the shit libra risings go through with their family and within relationship is something to STUDY. libra risings are imo what ppl think aries risings are upfront.
libra risings really take the cake with “man of the house” and fighting their partners.
Oct 15, 2024 • 17 tweets • 3 min read
to the people just trying to find themselves and their direction amongst grief, change, loss and the winds of life:
grief can be a cloud that feels like a weight on your shoulder, your heart, your back, your mind, nearly everywhere. it’s tiring. over time, the response to grief can develop into depression, inflammation, rage that’s so intense, it is is unspeakable
Aug 16, 2024 • 15 tweets • 2 min read
if you’re currently navigating chaos, confusion, heartbreak, and aiming to make a final choice, here’s what i’ll say:
you have the opportunity and strength to do something that others struggle to do.
May 9, 2024 • 12 tweets • 2 min read
things i learned from taking a break from spirituality:
1. oddly enough, the break was a part of the spiritual journey. it was purposeful even though i couldn’t see it. the aversion & diversion was purposeful
Apr 10, 2024 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
i know this is a picture that always floats around with a lie BUT i did a lil study on this and essentially, the reason vaping increased by 1733% among high school students in just 8 years is because of the government. and im so serious
essentially, the FDA focused on combatting cigarette usage amongst young people up until 2016. even though cig smoking dropped down to 8% in youths, they didn’t shift the marketing to account for vapes.
Mar 13, 2024 • 8 tweets • 2 min read
so when i was in thailand, they scanned my bfs boarding pass to get on the plane. it turned RED and an agent rushed over to him, said “come with me. HURRY.” and RAN OFF with him?? AND LEFT ME. i couldnt get in contact with my bf AT ALL and then he text me “get on the plane”
so i’m like huh?!? wtf is going on?! where did they take my man? i’m stressing tf out at the door of the plane thinking “what could he have in his bag?!?”
this nigga… is a pothead
Dec 9, 2023 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
babies change the dynamic of a relationship and i need people to think about that. for example, after you give birth, you and your partner are essentially forced into penetrative celibacy for 6 weeks. that’s something you need to talk to your partner about. it seems silly but
it’s real!!! men talk about this on reddit all the time. they said their view of their partner changes, the no sex thing is hard for them, etc. then, mothers often go through depression, anxiety, psychosis. LISTEN to mothers when they tell you the reality for many
Aug 20, 2023 • 13 tweets • 3 min read
ppl want to pretend like people pleasing can not be harmful to others but it very much can be. i dated a serial people pleaser for 4 years who severely betrayed the hell out of me due to people pleasing. +
they lied in their desires & in what they needed. & it wasn’t lying by telling stories. it was lying by continuously agreeing, going along with what everyone else wants, saying what ppl want to hear instead of how they truly feel, doing everything possible to avoid conflict. they did not show up as themselves.
Jun 7, 2023 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
things to say about your dating preferences, basically immediately:
-if you’re monogamous or poly.
-if you’d like to date exclusively or if you’re open to you both dating (going on dates) with multiple ppl.
-if you like to text frequently or are more absent.
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-if you don’t mind multiple streams of texts. this is only important bc some ppl have made this a game so i make sure to tell ppl i don’t care if they double text. i’ll get back to it when i do. and i tell ppl that response time doesn’t bug me but i do appreciate check ins
Jun 7, 2023 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
what’s a moment on twitter you’ll never forget?
the Bali girls. y’all had them outta there my GAWD
Jun 6, 2023 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
most kids were watching kids shows and playing with bratz dolls at age 7. i was 7 thinking about the meaning of life because i was soo traumatized by death that i went down a philosophical existential crisis to figure it out. at 7.
this is not a brag post. this is a trauma post 😀
Jun 6, 2023 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
after you get in touch with ur emotions & learn to feel with range, that’s when learning to be emotional available becomes extra important. you can feel everything in the world but if it’s emotionally overwhelming & you’re drowning, how available & empathic can you really be?
it’s really easy to get consumed with one’s own feelings. it’s easy to say “i feel everything everyone else is going through” & disregard your need for boundaries that allow others to feel for themselves. it allows you to disregard the boundaries needed so that you can be
asked this man to wax my legs with chocolate. now he gotta shave my legs with whipped cream i KNOW he’s tired of my gemini moon ass but thESE experiments is EXACTLY what you signed UP for!!!
you need to do ALLLL the wild shit i WANT
Oct 23, 2022 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
about to wax my legs with chocolate and duct tape. brb
Oct 23, 2022 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
it’s a lot easier to operate when you move with the seasons.
summer: active
fall: winding down
winter: hibernation
spring: re-emerging
what does this look like?
summer: you’re busy and bustling. you’re getting shit done. you’re putting into action all of your early year intentions. it’s active time.
fall: ik it can seem like sad season. it’s really a time to reasses and reflect. allowing things to fall
Oct 20, 2022 • 13 tweets • 2 min read
different people need different types of therapists and i think people need to remember that. you just have to figure out what type of therapist is good for you. and with that, i think more people need to know the different types of treatment approaches
my therapists treatment approaches:
one thing my therapist reminded me is that depression doesn’t always come in the form of sadness. it can also present itself as apathy & numbness. having no interest, not caring, no desire to really do much, not taking care of oneself, focusing on everything besides your care
having no motivation and feeling disconnected from yourself, feeling a disdain towards others
May 6, 2022 • 6 tweets • 1 min read
i’ve shifted away from the “always put yourself first,” and moved into “remember yourself always.” there will be moments when situations ask you to consider more than just yourself. but you can always remember and take care of you.
you can always give love and consideration to self. the same things you give outwards, remember to provide within. remember yourself and the interconnected, woven system around you. i think the “always put self first” is a strong declaration. and if it’s used, it’s to be used in
May 5, 2022 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
this dude dm’d me over a year ago w/ a corny joke, asked me out to tea. i was like ? gave short responses but he hit me up a few times thru the year. this year he dm’d again about this damn tea. i said “you won’t drive here & take me on a date.” he said bet & now we’re dating
TEA NIGGA?!?
