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Africa’s Foremost Family Life and Relationship Coach | Best Selling Author | Global Speaker Founder- Heart and Mind Consulting Services
Nov 23, 2023 5 tweets 1 min read
Women need to feel good to do good
Men need to do good to feel good This applies in many things including sex , if she's feeling good she will bring her A game
Aug 16, 2023 4 tweets 1 min read
The moment you realise that how people treat you is not always tied to how you treat them you will find peace Sometimes the people that will hurt you the most are those you have done so much for
Mar 20, 2023 6 tweets 1 min read
Good morning sir. I am a woman recently widowed and aged 50+. A staunch believer in Christ. My question sir is how does a widow satisfy her sexual desires. Nobody seems to be addressing this reality, all everyone in church says is keep your legs together, which is true but… what does a practising Christian widow do in this instance.

ANSWER-Your concern is very valid and I sympathise with you ,however it's not peculiar to widows ,sexual discipline is for ALL believers , single, married ,divorced or widowed , there's no special paragraph…
Mar 8, 2023 7 tweets 1 min read
Marriage is toooooo long to do with someone you are not really happy being with Marrying someone like this is sentencing yourself to uncountable hours of misery daily for literally all your life
Mar 3, 2023 9 tweets 1 min read
Women women women, how many times did I call you? Women have something that looks like pseudo-spirituality

This is a spirituality that doesn't seem to affect their character very much
Feb 16, 2023 8 tweets 1 min read
You can't be dating like an unbeliever and want to marry as a Christian Many people expect a Christian marriage from a worldly relationship
Feb 14, 2023 6 tweets 1 min read
Usually men want to mate and women want a mate Women in love enjoy company, companionship and togetherness
Feb 11, 2023 6 tweets 1 min read
Is it just me or is the level of nakedness at weddings these days way too much I'm not talking about guests but the bride and train or should I call them trailer, nakedness is not classy
Dec 20, 2022 8 tweets 1 min read
It seems "Good' people always attract "Bad" people in relationships Bad people don't marry each other, they know the traits to avoid
Nov 10, 2022 6 tweets 1 min read
Everyone needs to know this ,
The wedding is not the marriage I know these days people want to have memorable weddings

But sadly these people don't invest same energy in the marriage
Aug 1, 2020 10 tweets 3 min read
WHAT MEN WANT
men are not complex at all. what they want is quite simple and straightforward and can be summarised into -

#1:RESPECT - in my years as a counselor "she doesn't respect me" is men's number one complaint, most men equate all their relationship problems to... "lack of respect", so ladies even when you want to correct him do it with respect 😜 (Ephes 5:33b NIV)
Jul 11, 2020 8 tweets 3 min read
PLEASE RETWEET FOR FATHERS TO SEE
TIPS FOR FATHERS
*PRAY for and with your kids-
you are the "chief priest" of the family, even if its a simple prayer... OK even our Lord's prayer, sha pray with and for them. *PLAY with them, don't bring office seriousness and lifes stress home, take out time deliberately to tease, prank and laugh with them, let them interrupt your day regularly