i was single for YEARS before my bf and one of the things that’s been such a jarring discovery is how im more or less the same person but socially im now seen as “fixed” or something.
it really has just deepened my belief that a lot you are NOT NORMAL about singledom
idk i feel more empathy for single me now, in a relationship, than i did before.
like “wow there really was nothing wrong with you, people around you just constantly made you feel like shit for being single because of their own insecurities or their own relationship issues”
Jul 16, 2025 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
i’ve worked at a myriad of restaurants (chain, local, michelin, etc) and i’ve noticed so many weird cultural neuroses surrounding dining that i think would interesting to talk about.
unfortunately talking about dining out also makes people froth at the mouth with rage
example
me: sucks when people come into my fine dining place of work and demand stupid things that aren’t on our menu
people on here: WELL IF ITS SOOOO FANCY I EXPECT YOU COULD MAKE IT REALLY WELL AND YOU SHOULD BE KILLED FOR YOUR WORK HAVING ANY SORT OF BOUNDARY OR LIMITATION
Jan 31, 2025 • 6 tweets • 1 min read
when i tell you this right here is the NASTIEST bitch ive ever served in my life..
we hate a meanspirited, doesn’t-pay-her-check, “do you know who my father is” ass bitch
Oct 25, 2024 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
you girls need to start being honest with yourselves and realize wealthy men will never fucking want you because you are not part of their milieu.
you do not go to their schools, you do not go to their parties, you do not inhabit the same spaces.
you do not have access to them.
money marries money.
even IF you were somehow in their proximity, why tf would they marry you? what do you bring to the table? what social capital (or actual capital) do you have?
i don’t say this to be cruel but let’s be so honest with ourselves
Sep 9, 2024 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
for anyone who does want to make friends, i had to build my social life from scratch when i moved.
i met A LOT of people from twitter but also from just going out (bars, coffee shops, museums, shopping)
but the main thing was *I* had to take initiative and put myself out there
it was hard! i wont deny that. but worthwhile things often are. and it took time!
but i noticed other people jumped at the chance to hang out or socialize. i think most adults want more friends and you dont have anything to lose by being plain faced in your interest in friendship
Jun 9, 2022 • 5 tweets • 2 min read
life under communism
lots of you are going to be mad about this, claim we’re stupid or exploitative or don’t know anything about cuba and yet you also wouldn’t be able to actually articulate and backup arguments of why cuba is sooooo bad.
to those angry people i would like to say: die mad about it :)
May 19, 2022 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
in total sincerity, i think it’s alarming how puritanical people are getting regarding sex, nudity, etc and i don’t know how so many of the more left leaning people who engage in this prudish behavior/thinking don’t see how reactionary it all is
maybe it’s just because i’m some slut but it’s fully possible to critique how capitalism, misogyny, etc have affected how these things are exploited, viewed, etc without becoming some moralistic, repressive weirdo.
like the so called leftists are out here parroting evangelicals
May 17, 2022 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
you know the lafferty brothers would’ve had a great hgtv show in the mid-2000s if they hadn’t become tax evading murderers instead
you cannot tell me i’m wrong. they got the name for it, they had the construction company for it, and you KNOW the mormonism would’ve translated to that genre of media well !!!
lots of you are going to be mad about this, claim we’re stupid or exploitative or don’t know anything about cuba and yet you also wouldn’t be able to actually articulate and backup arguments of why cuba is sooooo bad.