I’ve talked to more than 20 divorced men.

I always ask them the same question:

“What do you wish you knew about marriage before getting in?”

Their answers are almost identical every time.

Here they are…(Bachelors bookmark this thread)......... Most men rush into marriage like it’s just the next step in life.

They fall in love, feel excited, buy the ring, and sign the papers without really understanding what marriage actually demands.

They think “love is enough” and that feelings will carry them forever.

The reality is that marriage is not endless romance it’s a long-term partnership that requires daily discipline, emotional strength, respect, and leadership.

When men ignore these truths and enter blindly, small cracks grow into huge problems.

Respect fades, attraction dies, resentment builds, and one day the wife walks away.

That’s why so many “good men” end up shocked and divorced.

These 6 lessons come straight from men who paid the price.

Learn them now so you don’t have to learn them the hard way later.

Most men don’t know how to handle an arguing woman.

You yell back, talk over her, try to “win”…

And before you realize it, you’re in a full fight.

You can never calm fire with fire

Here’s how to deal with arguing women and preserve your respect forever........... Modern men are absolute disasters when it comes to handling arguments with women.

The second emotions rise, most guys completely lose their frame. They yell back, throw insults, get defensive, or try to "win" with logic and facts like it's a courtroom battle. They have zero emotional control their ego takes over in seconds, turning a simple disagreement into a screaming match full of resentment and hurt.

Instead of leading calmly and protecting the connection, they lash out and say things they can never fully take back. The woman ends up feeling attacked, dismissed, and emotionally unsafe. She doesn't see a strong man anymore; she sees a boy who crumbles under pressure.

That single moment of weakness kills respect, kills attraction, and slowly poisons the relationship from the inside. Year after year, good women walk away from "good men" who just never learned how to stay calm when it matters most. If you want to stop being one of those men who hurts the woman he loves during every fight, keep reading.

Stop SIMPING for Women who don’t Care about you.

If she wants you, she’ll make it obvious:

A woman will never say she likes you loudly but here are some signs she is interested in you:

1. She has no problem initiating a chat/conversation with you. Gentlemen, here’s one thing you should know about women. If they have a crush on you, you’ll know without them having to say it blatantly. It’s not rocket science to figure out if a girl likes you or not. Women are not very subtle when it comes to making it known that they have the hots for a guy. I’m talking from personal experience.

If you must crack your brain trying to figure out if a girl is into you or not, chances are she’s not and you must get the hint and move on with your life.

Since women are traditionally the pursued in relationships, they may not show any of the signs I’m about to discuss to a guy who is not showing any interest in them, even if they like him. They would rather hide their feelings than make the first move and risk being rejected. So, if you are the type of dude who is not going to make the first move and expect the girl you like to pursue you, you might as well donate your manhood to a more deserving masculine man.

None of the signs I’m about to discuss were extracted from the internet. I’ve observed them from my own personal experience with the women I’ve dated and those I didn’t date.

Men never date or marry:

1. Nurses
2. Single mothers
3. Party girls
4. Girls with tattoos
5.Feminists
6. Horse girls
7. Lawyers

Here’s why… 🧵 Every day, men are waking up next to women they regret marrying.

They gave up their peace, purpose, and even their power just to please a woman who gave them constant stress. Some men are paying child support for kids they didn’t create. Some are living in silent misery.

Why? Because they picked based on feelings, not facts.

The truth is: not every woman is wife material. You can sleep with her, party with her, even love her but that doesn’t mean you should marry her.

Let’s break it down:

50 Rules for Men in the Modern Dating World

1. Never chase a woman let your life be so good she chases you.

2. The more you explain yourself to her, the weaker you look. 3. If she disrespects you once and you let it slide, it becomes her new normal.

4. Never argue emotionally with a woman stay calm and factual.

5. The man who controls his attention controls the relationship.

6. Don’t fall for words judge her by patterns.

I once asked a millionaire mentor: “How do I also become a millionaire like you”

He didn’t hesitate. He said :

-Spend Wisely
-Take risks others fear
-Outwork everyone
-Live below your means

I asked, “But how do I apply this?”

Here is what he said...... 1. Live Below Your Means.

He said, “The reason most men stay trapped is simple: they earn $1,000 but spend $1,200. They live in apartments they can’t afford, drive cars they lease just to look important, and wear clothes that drain their paycheck.

That’s not success it’s slavery. Real wealth is built by men who live below their means. They stack cash, they invest it, they stay patient. Nobody cares if you wear the same shoes twice. Nobody cares if your car isn’t brand new.

What matters is freedom-freedom to walk away, freedom to choose, freedom to never beg another man for money. Live small now so you can live big later. Stop pretending, start building.”

This book The Psychology of money is the best money book ever.

7M+ copies sold

4.7 rating on Amazon.

