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Nov 7 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
There's a wrong way to message women.
If you don't do it right?
She'll stop responding and you'll never get a date.
So here's how to message women *correctly*:
Why is messaging so important?
Well, because attraction is like a fire. In the early stages? Even breathing wrong can put it out.
Bad messages never give you chance to make a relationship which burns bright.
So what are the most common messaging mistakes?
Nov 5 • 14 tweets • 5 min read
50% of all marriages end in divorce.
Why? Because we've lost sight of a powerful truth...
Master this? And you’ll never fear a woman walking away.
(Bookmark this if you're single):
Understanding this principle helped:
- Jeremy get married and have his first child
- David meet his life partner and have a kid
- Ian get engaged
- Me get married and have 2 kids
So what is it...?
Apr 20 • 15 tweets • 3 min read
The 5 unique dating challenges faced by Christian software engineers:
The modern dating landscape is confusing.
The dating world has not yet caught up to the social and technological changes of the past 60+ years.
But Christian software engineers face a unique set of challenges...
Here’s the top 5 (and how you can overcome them):
Aug 21, 2023 • 27 tweets • 8 min read
Logan Paul, Dylan Danis and the archetypal tragedy of a Fool and his Succubus:
Don't have the cultural awareness of a crustacean?
Then you will be familiar with the drama between Dylan Danis, Logan Paul, and his fiancée, Nina Agdal.
Salaciousness aside?
There are deeper undercurrents at play...
...so take a moment -- prepare your spirit -- and enjoy:
Jul 6, 2023 • 12 tweets • 4 min read
You live in a big city.
Exercise. Make good money. Have a great career.
But you struggle to find a quality woman.
Here's why...
New York. Boston. Miami.
All big cities, with a lot of women. Yet despite being surrounded by options, many men still struggle to find relationships here.
Why...?
Because our relationship with OTHERS is downstream of our relationship with OURSELVES.
What do I mean...?
Jun 30, 2023 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
There are dozens of unwritten rules with dating
But there's one rule that will sabotage your chances of success...
Here's what is (and how to avoid it):
Whenever we spend time with people, there are unwritten social conventions.
When at work? We must behave a certain way
When with our family? We must act a certain way
When with friends? We can be a lot more relaxed 😎
But when you DON'T follow these rules?
Problems occur...
Jun 27, 2023 • 14 tweets • 4 min read
You don't need to take women out to a fancy dinner on a first date.
Maximize attraction by doing this instead:
Society tells men that we must "wine and dine" women to 'prove' our worth.
But when you do this, you immediately put her in the driver's seat.
Why?
Because this says: "I'm trying to impress you."
And you surrender all frame as a result.
So what should you do instead...?
Jun 9, 2023 • 11 tweets • 4 min read
If you’re a man who's worried about the state of his relationships…
Here's how you can eliminate that anxiety forever
(In only 3 months):
"If you've got a good job, you'll have no problem getting women."
Might be true for some men. But for many, it's not.
And if you're a successful man who's worried about his future relationships?
I'm going to show you how to banish that anxiety forever...
Jun 6, 2023 • 16 tweets • 5 min read
Women want men who lead.
Here’s how to take charge on your next date:
Men are always told:
"You need to lead women!"
But are never told WHAT that leadership looks like...
...or HOW to lead.
So if you're a single, successful man who's confused about leading women?
You're about to discover how...
May 30, 2023 • 13 tweets • 5 min read
How to build a 'rejection-proof mindset'
(With real-world examples):
Ever wanted to ask a woman on a date, but worry she'll say "No"?
Its natural. Its normal. Being concerned she won't reciprocate is just a part of dating.
However, there's a problem with being held captive by this mentality.
(And not just that it leaves men stuck and single...)
May 23, 2023 • 14 tweets • 4 min read
There are 3 building blocks to every lasting relationship
Successful men who fail to attract quality women always miss one (or more) of these:
Everyone says all successful men need to attract women is:
1) Be in shape 2) Have a good job
But many men tick these boxes and STILL struggle to find a quality woman.
