The 5 unique dating challenges faced by Christian software engineers: The modern dating landscape is confusing.

The dating world has not yet caught up to the social and technological changes of the past 60+ years.

But Christian software engineers face a unique set of challenges...

Here’s the top 5 (and how you can overcome them):

Logan Paul, Dylan Danis and the archetypal tragedy of a Fool and his Succubus:

Don't have the cultural awareness of a crustacean?

Then you will be familiar with the drama between Dylan Danis, Logan Paul, and his fiancée, Nina Agdal.

Salaciousness aside?

There are deeper undercurrents at play...

...so take a moment -- prepare your spirit -- and enjoy:

You live in a big city.

Exercise. Make good money. Have a great career.

But you struggle to find a quality woman.

Here's why... New York. Boston. Miami.

All big cities, with a lot of women. Yet despite being surrounded by options, many men still struggle to find relationships here.

Why...?

Because our relationship with OTHERS is downstream of our relationship with OURSELVES.

What do I mean...?

There are dozens of unwritten rules with dating

But there's one rule that will sabotage your chances of success...

Here's what is (and how to avoid it): Whenever we spend time with people, there are unwritten social conventions.

When at work? We must behave a certain way
When with our family? We must act a certain way
When with friends? We can be a lot more relaxed 😎

But when you DON'T follow these rules?

Problems occur...

You don't need to take women out to a fancy dinner on a first date.

Maximize attraction by doing this instead: Society tells men that we must "wine and dine" women to 'prove' our worth.

But when you do this, you immediately put her in the driver's seat.

Why?

Because this says: "I'm trying to impress you."

And you surrender all frame as a result.

So what should you do instead...?

If you’re a man who's worried about the state of his relationships…

Here's how you can eliminate that anxiety forever

(In only 3 months): "If you've got a good job, you'll have no problem getting women."

Might be true for some men. But for many, it's not.

And if you're a successful man who's worried about his future relationships?

I'm going to show you how to banish that anxiety forever...

Women want men who lead.

Here’s how to take charge on your next date: Men are always told:

"You need to lead women!"

But are never told WHAT that leadership looks like...

...or HOW to lead.

So if you're a single, successful man who's confused about leading women?

You're about to discover how...

How to build a 'rejection-proof mindset'

(With real-world examples): Ever wanted to ask a woman on a date, but worry she'll say "No"?

Its natural. Its normal. Being concerned she won't reciprocate is just a part of dating.

However, there's a problem with being held captive by this mentality.

(And not just that it leaves men stuck and single...)

There are 3 building blocks to every lasting relationship

Successful men who fail to attract quality women always miss one (or more) of these: Everyone says all successful men need to attract women is:

1) Be in shape
2) Have a good job

But many men tick these boxes and STILL struggle to find a quality woman.

Why?

Because they miss one (or more) of 3 building blocks which EVERY relationship needs...

Everyone dated at high school except you.

But what does that mean for your relationships as an adult? Well, I'm going to share with you a secret.

(Not a particularly well-kept one, honestly...)

Dating is a SKILL to BUILD.

And many men sharpened their ability at high school.

But not ALL men. So what does that mean for your current relationships if you didn't...?

Most common mistake men make after a break-up:

Thinking dating is going to be easy once they're single.

If you've been together a while, it's not just that the dating landscape has changed...

You have, too. How you navigate this challenge is vital.

Get it wrong?

And 6 months single soon turns into years of bachelorhood.

Take one of my current clients...

Ever wonder why high-value women date broke losers?

(Note: The answer has NOTHING to do with sex or money): We've all seen it.

A broke guy, lives with his parents and has no prospects.

Yet he always has a beautiful, high-value woman by his side.

Whilst at the same time a guy earning $300k a year can't get a reply to his messages.

So why do high-value women date broke losers?

Such a common misunderstanding to equate male sexual worth solely with their financial situation.

Women want to FEEL. A bland corporate drone cannot elicit what this man could.

Guarantee his emotional communication was on point.

https://twitter.com/Empty_America/status/1634051274470457347

Original QT talks about a guy earning $300k+ a year being unable to find a woman.

Blames 'modern women'.

More likely the guy is pathetically nice and duller than a draw of socks.

I'm married with 2 sons.

But if I were a single man looking for a serious relationship in 2023, here's what I'd do: Finding a good woman for a serious relationship feels harder than ever.

Societal trends have made finding and connecting with quality women confusing.

But the good news?

Pair bonding is an inherent human desire.

All you need to do is to tap into that with women.

Here's how:

Paralyzed by overthinking around women? Read this: Modern media's pervasiveness has made men believe they must be Brad Pitt to succeed with women.

Many men think they're:

- Not attractive enough
- Not charming enough
- Not rich enough

And that causes them to overthink.

Instead of being loose and in the moment, they tense up.

How shy men can build unshakeable confidence (in 3-6 months): To build unshakeable confidence, be aware of this:

1) Confidence derives from self-image
2) Self-image derives from competence

Now, take a moment. Think:

Am I looking to build competence in every area of my life?

Sit with that thought...

As men get older, losing friends can feel inevitable.

This lack of strong male relationships leads to:

- Loneliness
- Depression
- Even suicide

But there’s a way to avoid this fate: With age comes responsibility.

And as men get older, their careers take off, success follows and life becomes less 'fun', and more serious.

In the midst of this, it's easy to lose touch with old friends.

But what is the root cause (and how can you remedy it)?

How men can become more sexually attractive (and lock down that 8/10): "Money and Muscles" that's all women want.

At least, that's what the Red-Pill teaches you.

But there's more to attraction than the width of a man's chest and depth of his wallet...

So here's how you can become more sexually attractive (and get into a relationship with an 8):

Society has lied to men about women and dating for DECADES.

These deceptions have led to:

- Incels
- Family breakdown
- Relationship failure
- Loneliness and depression
- An epidemic of male suicides

Here's how to break free of the lies (and get the relationship you want): These lies have hurt men. They've subverted women. And devastated society.

But without being aware of these deceptions, they will wreak havoc on your health and happiness.

It's time to wake up.

Here are the 7 most destructive lies -- and the truths which will set you free:

Women don't shoot their shot like men.

And if you are a high-performing man looking for a relationship with your ideal match?

You're losing out on quality women by making this tiny mistake: Men lead.

How many times have you heard this?

Yet many think men only lead in relationships.

This is WRONG. Men need to lead interactions with women from START to FINISH. And that includes the first meeting.

If not?

She'll assume you're not interested, and move on...

Why being interesting sabotages men's success with women: Men's brains are wired to conquer.

We want to impress, excite and PROVE our worth to women. It's the way we think. But this leads to a problem...

It leads some men to believe the way to a woman's heart is to show her he's interesting.

And it doesn't work.

Why?