1. I've just watched Help and This England. It was unbearable. For those who went through the same trauma: my mum, in her early 90s was in a care home with Lewy Body Dementia, a type which gives hallucinations e.g. waking up to a dead child on her bed or seeing a clown hanging 2. in the darkest corners. Fear filled every day. She had children, grandchildren, gt grandchildren and she was visited every day by familiar faces. We knew the stories to make her laugh, the music she loved, the sweet treats she adored. She may not have remembered who we were