All the psychology sauce you need/want is quite literally just found in going after ur goals. it is ver sinple

On ur way there (if u actually go), u will realize 99.99999% of whats stopping u is ur psyche. the answers r found when u just try to fix ur own shit (by going after the goal - the fix is the byproduct). U will realize u:

- cant make a decision
- cant sit down & work
- cant plan something out
- cant get urself to do a task
- too tired to function
- cant stick to 1 thing long enough
- cant research long enough to find the answer
- cant track anything & lose everything
- cant have a harsh direct conversion

Etc etc. Then ur like "so how do i actually do (thing stopping you). Then in the process of solving it u learn way more about it. U go "oh wow, this is way different than I thought". Congrats. U now know psychology.

Wild to me that the average person doesn't realize the infinite psych training ground is literally strapped to them 24/7 U can only study/learn about something if there's a directionality attached to it. Without a target, there is no baseline/metric/foundation for comparison. there is no good or bad, up or down. U literally can't learn anything useful about anything, because you have no USE for it.

If u just try to look inside ur mind u won't find anything. Nothing there. But if u say "im going to make myself sit down and work for 20 minutes", now you get to observe ALL OF THE STUFF that is stopping you from doing that. "oh wow, this thing is fucking me up". Then u figure out how to beat it. Then when u do, congrats. u now have a piece of content 😂

Fuck "the way it's supposed to be done". Do it how YOU THE FUCK WANNA DO IT. That is how you add SPEED to your life, and genuinely leapfrog the trajectory/progress you're making INSTANTANEOUSLY

people telling u to cold email but u can just pick up the phone & rip? Do that.

people saying "build muh slide deck" but u have better idea? do that

people saying "blah blah blah im a npc blah blah blah"? (obviously)

Ask yourself "how would I get this done as quickly as possible assuming I had zero fucking clue how other people did it". Tap into your NATURAL TENDENCIES, TRUST that GOD GAVE YOU THE FACULTIES, and fly at the target without all of the added bullshit resistance of wondering how "mUhOThERpERson" did it or wants you to do it. Who Gyves thy Phuk.

Even as a test experiment, just drop the gaymap u think u gotta follow & just pull out the dub ur way. Let the blueprint go & ask yourself "how the fuck do i wanna do this tho"

Chances are that answer is NOT like anything else you see but WILL speed you the fuck up tremendously

No rules. Game of 1. I got roasted by my HS football coaches EVERY FUCKING DAY because I was literally technique-retarded. I played basketball & just said "fuck it, i'll play football". They put me at D end, had zero clue how to do anything. But I was faster than anyone I played against, so I'd quite literally just go around them or under them. Our D-line coach was on vikings & he'd continually lose his shit at my technique, but who gave a fuck

Got the sack record

Btw you can cure ur depression by saying “fuck it” and abandoning the boring retarded life ur pretending to live to make other people “accept you..?” to just fucking full send it on ur dreams giving zero fucks about “what it looks like on muhh paper”. Fuck ur paper.

Quit the gayjob and go find a part time one doing something thats super fucking fun for you. If u wanna do music just go find engineer & be his slave & use studio 24/7. Happiness is just a couple “fuck its” away. Fuck making other people happy, enjoy this shit & go after what makes ur soul sing. Anything else is LITERALLY retarded & monstrous waste of actual time Funny part now with internet is if u really fuck with it u can just film it & ball from content creation. Literally insane lmao. If i wanted to fucking bowl all day I’d rip my bowling brand & make way more than some gay 6-figure corporate job that rapes my soul lmao. Hometown friends in shambles that retard bowler mcgee printing their yearly salaries in 30 days smiling & ripping strikes with 70 year old men in striped socks. But that’s the fucking internet. The differentiator is now if ur fucking alive inside or not. The path literally doesn’t matter. U go FUN WAY, u’ll figure it out. Can’t afford shit on the boring way anyway. Might as well STILL be poor but now u love ur fucking days

Don’t know who needs to hear this but you can literally sidestep all of your nagging identity issues by just creating a new character

U want to be super social? Mentally create “Social (ur name). Identity prompt: this guy is super social+confident+always knows what to say

Then you just go use that character in the real world. Go play the role. Go play pretend.

