I'm measuring out my words on this and don't be surprised if this thread disappears. Today, at #nerdcampLI, I had a great time. I saw good friends. I hung out with the amazing, stupendous organizers. I delivered a keynote that despite my nerves and stress, seemed to land well. But there is one moment that I have been dissecting for hours afterward. And I decided that I wanted to address it. Because I feel that by not addressing it and letting it go, I'm going to let it bother me for a while. So, here we go.