back to guide her (e.g., if she's in front of you)
6. Make fun of her mannerisms
7. Ask her personal and deep questions, about her childhood friends, about her dreams, her fears

In bed with a girl, there are things you may want to do but be afraid she will not like them. Chances are, you are wrong. She will actually like them. These things are the following:
🧵 -call her dirty names (e.g. "my sl*t")
-lift/move her and put her in any position you want
-spank her ass/thighs
-pull her hair
-make her do something to you
-grab her face or neck
-bite her
-thurst in her harder for a bit and then stop

When are "bad boys" attractive? What traits may work against them? And what can we learn from that? A thread 🧵

Let's start with the traits that work in favour of "bad boys" and see under what conditions they work: 1. Being adventurous and unpredictable (while still being respectful)

2. Telling good stories, having many life experiences

3. They may not care or ask about the deepest secrets of her life but they are still good at conversation, good listeners and courteous

A very important read for all those who think they can't get women because they are "too nice" 🧵

This guy openly says he has tolerated toxic relationships with women because they were beatiful,
and that people tend to turn him into their personal therapist and he can't say no

https://twitter.com/Rich_Cooper/status/1699911401769443745

Then it's obvious he tends to become friends with women even though he is attracted to them, hoping they will change their mind

And proceeds to think that these women prefer to f*ck "rapists" instead of him because he is "too nice"

Another failed tinder profile.... Where do I even start 🧵 1. Leading with the fact that you're willing to compromise shows desperation and low value. Plus, it literally offers nothing to say that. Do you think a woman with kids thinks "uh-oh, better not swipe right on this guy because I have kids".. Makes no sense