If u actually do this (do it but while pretending) u will realize the actions were always inside of u, and the blocker was ur mind/identity. “But this isnt me, i’m just pretending”

Problem is u fail to realize it literally is u, cuz ur doing it. Then u realize ur actually as many of these characters as u wanna be, and “who you are” is an umbrella entity that incorporates & includes all of them.

Usually to enact this u must first call who u r now (name 1.0). U must realize uve played older roles with prompts u didnt create.

Once u cut all internal strings that stop u from playing pretend (which actually isnt pretend) u then realize how ur always on ur own way.

Simply psychologically side-step then incorporate (but incorporation happens naturally with enough de-pedestaling of trait+familiarity). To pretend is to familiarize, and to familiarize is to see what it really is, which is a smaller version of what uve built it up in ur mind to be (that it isnt).

My first conscious one was “business Grant”. I was getting ragdolled by clients at 18 so i needed to create a shark. After 2-3 months business Grant was me, and i was running show with my negotiations.

Repeat on whatever issue u think ur facing. Even a “Transformation” is attacked indirectly. “Pretend” = a psychological detachment mechanism that can be harnessed long enough until it “actually lands”. Can just view it like a practice facility/code once u delete all negative connotations with it. If u truly see its usecase, ull cut the negative strings. But takes a lot of reframing.

Lots of fun ways to solve ur personal/emotional issues/sticking points. Most won’t exhaust evey fucking solution to get over them. Fuck it - no rules If you’re paying attention, you actually have a different “character” for each person you meet anyway already. Its very slight differences, but nonetheless different versions of you. You’re doing this already, just without it being self-generated. And isn’t that strange?

Difference is - those little characters haven’t been labeled & identified - but if you label/identify them you can basically package them up into little psychological prompts & take them with you for whenever

Another one i have is “spanish Grant”. Felt weird learning spanish as “me” so i just said fuck it & created a new guy. Spanish Grant is very interesting, much more flowy & expressive.

These things are already happening & you’re already doing & using them - might as well just make it conscious. Ur mind is already using set prompts/characters - so fuck it

Almost all of the shit that will actually turn the tides for you are totally unpredictable and are things u could have literally predicted 0%. WHITE SWANS

Monstrous random W’s/tools/people of high quality will fly at your face at astronomical speeds if u just start doing shit. This is why going outside is so fucking important, and this is why kicking up dust is so fucking important

Once u generate a little momentum tornado & start SENDING SHIT & DOING SHIT and BEING PLACES and PARTICIPATING IN THINGS and engaging with life & the uncertainty that comes with it - the wildest magic happens. Every time. Total “thats fucking amazings” flying at u randomly. They just keep infinity spawning across the dash if ur in the car ripping down the highway

Do shit, be places, have convos. Start stuff, meet people, have fun. The best shit you can’t even predict, but u know it will find u if ur meeting it all half way If ur sitting alone in ur room being a failureveg ur brain goes “i have zero idea how any of my plans will even work. I genuinely have no idea”

No shit sherlock. Ur not supposed to know. Thats the whole fucking point. thats literally why this shit is fun lmao. Thats not ur fucking job. Ur job is to delusionally convince urself ur intuitive internal compass screaming at u to go for that specific thing was placed into your soul by God himself & your job is to blindly follow that shit IN FULL with a 100% gigasend/balls out knowing everything you fucking need/want will collide with your face randomly & magically as you’re flying down the galactic highway of experience on the path your internal GPS pointed you to go. Your job is to fucking get up & start glididing through the experience of life giving zero fucks because you’re riding the convictions of your own intuitions forward into the infinite abyss of magic & infinity resource. U send & God provides. Ur gaymind thinks ur walking into a dark abyss/cave alone when ur actually walking into a friendly autoshop with every fucking trinket/part required to make your shit putter forward just long enough to make it to the end of the path thats in your soul. The infinity spring. Some avatar planet type shit, but full of shit so helpful that u literally couldn’t have thought of it, but God did. Ur like “woah, that’s way better than what i was trying to do or find”. It just appears. But u gotta get the fuck up and get out there to get dripped in the magicfluff

On my incel shit If u have no bitches i genuinely can’t comprehend how you’re also poor

Like what the fuck r u doing with all ur time lmao

It is almost unfathomable to me

You can’t really kill a good relationship

Can throw anything at it. Distance, people, logistical problems, time

It just endures This tweet was about male friendship & dudes responding with “she’s fucking tyrone”

Find God

from your chair in the corner

Fade women & grind up the $$$/foundation while dating for fun on way up. Business is #1 but open to right woman. IMO you also want the skills of being able to deal with women & understand their mind/how they operate before u wife someone up.

