I just did the craziest thing. Someone at a friend's party asked why people have pronouns in their email signatures now & I managed to keep my mouth shut for exactly 60 seconds before the weight of the last 3 years of suffering in silence came spilling out.🧵 I'm sure my husband is going to kill me later but I absolutely couldn't be silent any longer. These are people I've known for years and, even better, they are highly connected in our state government AND they were all clueless about how activists are /2