How ancestors choose a partner for you ?

Ancestors take their time to choose a right partner for you because they do a lot of vetting to ensure alignment. Before you meet person you going to marry the agreement is already done by both your ancestors that’s why in most cases you just know when you meet the one. What do ancestors look for ? The purpose of marriage has to do with building a home and taking care of the generations wealth or fixing of what needs to be fixed to bring back what ancestors lost during apartheid. You find that each family

Our April prayer and ukuphahla will start tmrw at midnight. 🕯🙏🏻🪔 I feel ever so recharged spiritually. It’s going to be a powerful one 😅. No more spirit of laziness. I specifically got instructions from my guides that we must use 3 white candles for this prayer. You will decide what will be your prayer point, anything from healing , health, money , genuine love, marriage and being spiritually aligned. What’s important is that you specific in what you asking for. I look forward to what’s installed for this prayer 🤲.

Using Maternal or Paternal Ancestors surname

A surname is very important in a person’s life. A child born out of wedlock must use their maternal surname, they are a child from the uncle side. I would like to go deeper in terms of what ancestors consider to be out of wedlock, a child born when no ancestral ceremony (amahlabiso) exchange of gifts was done after lobola to join both ancestors is consider to be born out of marriage, therefore they must use their mother’s surname for their things to progress in life. What most people do is that they

Ukuphahla for a Partner

To ask for a partner is something that takes time and patience. You as a person, must be individually ready, spiritually, emotionally and financially because there will be work that needs to be done. How idlozi choose a partner, is based on the qualities that your partner will have in assisting you build a home and fix the generational mess or bloodline. It’s not always about fixing but it’s mostly about building a home together for your lineage. How idlozi choose a partner for you will be based on the need for each other,

Spirit of Amakhosi

A spirit of amakhosi is the spirit that is from ancestors from royalty. There are surnames that are known to be royal , the ancestors from such clans pass their spirit down to the next generation as a spirit of amakhosi. How do you know you have it ? People with such spirit dream mostly of wild animals, especially wild cats like Lions, Leopards , tigers etc. You also dream of oceans eg. sharks🌊 most of the times. Amakhosi spirited people self initiate, by this I mean, you are guided in your dreams, how to evoke your spirit.

Your paternal ancestors don't have anything to do with your father's physical absence and abuse to you, your mom or the family. They will still want to gift you or protect you even though your father was absent. Over and above that,they will clash with your maternal ancestors The maternal ancestors rightful owns you if your parents were not married traditionally kwathelwa izinyongo. Uzwe kuthiwa ubangwa amadlozi. In the case, the maternal ancestors raised you, when you phahla you call them first then the father's side after