Saying " We need to talk" to your partner may cause them to be anxious.

Here is what you can say instead of " We need to talk"

Thread🧵 : 1. Request to have a conversation from them and give them a summary of what it is about.

Example:

Hi my love, I would like to have a conversation with you about__something that bothered me this morning when we were doing x_and how it made me feel____(give a brief description.

Adults like doing things to kids that they wouldn't like done to them. If u did something that your spouse doesn't like & he shaved your head how would u feel? If u messed up at work & your boss slapped you how would u feel? Children have emotions just like you. Let's do better. "I turned out fine"

They forced me to eat but I turned out fine..what's your relationship with food today?

They beat me & I turned out fine- are you able to express self? What's your confidence & relationship with failure looking like? Can u express emotions in a healthy way?

Here is a thread with 3 things you need to forgive yourself for. Forgive yourself for believing that how someone treated you had anything to do with you.

Maybe you don't have a time management problem (thread) You do not have a time management problem, you may have a boundaries problem.

Here is a thread with 6 things that will help you deal with toxic family members. This is why you may be struggling to create boundaries with that family member.

What if you wrote a list of every single thing that toxic person has said to you and gave it to them, as you walk away you then say. " Thought I should give you your thoughts back as they have no room in my consciousness". Then you walk out of their life for good. Sometimes we really do carry thoughts that aren't ours to keep.

Here is a thread with 4 main signs that you need a social media break. You are comparing yourself to others.

Here is a thread with five reasons why you struggle to ask for help. You heard the words "No" a lot growing up so you think everyone will say no when you ask for help.

How to avoid unnecessary fights in your relationships (Thread) Always seek clarity.

Here are 6 reasons why you should attend my virtual healing retreat:

Please share/RT🙏 You will identify limiting beliefs.

Here is a thread with 5 things that do not determine your worth. How other people treat you has nothing to do with your worth.

Here is a thread with 5 things that will improve your mood instantly: Focus on this thought:

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Here are 5 reasons why you may be struggling with you goals. You have not been specific enough about why you want.

Here is a thread with five reasons why you may be struggling with your goals. You have not been specific enough.

Don't date someone if you can't accept them for who they are, if you are going to constantly criticize them for what makes them them and make them feel like they are not enough leave them alone. "you are too emotional"

"You talk too much"

"You are deep for no reason"

"You are too_____"

Leave them alone.

4 Important things that you do not need anyone's permission to do (thread) You do not need anyone's permission to love yourself.

Here is a thread with 4 things that will improve your romantic relationship. Self-awareness : Own up to your emotions and actions.

Here is a thread on why you give people the silent treatment and how to stop. You struggle with communication.

A thread on when you should give people advice: 1.When they ask you for it.

Here is a thread with 6 things that you can do when you are triggered. Remember that a trigger brings awareness to something that needs to be healed.