The framing of this is completely wrong and illustrates how most women are so programmed with feminism that they can’t even think relationships except in an oppositional, transactional way. More ⬇️

https://twitter.com/the_feminist_tm/status/1850545474358444310

This isn’t my favorite subject, but the discourse around it is so unhealthy that I will reluctantly weigh in. Over the lifetime of a marriage, you will have children and go through hard times. Life will be busy and stressful. People who think the way that this woman does are never gonna make it. Why? Because especially for women, when we are stressed out or busy we are not going to just “be in the mood” first and then have the sex. We are often going to be better served going with it even if it’s not the top priority and getting into it as things move along. If you’re waiting for all the conditions to be perfect, it’s simply not going to happen a lot of the time. Women like Jennifer think life is a fairytale, and that there has to be romance and arousal FIRST before anything can happen. But busy, hectic family life isn’t the movies. You have to think of it the opposite way. You married a person that you love and you are attracted to. During times of stress and busyness those feelings aren’t going to come first and be readily apparent like they are when you’re dating and everything is relaxed and easy. BUT, this is where they get things wrong again. They think I’m telling women to have sex even if they don’t want to. That’s not what I’m saying. It’s kind of like when you’re trying to get in shape. How many days are you busy and stressed out and don’t feel like going to the gym? but you’re committed to your health so you go anyway BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID, and once you’re there and you get warmed up, you might have the best workout of your life. It’s going to be like this with every committment in life. Whether it’s a big goal, college, career, fitness, etc. you know the long-term goal is important to you, but there are definitely going to be days where you feel tired, stressed, and just not in the mood to pursue the goal. But you do it anyway because you know if you don’t you won’t get anywhere. You cannot only take care of your spouse and love them when you’re in the mood. If you go in with this mindset, YOU WILL FAIL. So it’s not about “having sex when you don’t want to.” HE IS YOUR HUSBAND. You always want to, it’s just that sometimes you’re not in the mood because you are stressed, tired, or distracted. But you have to have a long-term mindset of being committed to the physical part of your marriage or you’re going to miss out on it. AND THATS A HUGE LOSS FOR THE WOMAN! All I’m trying to say is that women who have this mindset are actually ruining it for themselves just as much as they are ruining it for their husband. Couples who learn to get into it, even when the conditions are far from perfect, are the ones who have the most enjoyable sex lives. Sometimes when everything else in life is going wrong, this can be the one area that you can still control and enjoy with your favorite person. It will keep you close during those tough times . I didn’t wanna have to be the one to explain this, but sometimes nobody else is willing to say this stuff. These used to be conversations women had with their grandmothers, but I feel like feminism ruined that.

The commander in chief of the world’s most powerful military is unable to campaign, hasn’t been seen for 5 days, can’t meet with world leaders during wartime, but is still in power. Given the bizarre events of the last 4 years- is this controlled demolition of democracy? The global elite have been writing that democratic nation states are just a stepping stone to global technocracy. Are they ready to pull the plug on the illusion, ushering in economic calamity and chaos? Then they declare the need for a New World Order to rebuild and restabilize? Given how incredibly bizarre the last 8 years have been I don’t think it’s that crazy to suggest.

I already cleared up this stupid leap about married men, but more importantly, I want to be super clear about something. If you’re looking for someone to get young women active in “conservative”politics, I’m not the one. 🧵🪡⬇️

https://twitter.com/cheshirepixie89/status/1776011511346966643

When I was younger, I paid a lot of attention to domestic politics. As I got older and learned, did a lot of research, and observed several political cycles, I realized right and left in this country are two wings of the same bird. Both parties are controlled by blackmail.

There’s a lot of new people responding to my tweets who think they are dunking on me by saying “wow you should thank feminism for your ability to speak or write books.” The idea that women weren’t allowed to do those things prior to 1920 is a commonly held myth. 🧵 In my own book, I address this misunderstanding. The first thing worth noting is that freedoms have varied widely for ALL people depending on the time and place in which they lived. Modern feminists don’t care about all of the options and freedoms women had available to them at… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…

For the people who don’t understand my tweet about not wanting women to vote unless they are duplicating their husbands vote, there are a few things you should know. You don’t realize how many presupposes you’ve never questioned. So here goes 🧵 1. Because you’re the product of western democracy, you’ve been immersed in propaganda your whole life that tells you western democracy with universal suffrage is the best system that’s ever existed. Have you ever thought about the fact that this system is only a century old?

My husband just went on the most-based epic rant I have ever heard in my life in the basement. You guys would’ve loved it. I’m kicking myself for not recording him! 😭😤 he’s got to start streaming these. A southern accent. Boomer Hannity takes. BPF was like “we’re done. Get the fuck off my screen. Get the fuck out of my country and off of my planet! You don’t get it. They’re not just going to live and let you live. There are communists on twitch right now who want to take control

😔 I see some of these right wing girls on TickTock being anti-feminist, and I almost kind of want to support them and be friends, except they still do a lot of attention seeking behavior and there’s not a lot of depth there. It’s mostly “my place is in the kitchen!” And.... “Wow I love masculine men!” While wearing a crop top or a plunging neck line with ass loads of make up. I don’t hear much in the way of coherent arguments in favor of patriarchy either. It’s mainly just “I’m not like all the other modern feminist girls!Give me attention instead!”