I’ve seen posts over the past few days talking about “go to rural america to get a job and find someone to teach you the ropes!” and “there are plenty of young women to choose from if you drive across the country!”
Here's a thread detailing my experience in North Dakota
I bought into the fantasy of going to a rural state to provide value to a local community which was having labor issues because the only labor supply for farm work was meth heads in the area where my friend lives.