When we joined the PCA 7 years ago, I was so excited to be part of a denomination that took theology serious and was so excited to raise my daughter and son in this church. Over those 7 years though so I saw so many "good men" turn their head to abuse. Multiple presbyteries not just overlooking abuse, but actively fighting to silence victims and calls for reform. I saw a man lie to his wife, congregation, elders, and get offered a severance and a new job at a "better" church.