I’ve read it 5+ times here are the 7 timeless money lessons that will change how you think about money forever.......... 1. Wealth is What You Don’t See

When you see a guy driving a Ferrari, you don’t know if he’s rich you just know he spent money on a car. Real wealth is invisible because it’s in bank accounts, investments, and assets that don’t scream for attention.

The problem is, we often confuse rich with looking rich. Many people try to flex with Gucci belts and Rolex watches, but that’s usually a sign they don’t have much wealth left.

True wealth is boring, because it sits quietly, compounding in the background, not showing off on Instagram. Think of it like muscles you can tell who’s strong, but you can’t see someone’s stamina. Stamina is hidden, yet it’s what really matters.

Money is the same. The flashiest spender isn’t the wealthiest it’s often the opposite. Next time you’re tempted to “show you’ve made it,” remember: the people who actually made it aren’t showing off. They’re letting time, patience, and compounding flex for them. That’s real power.

There has to be a time in your life where you have.

- No girlfriend
- No side Chics
- Few friends

Just you and your grind.

That phase is called the Ghost Mode, and you can make the greatest comeback of your life.

Here is how to have a successful Ghost Mode...... 1. Accept the Silence

The first few weeks of Ghost Mode hit different. Nobody texts you. Nobody checks in. Even the group chats go quiet. And suddenly, you realize: You were always just entertainment for bored people.

That silence? It hurts. But it’s medicine. Let it sink in. Let it reveal who you really are when nobody’s watching.

You’ll start hearing your own thoughts again. You’ll realize how much noise you've been drowning in.

Silence isn’t punishment. It’s peace. And it’s where the blueprint of your rebirth begins

If a girl suddenly starts ignoring you...

She has either lost interest in you, or...

She's found somebody better than you.

Either way, respond by ignoring her back.

I will teach you how to handle a girsl who ignores you ( Break her ego)...... If a girl suddenly starts ignoring you, you need to face reality she’s either lost interest in you or she’s found a man she thinks is better than you. That’s it. Forget the excuses like “she’s probably just busy” or “she’s going through something.”

When a woman truly likes you, she will find a way to talk to you, even on her worst days. Ignoring you is a decision, not an accident. The worst reaction you can have is to panic and start chasing her harder, hoping to win her back with attention. That only makes you look weak in her eyes.

Women respect men who can keep their dignity and walk away. If she’s stepping back, it’s your job to step even further back and make her feel the gap.

If a woman is calling, you

• A real man
• A nice guy
• An understanding man

Go somewhere quiet and think about your life.

You're a foolish man.

Here is what it means......🧵 Most men think being called “nice,” “understanding,” or “a real man” is a good thing.

They smile.
They feel proud.
They don’t realize they’re being slowly castrated.

Let’s talk about the lie's women tell men to keep them weak.

Everyone tells you to disappear for 6 months to change your life.

But they never tell you what to do in those 6 months.

Most people waste that time and stay the same.

Here’s exactly what to do to make those 6 months life changing (No B.S) ...... Before we even get started, I recommend every man gets a copy of this book " Unleash the Beast"

It will teach you how to become the best version of yourself.

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Men,

Disrespect is one line you should never allow people to cross.

It doesn’t matter if it’s

- Your friend,

-Your boss,

-or even your girlfriend.

Because the more you tolerate it, the more you’ll lose yourself.

Here are 5 ways to handle disrespect like a man...... Too many men today eat disrespect like it’s breakfast.

They stay in toxic jobs because “I need the money.”

They stay with women who belittle them because “I love her.”

They tolerate friends crossing boundaries because “he’s my boy.”

Let me tell you something, brother:

Respect is not a luxury.
It’s not a “bonus.”
It’s the foundation of being a man.

The moment you let someone walk over you whether it’s a boss, a woman, or even your own family you’ve already lost.

Let me teach you how to handle disrespect...

Men never date or marry:

1. Nurses
2. Single mothers
3. Party girls
4. Girls with tattoos
5.Feminists
6. Horse girls
7. Lawyers

Here’s why… 🧵 DISCLAIMER: Not all of them are this way but most of them are.

The weakest thing you can do as a man is open up emotionally to your woman.

She might comfort you today...

But she’ll lose respect for you tomorrow.

She’s your lover, not your therapist.

Lets discuss a few things you should never tell your woman...... 1. "I feel like a failure."

This might feel honest. You might think telling her this will bring you closer. But in reality, it makes her feel insecure and unsafe.

Women are emotional creatures, and their sense of safety depends on how strong and stable you appear. When you tell her you feel like a failure, she may comfort you on the outside but inside, she starts asking herself: Is this the man I can build a life with? Even if you’re down bad, keep your composure.

Vent to your brothers, your mentor, or a journal but don’t dump that energy on her. You are her protector, not her emotional project. Be the man who breaks silently and rebuilds quietly. That’s what earns real respect.

If you want a good relationship never date or marry:

1. Nurses
2. Single mothers
3. Party girls
4. Girls with tattoos
5.Feminists
6. Horse girls
7. Lawyers

Here’s why… 🧵 DISCAIMER: Exceptions apply, not all of them are this way but most of them are.

