My wife's 6 closest friends are all married.

I asked them what mistake keeps good men single.

Their answer surprised me: These women married quality men.

They're not telling you to become a jerk.

But the mistake they all agreed on?

"You're too respectful."

Here's what they meant:

Most men marry the first woman who says yes.

Then spend 20 years wondering why they're unhappy.

Here's how to find a wife who makes you excited to come home. 🧵 1) Stop Dating Out of Loneliness

Desperation attracts the wrong women.

Work on yourself first. Build a life you love.

Then invite the right woman into it.

Some men command respect everywhere they go:

• At work
• On dates
• In their marriage

The secret?

They all know these 8 mind tricks. 🧵 1) The Mirror Trick

Match their energy level and how fast they speak.

People trust those who feel similar to them.

Your friends tell you to meet women at:

• Bars
• Work
• Nightclubs

That's why they're still single at 35.

Here's the 10 places successful men find their wives:
1) Dog Parks

Women love dogs.

And men who are good with animals is a green flag.

If you're successful but can't find a wife, read this: 1) The Issue

You:
• Have a great career
• Got the promotion
• Bought the house

But your dating life? It's a mess.

Why career success makes dating harder:

Summer is dating season.

But most guys still suggest "dinner and a movie."

Here are 10 better first date ideas:

1) Go to a Petting Zoo Play with the baby goats. Rabbits. Guinea pigs.

All women love these cute little creatures.

Don't forget: Dates are supposed to be FUN.

And going on a date like this show's your secure in who you are. And that's attractive.

Men who cry get laid more than men who don't.

Sounds crazy?

Here's the science behind why emotional vulnerability makes you irresistible: First, let's destroy a myth:

"Real men don't cry."

This toxic belief has left countless men suffer shame at their emotions. Worse? Its kept them single.

Women don't want fall in love with robots. They fall in love with other humans.

And science proves this...

She said "let's be friends."

Translation: You failed these 3 attraction tests:

1) The Values Test
2) The Security Test
3) The Dominance Test

Here's how to pass them: 1) The Values Test

She's deciding: "Could I see a future with this man?"
So you MUST show her:

➡️ Your standards
➡️ Your character
➡️ Your goals

Without this, you can only ever be entertainment.
What's more?

“There are no good women left.”

Not true.

You’re just looking in the wrong places.

Top 10 places to meet your future wife in 2025:

1) Swing Dance classes. Show up solo.

Ask women to dance. Lead with confidence. Stay until the end.

(That’s when people chat and connect).

Swing dance is great for meeting a wife. It draws fun, conservative women who want a real relationship.

Why dating apps feel rigged against good men:

I went through 2,685 hours of coaching calls. And I found the REAL reason men with values can't find a wife online...

It’s not the algorithm.

It’s these 6 profile mistakes 🧵: 1) Show Value with No Substance

I've audited 100s of dating profiles

The most common mistake men make is they assume women KNOW they're a good man. And that means they don't try.

But you're strangers

So you need to let her know who you are. How? Let me explain...

50% of marriages end in divorce.

Follow these 5 tips to find a woman who won’t leave you:

1) Don't lead with money or status. Leading with money attracts gold diggers.

And at the first sign of trouble?

She'll look for a way out.

Because women who marry you for money don't want you. And will happily take their 50%.

So what should you do instead?

I’ve helped 177 men look for the right woman.

And I’ve noticed something shocking:

Most guys mess up in the first 30 minutes of a date – without knowing it.

Here are 12 first date mistakes that quietly kill your chances (and how to fix them): 1) Be interested, not interesting

Most guys try to impress women on first dates:

❌ They brag
❌ Name drop
❌ Mention how much they earn

But doing this screams: "I'm insecure!"

We teach our clients to take an interest in her. Because that makes her feel seen. And valued.

I went from single and ready to give up on dating to:

• Married
• 2 children
• Life of my dreams

It all changed when I learned how to find a wife (copy me): In them I saw my future:

I worked in a bar, and every night the same locals would turn up.

40 years old. Single. Divorced...

...miserable.

It was a fate I wanted to avoid at all costs. But whatever I was doing wasn't working...

Hinge is the best dating app in the world.

According to women, these are the top 10 opening lines:

1) "Sunday priorities: exercise, sleep, or aggressive mimosas?" Send this to any woman who does NOT use the prompt:

"My ideal Sunday includes..."

Why does it work?

By taking relatable activities and using them to reveal character traits -- with the playful twist at the end. She'll laugh.

(And then match).

25 tips to find a woman to spend your life with in 2025:

1) Stop looking for her at bars. 2) Being nervous on first dates is normal. But don't forget, she's nervous too. Take the pressure off by having a topic to dive into.

3) Girls don't JUST want to have fun. But they do want to have fun. If you're not enjoying your first dates, you won't get second ones.

25 tips that will help you find a wife more than any dating app ever could:

1) Your purpose must come before your relationship. You can't fill a woman's cup without filling yours, first. 2) Be ready to change everything in your life. If you won’t make big moves to chase what you want, women will see you as uncertain and uncommitted.

3) Don't use your family as an excuse.

4) The more attracted to her you are, the more you should feel driven to talk to her.

25 Questions that will help you build more attraction than any pick-up line ever will:

1)“What do you do for fun that most people wouldn’t guess about you?” 2) "What’s something you’re really passionate about right now?"

3) “If you could wake up tomorrow as an expert in anything, what would it be?”

4) "If you could only eat one type of cuisine for the rest of your life, what would it be?"

I’ve coached 167 conservative men to find girlfriends.

Here’s the surprising truth about why most right-wing men stay single… In the past 60 years Feminism has changed dating.

And the people who have been most left behind?

Conservative men.

But Feminism ignored the reality of how *healthy* relationships operate...

I’ve analyzed 837 Dates.

Here’s what actually makes women say "Yes" to a second… In the past 4 years I've helped 167 men go on 837 dates with 462 women.

I analyzed all their experiences and figured out there's two reasons women say "yes" to a second...

(Receipts attached...)

There's a wrong way to message women.

If you don't do it right?

She'll stop responding and you'll never get a date.

So here's how to message women *correctly*: Why is messaging so important?

Well, because attraction is like a fire. In the early stages? Even breathing wrong can put it out.

Bad messages never give you chance to make a relationship which burns bright.

So what are the most common messaging mistakes?

50% of all marriages end in divorce.

Why? Because we've lost sight of a powerful truth...

Master this? And you’ll never fear a woman walking away.

(Bookmark this if you're single): Understanding this principle helped:

- Jeremy get married and have his first child
- David meet his life partner and have a kid
- Ian get engaged
- Me get married and have 2 kids

So what is it...?