I’m uneasy about the idea that it’s the mainstreaming of non-monogamy that has led to bad behaviour. Smacks of intellectual snobbery “Oh the stupid normies aren’t doing it properly!” In reality there have always been people abusing the system. The topic just gets more airtime now That being said, the wider cultural acceptance of NM rship structures means more people discovering them and deciding to have a go. Purely statistically that’s bound to result in more twattery.

Yowza. This whole article is (sadly) really on the money imo vogue.com/article/ethica…

To all my pals who have just started wfh and are aghast to discover their bosses now expect them to be digitally available 24/7, allow me to introduce you to the concept of... I get it, people are adjusting. Employers aren't sure how this is going to work, whether everything will get done, so they're demanding more and faster.

Some of them are also effectively panic-buying - asking more from you now IN CASE you get struck down and can't work.

My toddler got given a book today and I'm not kidding, it is basically an ethical non-monogamy manifesto. Move over The Ethical Slut, it's time for the teachings of Six Dinner Sid... (thread) So. Background. Sid the Cat is a massive slut for love, affection and food (relatable). In order to get what he needs, he visits six different houses on the same street. But it's not just about novelty. All these relationships are special and important in their own way.