Any-weya, #FeminaziZW things. My default position is therefore to look out for women. All women. So to my MARRIED SISTERS, or those intending to get married, or those who think they may get married, please gather here. I am addressing you in the next few Tweets. Woman to Woman... Disclaimer. I am NOT a lawyer. I don't have any legal training either. I am sharing my understanding of the Act, which may well be wrong. Please seek legal advice to be sure. What I say here can't stand in a court of law. Please have an interest in the Act. Ignorance won't save u

South Africa is the Rich Cousin. You grew up together, sleeping on the floor at gogo's, sharing a plate of food, angry at her for forcing u to finish sitshwala before u get a piece of meat. U bathed together in that big dish. Now she bathes in a tub. She's not THAT cousin anymore Only you don't immediately realise it. You think the bond u shared when you were at gogo's still exists. Or maybe it never existed in the first place? You just happened to share a gogo, and maybe not much more? U think appealing to her nostalgia will work, but she says mmh no gal

I like how the men are stuck in the "Our mothers & grandmothers did this, they were like that & they were happy" mode.
As girls growing up they put us under immense pressure to get an education & a payslip. You really think it was because they liked their situation? Shuwa shuwa? One thing about growing up is the women open up to you. You're shocked to discover she was relieved when her husband died because he was so mean & abusive but she couldn't leave. She asks where she would go with her 10 children, no meaningful income & the clan depended on her?