She's single because...

she's single because her ex never valued communication and her feelings were neglected. There was no trust because she was lied to and disrespected. Jealousy became a habit because other females were getting his attention, time, and effort. She's not single because something is wrong with her. She's single because she cared too much for someone who didn't care enough for her. She's single because she loved herself enough to know she deserved better.

42 CHEAT CODES I WISH I KNEW AT 22: 1-5

DIVINE TIMING...

I know you're tired of waiting for your desires to show up. You've kept yourself thinking positively and feeling good for so long now and you just want success to arrive. However, very often we haven't learned the spiritual lessons that would allow us to not only fully enjoy what we desire, but handle it too.The universe will only ever give us what we can handle when we can handle it,at a pace that we can enjoy.Everything you go through/experience leaves you with a lesson, a lesson that allows you tobe able to handle what's next.

THIS IS WHAT YOU DON'T DO.

Don't let this world make you bitter. Don't let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside. Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you're bound to fall. Don't let those things make you unkind. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be sad. But it's never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong. We're human. We break. We make mistakes. But don't let pain and sadness ruin your life.

SERIOUSLY,

be strong and know when enough is enough. Take your stand, speak up and refuse to let others hurt you. Throughout your lifetime some people will discredit you, disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Don't consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And don't make any space in your heart to hate them. You don't have control over what others think about you, but you do have control over how you decide to internalize their opinions.

PLEASE READ SLOWLY...

Sometimes you and someone else were only meant to share a moment. Sometimes friendships and relationships are not built to last forever, they are built to teach you a lesson. Maybe you both needed to learn something from each other that no one else in the world could teach you at that time. Maybe you both were perfect for getting each other through a terrible storm together. In life, you will fall out with people that you never thought you would.

LISTEN....

Until you release the wounds of your past, you are going to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, alcohol, drugs, work, cigarettes, with sex. But eventually, it will all ooze through and stain your life. You must find the strength to open your wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past, and the memories, and make peace with them.

A TASTE OF YOUR OWN MEDICINE....

Don't give them a taste of their medicine. They already know what it tastes like. Give them a taste of your own medicine. If they lied, let your medicine be honesty. If they played with your emotions, let your medicine be maturity. If they broke you, let your medicine heal. If they made you cry, let your medicine make them smile. These remedies of yours may take years to work, but they work. And they last. So be patient. Stay true to yourself.

THE TRUTH IS...

The truth is, none of us are easy to date, deal with, or please all the time. We have our vices, attitudes, and way of doing things that make us unique. You ain't like everything about somebody it's impossible. This is life, and it isn't about finding the perfect person, there's no such thing. It isn't about living some happily ever fairly stale. It's about finding someone you're willing to work for, and who is willing to work for you. It's simple, but yet so hard to achieve.

DON'T GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.....

Right now you are likely tired, frustrated, or fed up. What you need to do is rest, not to give up. You likely can't see things clearly from the frequency that you're currently operating from. Your view on life is likely blurred and distorted, which is why you'll need the support of
others to help you to see things clearly again. This isn't the time to try and do everything by yourself.

MOST OF US EXPECT FAR TOO MUCH FROM OURSELVES

And never give ourselves credit for all the things we're doing right. You're trying your best, facing challenges that would likely overwhelm anyone, and learning and growing every day. And you're doing it while feeling a range of messy, confusing emotions and healing from past pains large and small from the past. Stop and give yourself a little credit. You're stronger than you know, and you're doing better than you think.

DON'T GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.....

Right now you are likely tired, frustrated, or fed up. What you need to do is rest, not to give up. You likely can't see things clearly from the frequency that you're currently operating from. Your view on life is likely blurred and distorted, which is why you'll need the support of others to help you to see things clearly again. This isn't the time to try and do everything by yourself.

WORTH READING...!!!!!!!

Sometimes you're unsatisfied with your life, while many people in this world are dreaming of living your life... A child on a farm sees a plane fly overhead and dreams of flying. But, the pilot on the plane sees the farmhouse and dreams of returning home. That's life. Enjoy yours... If wealth is the secret of happiness, then the rich should be dancing on the streets. But only poor kids do that. If power ensures security, then officials should walk unguarded. But those who live simply, sleep soundly.

HOW TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP:

Communicate: talk about things, the good and bad. Build trusts. Be honest. Be faithful. Be there for one another. Leave the past to the past. Know that having arguments are normal. Know that you won't always be happy. Don't expect change. Appreciate the flaws. Appreciate each other. Become best friends. Lastly, love each other unconditionally.

STOP APOLOGIZING...

You don't have to say sorry for how you laugh, how you dress, how you make your hair, how you do your makeup, how you speak. You don't have to be sorry for being yourself. Do it fearlessly. It's time to accept: this is you, and you gotta spend the rest of your life with you. So start loving your sarcasm, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your peculiar habits, your talents, your everything. It will make your life so much easier to simply be yourself.

I HAVE LOVED. I HAVE LOST AND I HAVE CHANGED.

It has been difficult but l have learned so much from it. I have learned that people can hurt you so deeply and not even worry about you. I learned that good people can change in a minute when their hearts have been broken. I've met great people, but mean people as well. But the most important thing I have found is that every person in his world is strong enough to let go.

ALL WOMEN NEED TO READ THIS

When a man is truly interested in you, there will be no need for you to do the pursuing. Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back and allow you to do all of the calling, telling, dating, and arrangements, talks about the future, etc

I'M NOT GOING TO SETTLE FOR ORDINARY LOVE.

I want my love to be one of a kind. I want to wake up every morning next to the person I love and tell them how lucky I am. I want to walk down the streets holding hands and have people know how much we love each other. I want to be with someone, who sees my worse but encourages me to be my best. I want to be able to laugh with the person I love but have a conversation where we share our deepest thoughts. I want a love that's so special... It lasts a lifetime.

LOVE SOMEONE

Who is honest. Honest with you, with others, and with themselves. You cannot love someone you do not trust. Find someone who willingly shares responsibility. You will be a team in every single sense. Find someone you cherish togetherness with. And someone who understands the importance of alone time. Someone who values your opinions. Someone with a willingness to learn. A person with an open mind. Find someone who makes it easy to feel grateful, for everything. Wit is important.

READ IT AND LET IT SINK IN

Every relationship will get " boring" after you've been together for years. Love isn't a feeling it's a commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally. It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles, and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being fun and they go look for someone else, because " the spark is gone". No, that's not how it works. If you want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally then do the same. Be the change.

The truth is,

It's easy to feel uncared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it's so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection of your worth. But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they're doing even doesn't cross their mind.