There is no iota of angle that I've not come from to help guide women in this situation.

As a single mother, k!ll the idea of whatever the single version of you could have ever wanted.

You now have a baby. A whole baby. You aren't a virgin.

The two key options here are:

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1. Stay single (engage in casual sex)as you raise your children alone.

2. Choose to find love in a cruel world and risk losing your sanity.

Most of you single mothers want to cut corners.

It doesn't work.

You could never put that child back into your womb.

1. Rent a house you can afford:

It doesn't matter whether it's an old or new house. Ensure you can pay without reaching out to anyone for rent. Don't live to impress. Live within your means. If 2 to 6 months' income can't sort your rent. Go down a bit more. 2. Always smell nice:

It doesn't matter whether your cologne is 20k or 1m. Just ensure you don't smell sweaty and your clothes don't reek of harsh dust that got glued because you've not washed it after 4 days. Smell good that they'd be shy to ask what perfume you use.

Women take their "weaknesses" and project them on men.

Ladies, just because you are called fat and ugly and it hurt your feelings.

Doesn't mean calling a mam fat or ugly would hurt his.

I adopted "O.G.C" (ogee isi karia ụmụnna a) as a nickname because I had a big head as a teenager.

I know countless "biggies" and even some who continued with the names as adults.

Or the many men who don't mind adopted "Ape" as their nickname because they are ugly.

You see, from childhood, there is a programming installed in men.

It's called REALITY.

Have you ever seen how a woman reacts after dumping her broke boyfriend to cling to a better and richer man?

Well, she's ruthless about it. She makes no apologies.

"A girls gonna do what a girls gonna do."

But then, there is you, a man, who was caught cheating, and you are shivering.

You are begging her to be with you. But it was you who cheated.

Doesn't that show how weak most modern men have become?

Let me share the COC with most of you modern men who are clearly naive and clueless.

When it comes to fucking another woman who isn't your woman

As a father, I get back from business and make time to inquire about the day's outcome.

Why? Priority (shout out to @Dat_Nato)

As a husband, I will take my bath, even when I want to embrace my bed, because my wife loves hygiene and I am a hygienic person.

Why? Priority

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"Am I in the mood to do all that?" No!! I don't even enjoy that I went out.

You see my bed; our matrimonial bed?

I don't know what my furniture plug supplied me because it's one hell of a drug.

I don't want to even get up. I manage to get up. I am contemplating,

"Klaus, what's a man's benefit from being married in today's day and age?"

It's the year 2025, and modern men, unlike their predecessors, do not see the usefulness of being married.

I don't blame them. But at the same time, I blame them.

Who am I blaming?

Modern men!! Who are "modern men" if we should ask?

I am glad you asked.

They are the men, in whose generation, technological advancement began to take root.

The men who stopped going to the farm to produce what they and their family would eat because it's been outsourced.

Let me break down my last tweet where I quoted someone to say,

"Marriage happens in the mind."

My mutual will remember a tweet I made about an epiphany.

An epiphany is the point you get to a realise a lot your brain held unto.

For most people, it began from the 14th birthday. But I won't dive into that because I want to explain what the tweet in quote meant.

I am open to women's perspective on this conversation.

Why? Because I realised, after counselling a lot of them, that theirs (epiphany) happens on the job.

Yes, most women begin to realise

"Treating a woman how she is supposed to be treated" means treating her like a normal human being.

"Not how she wants to be treated" means she wants to be put on a pedestal and treated like a mini goddess.

The former prevents resentment. The latter enables entitlement. The former is being kind to a woman. The latter is being nice to a woman.

Why is it important to treat them like human beings?

This is because, in doing so, it helps manage expectations from both ends.

She's not mentally forced to fit into a mould of what you've pedestalised

Yom asked a very good question.

"Why do female hormones emit pure negativity?"

It is because in our primitive core, devoid of any kind of civilisation, the females of the species are chaotic.

Women create problems for fun. It's who they are.

That's where men step in. Men aren't called to PROTECTORS for fun.

Women deal with self-destructive hormones, and men have to deal with women.

Men protect women from themselves.

Her first thought is how something wouldn't work or the bad in it.

They think towards destruction and rarely create.

There is a reason women push men to uphold their masculine roles while acting like they aren't pushing.

Imagine if, as a man, you can offer the exact same things a woman proposes to offer to you.

1. Cleaning
2. Cooking
3. Washing
4. Managing
5. Nurturing, etc

Most women would swear that you hate women, because not only are you the best at being a man.

You are also the best at being a woman.

So, aside from sex, remind them again, exactly, why you need them around?

Women won't even want to be around such calibre of man.

What can she offer you?

If you can't make peace with the following situations.

Kindly avoid getting married.

