Ever wondered how to tell if someone is going to be good in bed without sleeping with them?
Want to know how to have mind blowing, seeing stars sex with your spouse?
It's easy.
If you know how.
//THREAD// 1) Sex is a physical event.
If you are out of shape (especially the man) its going to be a very short and unfulfilling event.
Cant run for 5 minutes?
You are going to struggle to have 30 minutes of hot, intense sex.
Done right its going to leave you sweaty and out of breath.
May 12, 2022 • 7 tweets • 3 min read
🧵The Handmaids Tale is left over women's fantasy🧵
The Handmaid’s Tale has become feminists most popular fetish. They can't stop thinking about it, referencing it and dressing up as handmaids.
But why?
Whats the appeal to them?
I will explain 👇
What I know about the story I have been told by the feminists commentating on my tweets.
In a world with fertility rates are falling, there are many mid at best left over women with no man. These women (handmaids) are used to produce babies for the rich and powerful men.
👇
Mar 8, 2022 • 6 tweets • 2 min read
🧵 Message For Men Who Feel Emotionally Dead 🧵
Men, husbands, fathers, millions of you have been hollowed out by life
Now you find it hard to connect with your wife, your children and even your friends
No joy, no pleasure, no peace
You can fix this and live again
//THREAD//
Men are told to either have no emotions (suppression) or to allow their emotions free reign over them
Both sets of advice are wrong and unhealthy
Both lead to being disconnected from others, alone
You can be surrounded by people and still be very alone
Mar 7, 2022 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
🧵 Should I Cut A Manipulator Out Of My Life? 🧵
We live in a world saturated with manipulation
Once you wake up to it, it can become very uncomfortable to deal with manipulators in your life
So what should you do? Cut them out?
What if they are family or friends?
//THREAD//
Should I Cut A Manipulator Out Of My Life?
This is NOT an easy question to answer
There is no simple yes/no binary answer
Most people manipulate (or try to) others at least once in their lifetime
It works so well that few have made real efforts to completely stop manipulating
Mar 2, 2022 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
Dear fathers and mothers;
Imagine that you are facing an unhappy marriage or even divorce. Or your children are rebelling, you dont know how to fix things.
How much would you be willing to invest to bring peace, trust and intimacy back into your marriage and family?
Most people just idly watch their families fall apart, unwilling to do anything including asking for help.
A divorce costs at least $20k per person. Getting the help they need to keep it healthy is less than half that. People need to realistically think investing in family.
Feb 28, 2022 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
🧵Redirect Unhealthy Behaviour 🧵
My son was having some OCD type behaviours, constantly checking if the fridge door was closed, worrying about the food going bad.
Instead of telling him to stop, I told him to do it more.
"Go check the fridge" every 2 minutes.
///THREAD///
"Go check the fridge"
"Its good"
"Go check the fridge again just to be sure"
"ok" (repeat 20x)
"Its fine Dad, Im not checking it again, this is annoying"
"Ok, if you're sure the fridge is closed you can stop"
"Hey, I no longer feel the need to check the fridge"
"I know"
Feb 22, 2022 • 9 tweets • 2 min read
🧵You're not committed, you're just kidding yourself🧵
"We are not married but committed"
Commitment has rules. Follow the rules or it's not real. That isn't sexy, but it's true.
I will teach you the rules to make a real, lasting commitment, just keep reading.
///THREAD///
All valid commitments include the following:
1) A two party agreement 2) Commitment specifics (to do or not do what?) 3) An objective measure of failure 4) A time limit 5) A system of enforcement of the agreement
Details on each are below.
Feb 22, 2022 • 16 tweets • 5 min read
🧵Speak with authority🧵
Most gurus speak as insecure children, but not Jesus, people said this of him:
"The crowds were astonished at His teaching, because He taught as one who had authority"
How can you learn to speak and teach as "one who has authority"?
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1)Do not speak about anything you dont understand
You can not speak with authority on subjects you are not highly knowledgeable in
Too many people follow a few twitter accounts about a subject for 3 months and then start coaching on that subject
Stop it, you are hurting people
Jan 27, 2022 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
🧵Finding husbands for high value women🧵
She was exceptionally brilliant, beautiful, tall, well read, artistic, charming and sweet
But she came from a broken home and had no frame for what a marriage should be
But she was smart enough to know she needed help
//THREAD
Women want a man thats more than them in every way
Thats easy for average women
Challenging for top 1% women
So I had my client run the numbers (she loved math and statistics)
How many men in America were smarter, taller, better educated and more socially connected than her?
Dec 26, 2021 • 6 tweets • 2 min read
🧵"I want to marry a good christian" 🧵
is a self sabotaging statement that is often used by Christians who have intimacy issues to disqualify every potentional mate
Let me explain and give you a better heuristic for finding what you want in a partner
//THREAD
Jesus said “No one is good except God alone." (Mark 10:18)
Jesus would not allow a follower to call him "good"
Looking for a "good" Christian mate implies we are also judging ourselves as "good" Christians
This is contrary to the humble spirt that Jesus encouraged