HOW TO STAY CLOSE TO AN AVOIDANT WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF: (Thread)
1. Lead with needs, not anxiety
Don’t:“Why didn’t you text?? Are you mad??”
Do: “I feel better with a goodnight text. Can we do that?”
Why: Calm requests get answers. Panic gets walls.
Jun 22 • 8 tweets • 1 min read
7 THINGS NARCISSISTS Will NEVER LET YOU FIND OUT ABOUT THEM:🧵↓
1: The real reason they left.
It wasn’t because you “nagged too much”. It was because you stopped giving supply.
They’ll never admit they left when you started setting boundaries.