1. Providing for the family is the man's sole responsibility.

2. Nurturing the family is the woman's sole responsibility.

3. A man's infidelity can't break up the household. 4. A woman's infidelity can mess up her lineage and break the family.

5. A woman will blame her man for the things she does wrong and praise herself for the things she does right.

6. A man will praise his woman for the things he does right and blame himself for the things he

Women need protection because they emit negativity.

A woman would think about the worst case scenario first and minimise the importance of a good outcome.

For most women, cohabitation is an avenue for the man to sleep with her "for free" and not commit. Most intelligent folks are aware that sharing a space with someone exposes them to the tee.

That's where the term "see finish" emanate from.

Nobody wants the other to see them finish.

Why?

Fear of being vulnerable. Everyone wants to act like they are busy.

If you are married to a fat woman.

She is likely going to be a good cook or a foodie.

But she will always accuse you of cheating.

Why? Because she understands attraction and knows she's subpar.

Men who tend to treat women, like kids, who don't know what they are doing.

Stop Women understand exactly what they are doing.

They just hope and pray that you are dumb enough not to know what you deserve and ask of it.

Childbirth is not a defect , nor is it a disease.

It's a natural occurrence that only the female body is designed to execute.

To punish a woman or ruin her life.

A man can choose to teach her "sins" that will be detrimental in the long run.

Like:
1. He endorses septum piercings.

2. He forgives her unfaithfulness.

3. He doesn't "control" her.

4. He never corrects her.

5. He let's her be loose,etc Why am I making these things very clear?

1. To show women that I am not a misogynist and that I want the best for them.

2. Because men are PROTECTIVE, instinctually.

Therefore, when a man knows that something or somebody will disrupt the peace, i.e., the sequence of his

"Klaus, women can be ruthless. If you see how my wife behaves because I haven't been able to provide."

It is YOU 🫵🏾 who allowed it to be so.

Marriage should have friendship traits.

You recall I said that I would always find a way to match my friend's kindness. If they buy drinks. I am buying meat.

If I am not able to buy meat. I become their waiter to ensure we get served.

That's how you create a balance for everything.

Listen, we all, subconsciously, keep scores.

God that created all of us, keeps scores, and you expect His

A lot of women will say that they weren't taught how to be a wife by their mothers.

But what they've failed to be is accountable.

How? I am glad you asked.

If you are over 35+ as a woman, you saw what it was like being a wife. You didn't need to be taught.

If you are still single at that age, then face the truth.

The truth is that you are a rebellious human being.

One who clinged to feminism; felt the world was unfair to women because they were handling the chores and bitching about it;

It's very easy to tell a woman who is head over heels in love with you.

She will want to mirror everything about you.

From the way you walk to how you talk to how you smile.

Even how you eat, or hold a spoon or how you fix things.

A woman in love becomes a copycat. And she's unapologetic about it because she wants the world to know that she's your ambassador.

She wants everyone to know she's owned by you.

In your absence, she'd dominate, if you are the dominating type, or avoid conflict, if you are the conflict avoidant type, too.

Have you ever wondered why women who are raised by men tend to have better outcomes with men?

It is because the men in their lives were ready to be temporarily hated for their greater good.

Women are naturally designed to be chaotic, and their emotions get the best of them. One minute, you are the best thing after sliced bread.

The next minute, they despise you with every fibre and might do something crazy to you.

They tend to learn the consequences of their actions after acting.

That is why a strict father brings out the best in them.

2 years ago, I was at one bar around Festac, chilling with 2 of my buddies.

A cool-headed lady walked up to us and asked to see me.

I excused my friends and was curious as to why she drew me out.

I don't know who she was.

This lady was wooing me and trying to get my number. She was beautiful but fat and I didn't like her.

Knowing how fragile female ego was, I didn't want her to experience the walk of shame.

So, I opted to show my marriage-band with style.

As she talked, I'd scratch my eyebrows using the finger with the ring on it.

Manipulation is an effortless feminine dance.

A woman doesn't need to think it before she manipulates.

She's designed to be manipulative for her survival.

It's why your mothers will rain insults at your fathers and still tell you to "respect him."

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This leaves you wondering "how such is supposed to be achieved?"

"Mommy, I just saw you call Daddy a good-for-nothing man.

And I'm supposed to not agree with you, seeing as you are the one who shows me more care and attention?"

But Mommy knows exactly what she's doing.

"I am the table" is deemed an inaccurate answer to "What do you bring to the table?" only when it's the woman who brings the value.

Women know exactly what they are doing, gentlemen.

Stop enabling them by making excuses, pedestalising, or infantilizing them. Women know that their value is tied to their bodies.

Have you ever seen a woman, any woman, with some kind of disability?

Like say, maybe she has:
1. A burnt face
2. Visible Keloid
3. Leg fracture and limps
4. Spinal issue that's left her paralysed
5. Spiritual issues masked