@Pm1oPm1o @sentientist I recently was reminded that my grandparents' generation kept separate bedrooms. It kept the spark alive. Today, I love the idea. Bec you keep being yourself, rather than swallowing up each other's individuality, & sleep more soundly, yet still get together as often as you want. @Pm1oPm1o @sentientist That being said, women today act in lieu of masculine care they desire. It causes them to lead, to provide, prove their value, bec their feminine, the soft, nurturing side, the side wanting to be protected, has become smothered & neglected by men not stepping up to the plate.