Why?
Because they miss one (or more) of 3 building blocks which EVERY relationship needs...
Apr 17, 2023 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
Everyone dated at high school except you.
But what does that mean for your relationships as an adult?
Well, I'm going to share with you a secret.
(Not a particularly well-kept one, honestly...)
Dating is a SKILL to BUILD.
And many men sharpened their ability at high school.
But not ALL men. So what does that mean for your current relationships if you didn't...?
Apr 16, 2023 • 5 tweets • 2 min read
Most common mistake men make after a break-up:
Thinking dating is going to be easy once they're single.
If you've been together a while, it's not just that the dating landscape has changed...
You have, too.
How you navigate this challenge is vital.
Get it wrong?
And 6 months single soon turns into years of bachelorhood.
Take one of my current clients...
Mar 11, 2023 • 17 tweets • 4 min read
Ever wonder why high-value women date broke losers?
(Note: The answer has NOTHING to do with sex or money):
We've all seen it.
A broke guy, lives with his parents and has no prospects.
Yet he always has a beautiful, high-value woman by his side.
Whilst at the same time a guy earning $300k a year can't get a reply to his messages.
So why do high-value women date broke losers?
Mar 10, 2023 • 4 tweets • 2 min read
Such a common misunderstanding to equate male sexual worth solely with their financial situation.
Women want to FEEL. A bland corporate drone cannot elicit what this man could.
Guarantee his emotional communication was on point.
Original QT talks about a guy earning $300k+ a year being unable to find a woman.
Blames 'modern women'.
More likely the guy is pathetically nice and duller than a draw of socks.
Mar 9, 2023 • 19 tweets • 6 min read
I'm married with 2 sons.
But if I were a single man looking for a serious relationship in 2023, here's what I'd do:
Finding a good woman for a serious relationship feels harder than ever.
Societal trends have made finding and connecting with quality women confusing.
But the good news?
Pair bonding is an inherent human desire.
All you need to do is to tap into that with women.
Here's how:
Mar 3, 2023 • 15 tweets • 4 min read
Paralyzed by overthinking around women? Read this:
Modern media's pervasiveness has made men believe they must be Brad Pitt to succeed with women.
Many men think they're:
- Not attractive enough
- Not charming enough
- Not rich enough
And that causes them to overthink.
Instead of being loose and in the moment, they tense up.
Feb 28, 2023 • 12 tweets • 3 min read
How shy men can build unshakeable confidence (in 3-6 months):
To build unshakeable confidence, be aware of this:
1) Confidence derives from self-image 2) Self-image derives from competence
Now, take a moment. Think:
Am I looking to build competence in every area of my life?
Sit with that thought...
Feb 25, 2023 • 14 tweets • 4 min read
As men get older, losing friends can feel inevitable.
This lack of strong male relationships leads to:
- Loneliness
- Depression
- Even suicide
But there’s a way to avoid this fate:
With age comes responsibility.
And as men get older, their careers take off, success follows and life becomes less 'fun', and more serious.
In the midst of this, it's easy to lose touch with old friends.
But what is the root cause (and how can you remedy it)?
Feb 18, 2023 • 22 tweets • 5 min read
How men can become more sexually attractive (and lock down that 8/10):
"Money and Muscles" that's all women want.
At least, that's what the Red-Pill teaches you.
But there's more to attraction than the width of a man's chest and depth of his wallet...
So here's how you can become more sexually attractive (and get into a relationship with an 8):
Feb 14, 2023 • 21 tweets • 6 min read
Society has lied to men about women and dating for DECADES.
These deceptions have led to:
- Incels
- Family breakdown
- Relationship failure
- Loneliness and depression
- An epidemic of male suicides
Here's how to break free of the lies (and get the relationship you want):
These lies have hurt men. They've subverted women. And devastated society.
But without being aware of these deceptions, they will wreak havoc on your health and happiness.
It's time to wake up.
Here are the 7 most destructive lies -- and the truths which will set you free: