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Jul 10 9 tweets 4 min read
No one has given me a good enough answer for why Americans never got interested in Soccer. America is a sports obsessed nation. Soccer is a great sport.

So what why isn't popular?

Soccer is a lower-body sport, and America is an upper-body culture.

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/your-competi… There's an upper body bias that runs throughout American culture that we can't recognize.

For the same reason people don't notice their own accents.

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Jul 8 8 tweets 3 min read
This is another flaw of representative democracy.

A whole Senate race can collapse into the personal drama of one man, even though the real question of government is supposed to be policy

Feminizes the electorate

Forces citizens to think like gossip columnists instead of law Sometimes we forget. Democracy has two forms. We assume it only has one. That's because 98 percent of countries use only one form. It is not the original form though.

It is deeply flawed. Some would even say it is a broken model right now. Image
Jul 6 4 tweets 2 min read
Trump and infantino understand the world cup is a TV show pretending to be a sporting competition. Letting America's best player back on the pitch in a stunning decision is going to increase ratings in the world's most important market. This is how you really grow the game. There it is. Straight from the horses mouth
Jun 24 6 tweets 4 min read
Is New York City a cult?

The goal for many people now is simply to live in a superstar city. Not do anything interesting there. Not to save money, not to own a home, or start a family. Being there is the achievement.

The city is not a means to an end.

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/the-cult-of-… The truth is, cities are really nice now. The human capital there is top tier. They have morphed into adult playgrounds. They are fun places. NYC is much different than today than it was in the 60s/70s/80s.

Cities are Lindy, they outlast the nations they exist in. Image
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Jun 12 11 tweets 5 min read
Why are Americans known as easy to scam? Why do they get overcharged at restaurants, taxis and tourist traps around the world? Even by businesses at home. Or with FIFA and WC ticket prices.

Because being a sucker is less shameful than being a loser

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/on-getting-s… French newspapers did an investigation in Paris and found out restaurants were scamming Americans with extra charges. Serving them different food than other french people.

This is somewhat surprising to many, as Paris is supposed to be safe. Image
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May 28 6 tweets 3 min read
The same cup of coffee can taste bad at a luxury resort and perfectly fine at a cheap hotel. Even if the coffee didn’t change. Our expectation changed.

Satisfaction = Experience + Expectation

Half of satisfaction is in our power. But we get manipulated
lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/the-expectat… Airports make people feel stupid. Even smart people. They’re a prison crossed with a mall.

McDonald’s does well there. The airport degrades judgment, so people reach for the one thing that will not surprise them. Fast food. Image
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May 16 8 tweets 4 min read
Hollywood and TV never put Greeks into their movies or shows on Greek epics (or Roman too). That's how it has been since the movie industry started. I'm not even talking about the stars, even just background characters.

When it makes Japanese history films, it casts Japanese actors. When it makes Nordic epics, it casts Scandinavians. Medieval English or French stories usually get English or French actors. Native American films cast NA actors.

Even, Christopher Nolan himself has done a historical film on Dunkurque and cast British actors.

The reason is most people see Greece as medieval Europe with sandals. Medievalism. Medievalism means the clothes look like 12th century france or uK. the actors look like french or english. The setting resembles some sort of village somewhere in western europe. Image
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Apr 27 4 tweets 2 min read
Remember the Lindy rule. Humans only talk to things that are alive

1) Other humans

2) Themselves

3) animals

4) Things embodied with spiritual significance (gravestones, holy places, prayer)

We could all just sit and talk to our computers now. We have the technology. But we don't. It feels weird. We sit and type in silence.

Many people have tried so far to create a talking device. all have failedImage Remember the Lindy Rule

Mar 30 11 tweets 5 min read
America was built on the assumption of upward mobility. That expectation has shaped Americans' nature.

Now that downward mobility is becoming more common, the country lacks the cultural tools to absorb it.

It is producing new types of people.

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/downward-mob… Take a second to reflect the optimistic nature inherent in American english Image
Mar 16 26 tweets 11 min read
Why are people having fewer babies? Because fewer couples are forming

Why are fewer couples forming? Because love is now the minimum threshold for longterm relationships

The problem is that love is rare. It always has been

So we need to talk about love
lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/love-will-ch… The couple is the load-bearing infrastructure of modern society.

