Ok this is a bit harrowing but we do need to talk about it.

You know this whole “why did the police ignore grooming” thing in the 2000s?

Well I was a kid in the 2000s. I was born in 1996. And I want to talk about what society thought about “girls making bad choices”

🧵 So I had a friend when I was 12 who had been a victim of grooming by an older boy, and she’d been moved to my school after being bullied. She was what was called “promiscuous and precocious” in 2007. Now we’d say traumatised and vulnerable. Anyway.

✨ Things You Can Do To Feel Happier All By Yourself ✨🧵

1. Go for a walk. Sounds super cliche but even 15 minutes will help take you out of your negative spiral because you’ll be experiencing the world around you, not whatever is panicking you. 2. Ground yourself. Touch your face, touch the wall, be aware of your shoes. Whatever is upsetting or devastating, you are in this body, this is yours, you are here, you are alive.

So earlier today I looked great (just facts) and this random guy sexualised me, saying I was 'really turning him on' and had 'an amazing body'.

And it made me so incredibly sad and I couldn't really put my finger on why. But I think I've worked it out 🧵 Another man (friend, lovely friend) said something over lunch and it suddenly fitted so much of the puzzle together in my head. "Who are you sleeping with?"

"No one."

"But so many men are after you."

"Yes. I don't want them."

For him, this didn't make any sense.

No stupid MLM 'online course' in incel business is going to make you 'instantly rich'.🧵

And before you say, "But Madelaine! You're not super rich, how can you contribute here?" Money bores me to death after a childhood with stockbrokers. But here's how to actually 'get rich': 1. Stay the fuck out of saturated markets.

If all your sad little incel friends are also buying and selling in the same market, it's hot. And hot means volatile. Big fish will win, you definitely won't. You'll be buying at the highest pricepoint with minimal insight.

As a high value female, I've decided to take incel culture seriously and dissected this highly scientific dating advice that will definitely work. Everyone knows retired kickboxers in Romanian jails are the authority on human behavioural ecology.

So here's what to do 🧵 1. Invest your hard earned capital in buying between 30-40 cars.

I didn't know this before I educated myself, but what I actually want as a HVF is a man with a taxi fleet. Women are famously highly knowledgeable and interested in cars, and this is essential for attracting them.

Misogyny busting, a thread 🧵

1. "Women have low IQs"

Women have equal IQs to men on a global scale, and trend towards scoring more highly in school and exams. 2. "Women are less intelligent"

Women have equal intelligence scores to men, but men are more likely to overestimate their intelligence.

You didn't rape her but you did get her drunk with the purpose of lowering her inhibitions. You didn't rape her but you lied to her about the situation in order to get her consent. You didn't rape her but you did insinuate that it was unsafe for her to withdraw consent. You didn't rape her but you did demand sex in exchange for shelter and her safety. You didn't rape her but you did target a woman you felt would be vulnerable enough to do what you wanted. You didn't rape her but you didn't ask because you knew she would have said no.

Ask away, usual rules apply

ngl.link/madelainelucyh… Guys I'm not responding to anything explicitly sexual, obviously

If you're a parent, please read this ⚠️

Your daughter- and possibly son- will probably be in a position where someone has naked pictures of them without their consent or permission. Please read this before doing anything.

(thread) 1. It's super normalised in my generation (under 30s) to send nudes. Most couples do. Unfortunately, the pressure starts really young and your child *cannot* consent or choose to send images freely. Your child is a victim.