If a woman then appears who “gets it”, lock it in. You’ll know it when it feels seamless. It will be monstrously obvious. You’ll be like “yep there it is”. There will be no back & forth

If not a fit, cut out earlier than later. If the woman takes away from mission it is not a good fit or right woman. It’s that simple. The right woman will feel like a seamless integration. Logic will softly lay down in name of heart/soul & you will build her in automatically & she will “fit in” automatically. If logic is only 1 running the show when it comes to her then u don’t like her.

Too young to not go for what you want in peak window, too many options to not have seamless fit. The woman for u will flow through seasons with you. Will feel like a movement of 2 in unison, not a “i go here and drag you with me” forever I’ve dated women that didn’t get it. I told them as we broke up that they needed nice little lawyer (i was being genuine). They did get nice little lawyer & are genuinely happier than ever (we were a bad fit & i was trying to make her something she wasn’t just as she was trying to make me something I wasn’t)

Then u date “good fit” and realize how easy it can be. But rare man requires rare woman. Full width requires full width

Best business model for QUICK CASH if ur a lazy faggot:

Find a rich person & ask them “what can my friend and i do for you to earn $1,000”

They’ll tell you

Then find someone else to do it for $500

#PassiveInCome “Uhh i need website copy”

Then go on fiverr

“Need copywriter. No indians. $500”

Then u hire the fag & he just uses chatgpt & ur like fuck i could have just done that hut whatever

#passiveinCome

I’ve always found it interesting how dudes on the internet think the baddies are dating the gigachads

With the hottest chicks i’ve dated, i was always shocked how average the ex was. Some rando from HS. Some guy that sold cars. Some guy from work.

If you take sample of Extremely attractive women in US, most will love skinny soy types who wear cute outfits & are non-threatening. If you skinnymaxxed & fagoutfitmaxxed you’d probably pull “dimes” harder than you ever would going to the gym & becoming ‘dangerous’. Many externally attractive women don’t have the depth or width to appreciate a warrior, and only exist on the level of “pretty & cute” in all ways, so the men are often another extension of this. “If i become rich & can kill she’ll be attracted to me” is largely theory. IRL women have no conception of money & are usually scared of scary dudes. They often just want the guy to make enough to give them an IG lifestyle & fashionable enough so they can wear cute outfits together. But money is on backburner and “dangerous” is on backburner. Its actually rare you’ll see a dude like that dating a gorgeous woman. It is the exception. This archetype mostly dates/pulls bimbo-esque women

Point of post is if ur “doing shit” TO get women, u r largely wasting ur time. Nothing external will raise ur self image. U’ll pull exact same level of chick anyway unless u work on “pulling higher quality women”, which essentially doesn’t exist because you’re either her type or not, and you’re always you & have always been you anyway

Definitely hit the gym & become dangerous for YOU and those you love. You WANT to do these things. But at same time realize anything external won’t help you with the internal wars. U have to attack those directly. Dudes will make M’s & lifemaxx just to date a looksmatched club chick who’s lying about her bodycount anyway. And it actually often ironically flips/inverts when $$ comes into the picture because it narrows the man’s dimensionality

Nothing will pull more weight than loving urself. And loving urself is simply taking the shots u wanna take & realizing ur as human as greatest men to ever live The difference though is that these women are not “queens” in the archetypal sense. They are gorgeous, yes - but lack dimensionality, and the man will normally also lack dimensionality as well. Hot & dumb merges with hot & dumb. Full width needs full width

If you ARE dangerous, intelligent, emotionally intellgigent, ambitious, gracious, discerning, playful, etc - you will want a woman who is capable of traversing the width of your being with you. But that is SUPER fucking rare type of woman, especially when you add any type of attraction variance to the equation. Meaning, if u find 1 that can go wide with u that alone is atoundingly rare, and chances are u probably won’t be that physically attracted to her when u find 1 based on % odds. Just how it is. Full width + “your type” physically is super rare, but does 100% exist. U just have to reverse engineer that what & where & u can run into archetype that u want, but there will be some lesdership required to make her who you need her to be. Lots of unwinding due to failure of fathers

