I am turning 29 in two weeks and here is 29 pieces of advice to young women in their 20's

1. In a world that is telling you that everything is rushing, the least you can do for yourself as a young woman, is to learn to take your time and be gentle with yourself 2. under patriarchy is hard but learn to decenter romantic love. Dream, imagine your life as a whole with or without romantic love. Practice it. It's a practice because the heart is involved and sometimes you act against your own reason. And when you do, be kind to yourself