31 solutions that will teach you more about a being a man than any self-help book

1) Have MORE kids 2) Your relationship with your wife comes first. Yes, even before your kids.

3) Prioritize your family over work. Your work will always be there, your kids at home won't.

Video games have become an inevitable part of MOST kids’ lives. But it doesn’t HAVE to be

Here's why you should limit them and why they are harmful to your kids: First, too much video games WILL have a detrimental effect on your kid’s physical health

Prolonged sitting in front of a screen can lead to:
• Poor posture
• Eye strain
• Headaches
• Obesity

Kids who spend more time playing video games are less likely to engage in physical activities, which will lead to a sedentary lifestyle and an increased risk of chronic diseases later in life

Screen time inside is killing your relationship with your kids

Here's 8 activities for you to get them outside and connecting with you: 1) Go for a hike

You need exercise. Your kids need exercise.

This is a no-brainer

You can make it interesting by playing "I Spy" and look for things along the way, like as animals, plants, or interesting sites

You can't get your toddler to listen to you

You aren't alone

Here's what to do: 1) Understand their perspective

Even if you don't agree with it, you need to understand their point of view

Your toddler is learning how to communicate their needs and wants

From their perspective, you can better address their concerns and help them regulate their emotions

Need to keep a better track of how your parenting efforts are going?

Do this: 1) Daily Review

Spend 10-15 minutes each day reflecting on your parenting experiences

Identify any challenges or successes you encountered and consider how you can improve

For example, your son lost his temper. Were you patient with him or did you yell back?

10 activities every dad and son MUST do at least once: 1) Attend a Sporting Event

Whether you're into baseball, basketball, football, or soccer

Go to a game together and bond over a shared love of sports and competition

Who you marry is the MOST important decision of your life

Here's why: -Your wife must have your back in all aspects of life

From the good times to the bad., she will be your support system, your closest confidant, and most importantly the mother of your children

You are capable alone but together you are stronger

60 things your daughter should hear: 1)I love you
2)You are beautiful, inside and out
3)You are smart and capable
4)I am proud of you
5)You make me smile
6)You are important
7)I believe in you
8)You have the best laugh
9)You have a great sense of humor
10)You inspire me to be a better man

4 simple parenting hacks to massively improve your life that you can read in less than 4 minutes 1) Pivot

Pivoting is saying "yes" instead of "no"

Instead of saying: “No, we can’t have a snack until after you have a nap,”

Pivot

Say: “Yes, we can have a snack when you wake up from your nap.”

Your son will learn from watching you

What you show them today will determine how they behave in the future

What YOU need to do while he is watching: 1) How to treat women

Treat your wife and mother as a gentleman

A gentleman is courteous, polite, and respectful

Example: Put your phone down, make eye contact, and LISTEN to your wife when she is speaking to you

Every kid loves a water activity in the summer

Be a HERO and set up these Dad made aquatic adventures: 1) Slip n Slide:

You need:
-hose
-plastic sheeting
-baby shampoo

•Lay the sheet down in the lawn
•Lather on the shampoo
•Hose down with water

Run and slide!

Your daughter needs to embrace her femininity

Here are 5 moments you need to praise her female nature

: 1) Caretaker

Your daughter will ask or shows interest in taking care for another

It could be a sibling, grandparent, dog, or even a stuffed animal

This is a sign of her nurturing character as a woman and should be appreciated

16 Glaring Stats on Fatherless Homes: 1) 85% of kids who are currently in prison grew up in a fatherless home
2) Kids without a father are 4 times more likely to be living in poverty
3) About 25 MILLION kids don't have their biological father at home
4) Kids are twice as likely to drop out of school

You can't be a good parent without patience

Here are 6 ways to improve your patience that will save you from countless mistakes: 1) Set realistic expectations

Unrealistic expectations will cause you more pain and anxiety

Kids are going to make messes, mistakes, and get into trouble

Setting realistic expectations for them will help you become less frustrated with their behavior

How to discipline your kids without yelling: 1) Have Clear Rules

Your rules need to be understood and known to your kids

If your kid breaks a rule, then follow up with a consequence

How to get your toddler to listen to you: 1) Stay calm

Be calm and firm at the same time

Quit yelling. It never works

For example, take a deep breath instead of "WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT?"

20 truths about raising kids you MUST know:

1) Physical discipline is NEVER the answer

2) Being strict will NOT guarantee obedient kids

3) You need to expose your kids to what the world really is 4) Don't compare your kid to any other kid

5) You're going to screw up. Learn from it

6) You will be a better parent if you listen first

7) You must build your kids confidence AND curiosity

8) If you fear everything, so will your kid

Why kids need their mother AND father present in their lives: A healthy marriage models a caring and supportive relationship for your kids

Kids will then look for similar relationships in their future

If you want respectful kids,

You need to raise them with important values.

Here are 7 techniques to upgrade your parenting: 1.Respect their decisions

•It’s a two-way street and they need to be allowed
to make their own decisions
•Give them a chance and if they make a mistake
then it’s a teachable moment

How to earn the respect of your wife, ↓↓↓ 1. Listen to her

Put your phone or book down, turn the tv off, stop doing other tasks and look her in the eyes while she speaks