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22 Feb
My first introduction to lesbianism was when I was 7 or 8.

It was with the neighbour's kids.

It first started with the normal "mummy and daddy" plays and before we knew it, we were getting under sheets and touching ourselves inappropriately.
This was also how my struggle with masturbation and pornography began.

Our parents would let us play with the kids in the compound and, as long as there were no physical injuries or anything of that sort, they let us play "unsupervised."
They were probably thinking "they are just children. What harm could possibly be done?"

I do not blame them at all. Because when they were young like we were at that age, the only kinds of play they knew involved stones, catapults, singing etc.

No one was getting under sheets.
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19 Feb
Practice your love language on yourself.
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION: speak positive, encouraging and edifying words over yourself. Call yourself the things that God has called you.

Tell yourself things like:
"I am fearfully and wonderfully made by a good, good Father."

"I am anointed. Nothing dies in my hands."

Etc
GIVING OF GIFTS: as often as you can afford to, buy yourself something(s) you like. You don't have to wait for someone to buy you stuff.

You can use it as a way to reward and encourage yourself when you accomplish a task/goal.
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