Boma like lots of other Ijaw children were wrongly taught about their identities in their childhood that they are Kalabari,Engenni,Nembe,Ibani, Akassa etc that they are not Ijaw's&they grew with they mindset to adulthood telling everyone they are not Ijaw's #IjawTwitterCommunity A child who grows with such mindset finds its hard and struggles to accept and embrace his original identity. He continues to fight and avoid it and that is why we must make concentrated conscious efforts to continually orient&reorient the Ijaw child on his/her Ijaw identity....

Women wonder why men find it hard opening up about their problems in life. You open up to a woman and slowly she starts avoiding,withdrawing herself from you and loses interest in you,she doesn't want to be around a liability. It's a whole lot,why we rather suffer in silence&die. The same woman who assures you that you can trust her with your secrets,slowly starts making excuses for why she can't keep up with having contact with you,starts dodging you,unlooking, making you feel like a burden to her. Person who promised to be there,support and ride for you

A lot of us are finding it hard to Forgive because we've heard or&seen our parents keep malice with people for ages they never forgave,they have indirectly unknowingly taught us how to keep malice,how to hold grudges with people and never let go

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#TuesdayMotivation ...no matter who preaches whatever about forgiveness and letting go to us. And it has become a part of us that we are still struggling battling with forgiving people who hurt us,lots of us have listened to touching messages on forgiveness in churches severally that made us...