Two people meet. They fall in love. They couple up. They buy a home, have children, raise them, and eventually retire side by side. Modern life flows downstream from that sequence. The two-income mortgage. The tax structure. The real estate market. Universities. The suburbs. The school system. The pension system.

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Mar 13 6 tweets 2 min read
Male fashion never existed. There was one uniform they all wore, with slight variations. It made you look good, it didn't require individual expression, or cognitive exertion.

Now that the system of one male uniform has collapsed, most men gravitate to comfort. Rational. But an uglier society think of the latest male uniform. The suit. The top matches the bottom. It looks good for fat and skinny people, tall or short. women love it. It provides warmth but also light enough to be worn in sunny days.

that's all gone

until a male uniform comes back, society will always favor comfort
Mar 5 10 tweets 5 min read
How do you judge if someone is smart?

IQ? Net worth? Job performance? Reproductive success? Amount of leisure? Sometimes these contradict.

Is it current success? What about someone stuck in a bad country or ahead of his time and is vindicated later?

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/predicting-t… The other issue with judging intelligence is we get roles confused.

Every functioning society requires maintainers and scouts. Like a beehive. If you're society has too many scouts lookign for new trails and food sources, and not enough maintainers, it gets destroyed. Same thing if it doesn't have enough maintainers.

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Feb 18 9 tweets 3 min read
Feb 11 4 tweets 2 min read
Men haven't changed much. They've been liberated for a long time. There's nothing interesting happening with men.

The real modern change is the complete emancipation and liberation of women. That's what's interesting because now you're seeing behaviors that never existed before with that gender. The media wants to focus on men. But the real story is how women are changing

Feb 9 12 tweets 6 min read
The problem with reputation is you don’t own it. It lives in other people’s minds and can be destroyed overnight

Ideally, we’d have integrity. But few people do

Consistency is the practical substitute. If you can’t be good, just be the same everywhere

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/reputation-a… The Epstein emails are from the 2010s but sound very modern. His network was a decade ahead of everyone else at the time. These were people who built a great reputation to get his attention. Image
Jan 21 21 tweets 8 min read
Clearance is how systems stay alive.

From health to relationships to creativity to attention

Anything that enters a system has a window to exit. Miss the window and it starts to become a problem.

Accept this principle and your life gets better

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/the-clearanc… A few day to day examples of clearance:

Traveling can easily make us sick. Flush out your nasal and throat passages right when you arrive at your destination. Clear those microbes. It works

Take a way after you eat. Walking turns your largest tissue system into a disposal mechanism at the exact moment blood sugar is highestImage
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Dec 19, 2025 6 tweets 4 min read
What people miss isn’t the past. They miss the moment when new things were optional

An inherent property of progress is it turns options into obligations

Life can be objectively better and subjectively heavier. Why the future never feels like the future
lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/from-option-… Most nostalgia centers around life on the sweet spot of this curve Image
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Dec 18, 2025 7 tweets 2 min read
Classical parenting resembles modern pet ownership

Modern parenting resembles endangered-species conservation
Dec 11, 2025 10 tweets 5 min read
There are two ways to rise in the world.

Force your will on the world, or hold your position until the world shifts in your favor.

Survive in case you get lucky

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/stay-alive-i… Americans are experiencing a profound shift in priorities, traditional sources of meaning like patriotism, religion, community, and family have collapsed and have been replaced by a singular focus on money and economic survival.Image
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Nov 21, 2025 13 tweets 7 min read
Why do people dress so badly?

10% of men are fashion obsessed and push for personal style

while 90% of men retreat into comfort because nothing has replaced the suit, which solved male fashion without effort

Until a new male uniform emerges we’re stuck
lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/why-do-we-dr… For centuries, 90 percent of men have always wore some type of uniform. They didn't expand energy on what to wear each morning or attempt to create a personal style

That was already solved by society and tradition

today that's gone.

Leaving 10 percent of fashionable men to pretend they were the normal ones throughout historyImage
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Nov 14, 2025 17 tweets 6 min read
Golden ages of art occur when a field briefly offers outsized rewards (money, status, or freedom)

this creates a window that pulls high-ability people into it, but only temporarily

Talent follows incentives

when rewards fade, the talent pool drains

lindynewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/talent-follo… Can you get rich playing rock music anymore? Not today

But you could at one point, and this drew people who would normally not be playing rock music.

but those people are gone now.

That doesn't mean the music is bad now, it's just different people playing it Image