Privilege is indeed about choice. The only why people can deny female privilege is then to claim that women's choice is a forced decision and men's forced position is a choice.
Which is exactly the lie that feminists tell. I'm reporting that feminists are wrong about being forced to stay at home, becasue they are.
Being *allowed* - not *forced* - to stay at home is a privilege. Historically only some women had that privilege. Men were *forced* - not *allowed* - to go to work to support women.