Society has historically killed women, but we are also failing our boys, always have been. Something is terribly dire now. We are making monsters of our boys. They are being pulled into the deep dark end, we really need to step up and check this, and stem this. So much violence is not normal. And there is too much of it around us now. We really need to pause and listen and course correct. This is not how relationships, community, society and civilisation advance. We need to teach better, we need to listen better, we need not kill.