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Father. Entrepreneur. Trying to navigate the uncharted waters of fitness, finance, fatherhood and modern dating.
May 18, 2022 7 tweets 2 min read
It's much easier for a woman to maintain a long distance relationship because she can easily emotionally commit without the physical.

Men need the physical.

It's a requirement and thus why these types of relationships can't go on in perpetuity.

Check comes due. I've seen very, very few long distance relationships last over a year with no in person meeting because you can't continue to play pretend.

Rubber HAS to hit the road.

Otherwise, it's just fantasy.

Call the table and show your hand.

If it can't happen, stop trying to make it.
Aug 7, 2021 13 tweets 1 min read
People have no legal recourse if the vax fucks them up.

Start there. The CDC is not a governing body, yet they’re making mandates and moratoriums.

Start there.
Dec 8, 2020 15 tweets 4 min read
A thread on a long term relationship of mine that taught me why the red pill is so valuable in a man’s life. Labor Day 2018. Was at a friends house at a cookout when I noticed a mutual friend of ours, who had arrived late, was flirting with me. She was attractive, about 3 years younger than me, and had a daughter approximately the same age as my youngest.

We hit it off.
Dec 7, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
It's almost as if the laws of economics apply to OnlyFans.

huh..... Less attractive women everywhere jumped on the bandwagon of OnlyFans only to find that just as in life, the better looking girls get the better guys.

Just wait for the screams of fatties and hookers on OnlyFans for equality of attraction.
Oct 14, 2020 6 tweets 1 min read
When you allow crazy women in your life, be prepared for crazy shit to happen.

It ain't worth the pussy, fellas. Men have horror stories of great sex with a psycho chick only to have her try to take his life, destroy his home, fuck with his family and friends, or stalk him.

I know I'm not the only one who's had to get a restraining order against a crazy chick.
Sep 21, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
Right now, in the midst of a tough time where my finances are razor thin.

Why?

Because in a matter of weeks, this pile of paper will be gone and I’ll be debt free except the house.

And I’ll no longer have an ex wife as a creditor. But no matter how good you are with saving money, you still need to make money.

It's good to be frugal, better to be frugal and make more than you need.

Multiple revenue streams.
Sep 16, 2020 9 tweets 2 min read
People have history. I have exes, we all do. What matters is the present and future, not your past. Stop reliving your past relationship failures. Learn from them and find better people to date.

And be a better person yourself.
Sep 15, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
Who are the hot, well rounded and better girls getting into relationships with?

The winners.

Lesson in there. Feel bad for the guys getting dumped for better guys, but also remember they have to put in the work to get better to receive better.

Women are pragmatic.

Men are romantic.
Sep 15, 2020 7 tweets 2 min read
Wanna know why the manosphere says women fuck the winners?

Because, in a majority of cases, they do.

They want success, confidence, ambition, strength, and a man who has his shit together.

Ask them, they'll tell you. But broad brush syndrome affects the manosphere just like everything else.

Too much grey, but black and white sells books, courses, and life coaching.
Sep 8, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
Many think I’m hard on women. I try not to be, but.....

If I decide to not pay my child support this week, men with guns will come and take me to jail.

So you can understand if myself and the men who are going through divorce are a bit....jaded.... Women hold me to a high standard every day.

My ex knows I’ll be there financially for the kids.

My family knows I’m there as the patriarch.

I just choose to treat women as equal as they treat me:

Hold them to high standards.
Sep 8, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
40 years of my life was a lie.

Lived it for someone else, posing as someone who was trying to make everyone happy.

The family man, the dad bod, all of it.

Then, 4 years ago, I woke up... I made it a point to cut ties with that past person.

This was going to be different.

My life, my rules.

Things started improving almost immediately.
Sep 2, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
Guys,
Stop having your relationships or sexual partners predetermined for you because "she said yes to sex."

Self control and self respect. I had a 10 year marriage that started for no other reason than because she was the one who said yes to me.
Aug 30, 2020 6 tweets 19 min read
The women of the manosphere.

Here’s why we need some of them, and why others are dangerous and NOT healthy....

👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇 Some of the women I endorse on here, in the sphere:

@taylorburrowes
@allicovington
@lookatDworld
@RachelBock9
@misfitpursuit
@OpheliaMaddsen
@Lamb_Bytes
@UrUnpaidPundit
@SarabethUrech
@RebelRancher
@_Kenziepuff
Aug 27, 2020 24 tweets 1 min read
Stop apologizing when you haven't done anything wrong. Stop trying to justify bad behavior.
Aug 23, 2020 20 tweets 4 min read
A rant:

Many of you ask me what I have against the church.

I don’t have anything against religion per se, but I do have something against the social and community environment that a majority of churches operate under, especially in the US. Many churches have become glorified social clubs.

If you aren’t filling the coffers with your generous donations, you really don’t have much of a say.

And as with most things these days, he who has the gold makes the rules.
Aug 23, 2020 8 tweets 2 min read
When I divorced, I realized I was terrible with women.

So I worked and practiced to get better.

I thought having more women in my life would make me feel better about myself....

However, it only made me more empty than before.... What was I trying to prove?

That I could get women.

Then I did.

And now, I understand that at least for me, it’s about more than sleeping with women.

It’s about finding someone who is a complement to the true life I’m building.
Aug 22, 2020 6 tweets 1 min read
Stop fearing dying alone.

You should be more fearful that you never truly lived. I may never have my “Ride or die”, but that’s not what should motivate me.

What should and does motivate me is that my purpose, helping men avoid my mistakes, is driving me everyday.
Aug 21, 2020 7 tweets 1 min read
I lost my virginity at 27 to the woman who would become my wife, and then ex-wife.

Looking back, I wish I would’ve had more sexual experience...

A short thread. I was bad at sex. No amount of “chemistry” was going to help the fact that I didn’t do well pleasing my wife.

We talked, worked on it, tried different things, but we weren’t sexually compatible.

It led to sex happening once a year.

And also divorce.
Aug 20, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
I'm dating you, but I also date other girls.

Many women get upset when I tell them I'm seeing other women.

Are we exclusive?

Then I have every right to date other people and communicate that with you.

If you want me to stop dating others, then let's talk exclusivity. You can't talk about commitment if you aren't ready to commit.

And if you don't like that I date other women, perhaps you should step up.
Aug 15, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
Fat is not a state of mind, it’s a state of body.

And an unhealthy, unattractive, and debilitating one at that. Fat acceptance is a movement that says, “I refuse to do the work to get healthy, so take me and my unhealthy habits as they are.”
Aug 13, 2020 4 tweets 1 min read
The good news?

The man you've become is now better than the girl you wanted is.

The girl you craved was broken, you just convinced yourself she wasn't.

And now at this new level, you get to choose. Men will completely change their lives, sometimes drastically, all for the attention of a girl who'll never notice them, but he's convinced will be the love of his life.