Know a parent of an autistic child?

Offering to babysit, suggesting they go away for a weekend, etc. nice ideas in theory, but practically not possible.

Instead, drop off a casserole or dinner, text them a song they might enjoy, drop off hot coffee, set up a video chat, etc. /1 Further to offering to babysit:

Unless you are incredibly familiar with the child & their specific needs, routines, & preferences, it can introduce more uncertainty & stress into the mix not having parent there.

Just something to think about if you're unfamiliar with autism. /2

Ongoing problem w/ shoulder: I recently experienced healthcare that was the best of my life. Two students & a researcher worked alongside the specialist MD. All discussed the issue in a congenial & collaborative way, including me in the discussion. I felt valued & listened to. /1 I'll share more as the situation evolves, but I can say the quality of care I received from this MD & his team was special & attentive. I'm still thinking about it today, as is my mum who accompanied me. Best feeling of all? I don't feel anxious in this MD's hands. Total pro. /2

I did 3 degrees in 12 years. All my framed diplomas & awards have just ended up in a dusty corner of my closet. I think about the meaning of that sometimes. Although I love my work, my boss, and some of the privileges that my job gives me, the pursuit of higher ed came at some immense costs in my personal life. /2

Please try to understand the difficulties people face when they run in social circles and/or have extended families that have all moved on from the pandemic... except for them.

It's a lonely and confusing place.

#covid19bc There is a weird liminal space we live in -- a dissonance-- where we know the science & we can see what's happening in the news...

and yet, we look around us & see that we are the only ones still being vigilant. It makes us ask ourselves if we are somehow being unreasonable? /2