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Sep 1 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
Most men ask boring interview questions on dates.
'What do you do for work?' 'Where are you from?' 'Any hobbies?'
She answered the same questions from 5 other guys this week.
These 6 questions separate you from the pack:
After coaching 193 men, I've seen the same pattern:
Guys who ask better questions get second dates.
Guys who do the male version of this stay single watching Netflix alone.
Here's what works:
Aug 29 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
Women decide if they want you in 30 seconds.
Most guys kill it with: 'How was your day?'
She doesn't want polite interview questions.
She wants playful tension.
3 simple tweaks to turn small talk into flirting:
Most dating advice tells you to 'be confident.'
But that's useless. You need to know what sparks attraction.
These 3 small tweaks helped:
• Cody meet his fiancée
• David get 10 dates in 7 weeks
• Andrew go from 6 years single to married
Here's what you need to do:
Aug 27 • 11 tweets • 3 min read
99% of women won't directly reject a man.
They use subtle signals instead.
5 signs most men miss: 1) She Uses Polite (but distant) Language
'That sounds fun' vs 'I hope you have fun!'
'Good luck with that' vs 'Tell me how it goes'
Small word choices reveal big emotional distance.
Aug 19 • 15 tweets • 5 min read
10 signs you're dating a woman who will ruin your life.
Most men ignore #8 until it's too late.
1) She has a gay best friend
He's her emotional boyfriend.
You'll always come second to his drama.
Aug 18 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
Every dating guru sells you lies:
• "Just be yourself"
• "The right one will come"
• "Focus on your career first"
All BS.
Here's the 8 lies that keep you single: 1) "Don't chase women" is code for "be passive."
Don't mask fear with pride.
Set a timeline. Take action. Measure results.
Aug 14 • 10 tweets • 2 min read
Whether you get a second date comes down to your questions.
Bad ones:
• Make her bored
• Kill sexual tension
• Create awkward silences
Good ones make her cancel her other dates.
5 questions that make her think about you all week:
Start Light:
1) "What's something about your job that most people don't understand?"
Most guys ask "What do you do?"
This gets her talking passionately about her expertise.
Aug 13 • 14 tweets • 4 min read
Women remember how you made them feel, not what you bought them.
8 small gestures to make any woman feel special: 1) Notice when she looks good.
Tell her immediately.
"You look beautiful in that dress" hits different than generic compliments.
Aug 9 • 11 tweets • 3 min read
Divorce rates hit 50%.
But some marriages still last 50+ years.
The difference isn't luck.
It's these 5 decisions smart men make: 1) They choose character over looks.
Pretty faces fade. Good character lasts forever.
Look for:
• How she treats waiters
• How she handles stress
• Whether she keeps her word
Aug 5 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
Most guys wouldn't notice if a woman was interested if she sat on his lap and asked for his number.
Here's 10 signs she's practically throwing herself at you: 1) She mirrors you without realizing it.
Repeats your phrases. Copies your body language. Matches your speaking pace.
Unconscious mimicking = attraction.
Jul 31 • 12 tweets • 3 min read
I've seen hundreds of men blow it with women.
Same mistakes. Every time.
Here are the 8 that repel her: 1) You sit across from her on dates.
Creates a barrier. Makes it feel like a job interview.
Sit next to her instead.
Jul 28 • 14 tweets • 4 min read
Liberal women go to nightclubs and yoga.
Conservative women don't.
8 places to find a wife (not a hookup):
1) Dog Parks
Take your own or borrow a friends.
Women here put loyalty and commitment first.
Jul 17 • 12 tweets • 3 min read
"I can't get the quality of women I want."
This is the #1 complaint I hear from successful men.
Then I show them the 2-step fix.
Within 6 months, they're dating women they want to marry.
(Most guys get this backwards):
Step 1: Stop Playing Not to Lose
When the women you want don't want you it's because you get "tight" around them:
• You watch what you say
• You overthink every word
• You focus on trying to get her to like you
Who you are gets strangled by the pressure you feel.
Jul 16 • 16 tweets • 7 min read
If you're getting less than 5 matches a week on Hinge, read this:
I've audited 186 dating profiles and coached men who went from:
• 0 matches in 12 weeks → 28 matches in 3 days
• Got banned for too many matches
• Found their now wife
Here's what they did differently:
Jul 9 • 13 tweets • 3 min read
My wife's 6 closest friends are all married.
I asked them what mistake keeps good men single.
Their answer surprised me:
These women married quality men.
They're not telling you to become a jerk.
But the mistake they all agreed on?
"You're too respectful."
Here's what they meant:
Jul 4 • 11 tweets • 4 min read
Most men marry the first woman who says yes.
Then spend 20 years wondering why they're unhappy.
Here's how to find a wife who makes you excited to come home. 🧵
1) Stop Dating Out of Loneliness
Desperation attracts the wrong women.
Work on yourself first. Build a life you love.
Then invite the right woman into it.
Jul 2 • 11 tweets • 3 min read
Some men command respect everywhere they go:
• At work
• On dates
• In their marriage
The secret?
They all know these 8 mind tricks. 🧵 1) The Mirror Trick
Match their energy level and how fast they speak.
People trust those who feel similar to them.
Jun 26 • 15 tweets • 4 min read
Your friends tell you to meet women at:
• Bars
• Work
• Nightclubs
That's why they're still single at 35.
Here's the 10 places successful men find their wives: 1) Dog Parks
Women love dogs.
And men who are good with animals is a green flag.
Jun 25 • 12 tweets • 4 min read
If you're successful but can't find a wife, read this: 1) The Issue
You:
• Have a great career
• Got the promotion
• Bought the house
But your dating life? It's a mess.
Why career success makes dating harder:
Jun 18 • 13 tweets • 4 min read
Summer is dating season.
But most guys still suggest "dinner and a movie."
Here are 10 better first date ideas:
1) Go to a Petting Zoo
Play with the baby goats. Rabbits. Guinea pigs.
All women love these cute little creatures.
Don't forget: Dates are supposed to be FUN.
And going on a date like this show's your secure in who you are. And that's attractive.
Jun 2 • 12 tweets • 4 min read
Men who cry get laid more than men who don't.
Sounds crazy?
Here's the science behind why emotional vulnerability makes you irresistible:
First, let's destroy a myth:
"Real men don't cry."
This toxic belief has left countless men suffer shame at their emotions. Worse? Its kept them single.
Women don't want fall in love with robots. They fall in love with other humans.
And science proves this...
May 28 • 11 tweets • 4 min read
She said "let's be friends."
Translation: You failed these 3 attraction tests:
1) The Values Test 2) The Security Test 3) The Dominance Test
Here's how to pass them: 1) The Values Test
She's deciding: "Could I see a future with this man?"
So you MUST show her:
➡️ Your standards
➡️ Your character
➡️ Your goals
Without this, you can only ever be entertainment.
What's more?