Your career has a strategy.

Your fitness has a plan.

Your dating life...?

That's the gap between successful and fulfilled.

Here's the 12-week strategy that took 19 men from dates to ring shopping: Most men treat dating like a numbers game.

More apps. More approaches. More dates.

Then wonder why nothing sticks.

The bottleneck isn't quantity. It's that you're unprepared when opportunity shows up.

Most men ask boring interview questions on dates.

'What do you do for work?' 'Where are you from?' 'Any hobbies?'

She answered the same questions from 5 other guys this week.

These 6 questions separate you from the pack: After coaching 193 men, I've seen the same pattern:

Guys who ask better questions get second dates.

Guys who do the male version of this stay single watching Netflix alone.

Here's what works:

Women decide if they want you in 30 seconds.

Most guys kill it with: 'How was your day?'

She doesn't want polite interview questions.

She wants playful tension.

3 simple tweaks to turn small talk into flirting: Most dating advice tells you to 'be confident.'

But that's useless. You need to know what sparks attraction.

These 3 small tweaks helped:

• Cody meet his fiancée
• David get 10 dates in 7 weeks
• Andrew go from 6 years single to married

Here's what you need to do:

99% of women won't directly reject a man.

They use subtle signals instead.

5 signs most men miss: 1) She Uses Polite (but distant) Language

'That sounds fun' vs 'I hope you have fun!'

'Good luck with that' vs 'Tell me how it goes'

Small word choices reveal big emotional distance.

10 signs you're dating a woman who will ruin your life.

Most men ignore #8 until it's too late.

1) She has a gay best friend
He's her emotional boyfriend.

You'll always come second to his drama.

Every dating guru sells you lies:

• "Just be yourself"
• "The right one will come"
• "Focus on your career first"

All BS.

Here's the 8 lies that keep you single: 1) "Don't chase women" is code for "be passive."

Don't mask fear with pride.

Set a timeline. Take action. Measure results.

Whether you get a second date comes down to your questions.

Bad ones:

• Make her bored
• Kill sexual tension
• Create awkward silences

Good ones make her cancel her other dates.

5 questions that make her think about you all week: Start Light:

1) "What's something about your job that most people don't understand?"

Most guys ask "What do you do?"

This gets her talking passionately about her expertise.

Women remember how you made them feel, not what you bought them.

8 small gestures to make any woman feel special: 1) Notice when she looks good.

Tell her immediately.

"You look beautiful in that dress" hits different than generic compliments.

Divorce rates hit 50%.

But some marriages still last 50+ years.

The difference isn't luck.

It's these 5 decisions smart men make: 1) They choose character over looks.

Pretty faces fade. Good character lasts forever.

Look for:

• How she treats waiters
• How she handles stress
• Whether she keeps her word

Most guys wouldn't notice if a woman was interested if she sat on his lap and asked for his number.

Here's 10 signs she's practically throwing herself at you: 1) She mirrors you without realizing it.

Repeats your phrases. Copies your body language. Matches your speaking pace.

Unconscious mimicking = attraction.

I've seen hundreds of men blow it with women.

Same mistakes. Every time.

Here are the 8 that repel her: 1) You sit across from her on dates.

Creates a barrier. Makes it feel like a job interview.

Sit next to her instead.

Liberal women go to nightclubs and yoga.

Conservative women don't.

8 places to find a wife (not a hookup):

1) Dog Parks
Take your own or borrow a friends.

Women here put loyalty and commitment first.

"I can't get the quality of women I want."

This is the #1 complaint I hear from successful men.

Then I show them the 2-step fix.

Within 6 months, they're dating women they want to marry.

(Most guys get this backwards): Step 1: Stop Playing Not to Lose

When the women you want don't want you it's because you get "tight" around them:

• You watch what you say
• You overthink every word
• You focus on trying to get her to like you

Who you are gets strangled by the pressure you feel.

If you're getting less than 5 matches a week on Hinge, read this:
I've audited 186 dating profiles and coached men who went from:

• 0 matches in 12 weeks → 28 matches in 3 days
• Got banned for too many matches
• Found their now wife

Here's what they did differently:

My wife's 6 closest friends are all married.

I asked them what mistake keeps good men single.

Their answer surprised me: These women married quality men.

They're not telling you to become a jerk.

But the mistake they all agreed on?

"You're too respectful."

Here's what they meant:

Most men marry the first woman who says yes.

Then spend 20 years wondering why they're unhappy.

Here's how to find a wife who makes you excited to come home. 🧵 1) Stop Dating Out of Loneliness

Desperation attracts the wrong women.

Work on yourself first. Build a life you love.

Then invite the right woman into it.

Some men command respect everywhere they go:

• At work
• On dates
• In their marriage

The secret?

They all know these 8 mind tricks. 🧵 1) The Mirror Trick

Match their energy level and how fast they speak.

People trust those who feel similar to them.

Your friends tell you to meet women at:

• Bars
• Work
• Nightclubs

That's why they're still single at 35.

Here's the 10 places successful men find their wives:
1) Dog Parks

Women love dogs.

And men who are good with animals is a green flag.

If you're successful but can't find a wife, read this: 1) The Issue

You:
• Have a great career
• Got the promotion
• Bought the house

But your dating life? It's a mess.

Why career success makes dating harder:

Summer is dating season.

But most guys still suggest "dinner and a movie."

Here are 10 better first date ideas:

1) Go to a Petting Zoo Play with the baby goats. Rabbits. Guinea pigs.

All women love these cute little creatures.

Don't forget: Dates are supposed to be FUN.

And going on a date like this show's your secure in who you are. And that's attractive.

Men who cry get laid more than men who don't.

Sounds crazy?

Here's the science behind why emotional vulnerability makes you irresistible: First, let's destroy a myth:

"Real men don't cry."

This toxic belief has left countless men suffer shame at their emotions. Worse? Its kept them single.

Women don't want fall in love with robots. They fall in love with other humans.

And science proves this...