This is a cursed question but did this child actor really suck on this woman real breast for this scene lmao I’m re-watching and it just hit me that’s weird af Renly was really out here QUEERING medieval times okay!?!

- gay
- had a slut for a wife (who served looks)
- let brienne in the king’s guard
- was fucking a knight

TW// abuse

Super excited to read "Why Does He Do That?" Bancroft, the author, worked with abusive men for over 20 years.

The book explores exactly what the title says - why abusers abuse.

I'm going to live tweet over the next few months as I read along 🙃 So, I read chapter 1 tonight. Bancroft briefly outlines what the book will be about and covers a few common questions partners of abusers typically ask.

Here, he discusses how important it is to speak directly to *partners* of abusers TO GET THE ACCURATE STORY.

Have you ever listened to men talk about choosing partners/how they chose their wives?

Becoming a wife and being chosen as a wife is supposed to be this major achievement for women but have you actually heard men speak about that process? Because It’s jokes.

The “your orgasm is your responsibility” rhetoric is loaded af & upholds patriarchal ideas of hetero sex based on inequity.

I can’t take it serious as a talking point until hetero men prioritize women’s orgasms the same way hetero women are socialized to prioritize men’s.

https://twitter.com/afrovii/status/1057719832169320449

I’ve heard (and I think I may have supported, at one point smh) “your orgasm is your responsibility” solely to encourage women to figure out how to orgasm during partnered-sex by any means necessary so at least we’re cumming, even if it’s by our own hand.

But that’s bullshit.

It took me a long time to verbalize what’s happening emotionally for me when shit doesn’t go my way.

For many years I thought (and other people thought) I was just being a brat. And so I gaslit myself and others minimized my feelings to petty temper tantrums.

And shit never got resolved.

Is there gay secks in Game of Thrones? Bout to start Game of Thrones 👀

Just sitting here thinking about how we're socialized to see women's bodies - how thinner bodies are considered more classy/respectable... And how we sexualize thicker (hour glass, ass/tits, etc) bodies and totally dispose of fat bodies.