At one point in a man's life, everything goes wrong,

-Your woman leaves
- Friends leave
- You lose your source of income
- You get deep in debt

But this could be a perfect chance for you to fix yourself.

Let me show you how to rebuild and come back unrecognizable... Every man will eventually face a storm that flips his entire life upside down. The love of his life leaves him. His closest friends go silent. His bank account hits zero. He can’t even look in the mirror without seeing failure.

That moment of collapse where you're stripped of everything isn’t the end. It’s a rebirth. Because once you're left with nothing but silence and pain, you finally meet your true self.

The weak parts get exposed. The illusions disappear. What’s left is the raw material from which greatness is build. This is where the real story begins.

She showed you her red flags.

You ignored because you were blindly in love.

You thought you can change her,

But you failed.

You can't change someone who doesn't want to be saved.

Here are the signs of a woman who will destroy your peace. (If you see them… run)...... Most men don’t enter toxic relationships blindly they see the red flags. They notice the signs: the mood swings, the disrespect, the emotional games. But they ignore them because they’re in love.

They tell themselves she’s just been hurt, that she needs time, that with enough patience and support, she’ll change.

They focus on her potential, not her patterns. They believe their loyalty will heal her, that their consistency will earn her peace. So they stay. They tolerate things they swore they never would. They give more, hoping that one day she’ll become the woman they imagined.

But that day never comes. Instead, they lose their confidence, their clarity, and sometimes even their purpose. They end up drained, confused, and broken wondering how things got so heavy.

The truth is, love cannot fix what someone refuses to address. And peace will always be more valuable than potential. If you’re a man who keeps ignoring the signs, this message is for you.

Don’t wait until you’ve lost yourself to realize you stayed too long. If you see the following signs walk away. She will not change.

You're a man.

Never tolerate Disrespect

Whether online or offline,

Whether on X, WhatsApp, or in person,

Whether in dating, marriage, or business.

The moment someone crosses the line, shut the door.

I will teach you how to handle disrespect.... Before we jump into it, I have a question for you,

How do you deal with disrespect?

This is a very important question, because if there's anything a man would throw his entire life away for, it's disrespect.

You always hear people say women are emotional and men are logical, but when it comes to getting disrespected, men throw all logic out the window.

You see this all the time in traffic.

Something small happens and men start fighting each other like there's no tomorrow.

Here is the dark reality.

Worldwide, there are men in prison cells rotting away.

They'll never taste freedom again, all because they dealt with disrespect the wrong way, in a single moment.

It's easy to judge these men, but sooner or later, you will also be tested.

Someone will say something to you or your loved ones that'll make your blood boil, and you may do something stupid.

The Stoics came up with a solution to this issue, so in this thread, we will go over 8 Stoic lessons to handle disrespect.

Make sure you read until the end, because the last one might just be the most important.

When she goes cold, you go colder.

When she slows down, you stop completely.

If she pulls back, you pull back even more.

Never chase someone who is losing interest.

I will teach you how to handle a woman if she loses interest (Don't Simp) ....... Most men simp when she pulls back.

They text more. Call more. Chase harder.
Hoping…

“If I just show her how much I care, maybe she’ll love me back.”

But that never works.

Because the more you chase, the less she respects you.

Let me show you what to do instead...

There has to be a time in your life where you have.

- No girlfriend
- No side Chics
- Few friends

Just you and your grind.

That phase is called the Ghost Mode, and you can make the greatest comeback of your life.

Here is how to have a successful Ghost Mode...... 1. Accept the Silence

The first few weeks of Ghost Mode hit different. Nobody texts you. Nobody checks in. Even the group chats go quiet. And suddenly, you realize: You were always just entertainment for bored people.

That silence? It hurts. But it’s medicine. Let it sink in. Let it reveal who you really are when nobody’s watching.

You’ll start hearing your own thoughts again. You’ll realize how much noise you've been drowning in.

Silence isn’t punishment. It’s peace. And it’s where the blueprint of your rebirth begins

When a woman is done with you,

-Your smile will annoy her.
-Your jokes won’t be funny anymore.
-Even your breathing will feel “too much” for her.

It’s not your fault-- Shes already gone.

Let's discuss a few signs that tells a woman is no longer interested in you (Leave before she does) .... When she’s done with you,

Your smile will annoy her. Your jokes won’t be funny anymore. Even your breathing will feel “too much” for her. And the sad part? You’ll still be trying still holding on, hoping the woman you once knew will come back.

But here’s the harsh truth most men avoid: she’s already gone. Her body might be there, but her heart and mind checked out a long time ago.

Too many men stay in relationships where they’re no longer wanted, tolerated instead of appreciated. You keep fighting for love that no longer exists. You try harder, invest more, chase what’s already dead.

But the signs are always there. You just need to recognize them early before you lose your dignity trying to save something she’s already thrown away.

Here the signs: