My cis gay friend Dan told me about his recent trip to the urologist, which is somehow one of the most hilarious yet frustrating trans-at-the-doctor experiences I've ever heard, and gave me permission to tell you about it! The nurse gave him a form to fill out, and one of the questions asked about his ability to maintain an erection during penetrative sex. Anxious Dan explained, as tactfully as possible, that that question was not, uh, relevant to his current or recently past experiences (#bottom)