@auricules @mikydoyle @Matt_S_Stephens A)
It's the other side of the coin - females are to remain pure while males are expected to aggressively pursue sex. Both types of shaming target those who exclude themselves from the sexually economy of commodity vs shared experience.
Value is placed on gender adherence to... @auricules @mikydoyle @Matt_S_Stephens B)
...one's assigned role i.e. supply/demand.

Females supply their bodies.
Males demand use of bodies.

Both must maintain reputation in spite of mixed messaging & what they actually want (or DON'T want.)

Yet this system is painted as somehow virtuous.