So the good news? u just gotta be u, but the nongay version

Your body prefers death over shame. The issue is though there is a “shame wall” you have to smash through to be able to do what you want. U gotta sludge out of it to be able to operate originally. U gotta fry ur shame callus. Issue is ur body will first recognize the most BASIC shit, like saying NO, as a “super shameful” activity. But u keep going. U FEEL your body rid the bullshit with every “send” you commit to. You’re skullfucking the invisible forcefield. then eventually you get to the other side, and what u wanna do now feels light. Feels fun. Feels joyful & powerful. But most can’t keep stepping through the sludge long enough to shed it. They think either something is wrong with them or it is forever. Nope. U just haven’t torched ur nervous system enough. U haven’t forced urself into situations that cause ur body to flip the fuck out. U have to lean INTO these things.

I believe when people say “nothing is exciting” - they have quite literally psychologically blocked this “out” mentally. they’ve forgotten they can blast thru shame/fear & grab what they want. They forget just becsuse it’s a wall doesn’t mean it has to be an impediment.

People go “well how can i make $$ without talking to people”. Thats the fucking issue. AVOIDING the real shit. Engage & level up There’s a level of self-honesty you have to wiggle down into that most never touch. That is where all the good shit is. It’s below the “be a good little boy” and “be a good little bot”. It’s where the RAW, REAL, COLOR is. Your ACTUAL desire. It’s in your BALLS, not your mind. U have to go INTO IT, grab it, pull it up & put balls on the block to make it happeb. U have to bring that shit to light & allow the light to toast it. U wanna stop putting shit in the shadows, no matter how ugly u think it is. Force urself to bring it up, expose it, & let light refine it into a usable tool. Bringing it to light turns the ugliest mush into the most beautifully refined scalpel. Break out of the slush

It’s actually extremely rare someone isn’t open to having a convo started with them if you’re not a weird faggot

Out of 100 you MIGHT get 1 that’s iffy on it. The % is monstrously low The key IMO is to avoid red oceans. If you’re at a place LIKE a bar, club etc then (ironically) many people will have their guard up way more because you clearly want something from them

Ironically you take a random bar & started 100 convos you’d probably get like 30/40 who are closed-ish off. If ur just in life though it is astronomically small

It is like dming influencers on twitter. They’ve had 600 of them so they see ur dm and just assume ur retarded. But if you can find them where no1 else can, u r easily out of the hivemass

MASSIVE error (unresolved skill issue) is carrying the “this isn’t my thing though so it doesn’t matter” mindset about whatever it is you’re currently doing. If you find your LIFE HOURs going there, it IS important, but you may have massive framing problem. Carrying this paradigm within you is welcoming death inside of the years that should be filled instead with glory

If you think what you’re doing is pointless - you need to sit down & draw a conscious line that connects directly from what is right in front of you to your highest vision. You must build that path TO your own version of heaven, incorporating exactñy where you find yourself. Your “real issue” isn’t the job you hate or career that “isn’t yours” is pointless (because the specific actually matter 0%), what actually matters is the thread of meaning from where you are now to your highest vision has been completely severed (or has never been consciously attached). and now what is at a root level a SKILL issue (of meaning generation) gets perpetually misconstrued as “this is all just unimportant work that’s a waste of time” - due to a low level of discernment/skillset

People think their situation is void of meaning & beauty - when in reality it is a actually their own decaying/rotting soul, reflecting itself outwards in all things in front of them, forever What you think is “not important” needs to be placed within the vision as an important PIECE of the puzzle, that will conclude itself when x milestone is hit. It must serve a purpose FOR YOU. And only you can build that into your psyche. This is how the real world works. Mommy can’t just say “do this so i give you a high 5”. You must dig into your own soul, find what’s already in there that you consider worthy, and place where you are NOW as the foundation to climb up & out. What’s next step? Then next one? What do you need from this to go to that?

Build ur plan & execute.

Imagine how easy your life would be if you just said fuck it & impregnated the annoying mid who worships you $20k/yr job. Morbidly obese. Haven’t left house in 9 weeks. Drink daily. Forget to shower for a month.

Doesn’t matter. Just perpetually unrelenting unconditional love at the highest level, forever

“Oh my ego won’t let me impregnate a 4 though!”

Grow up

Before you complain about ANYTHING, ask yourself:

“Is what i’m complaining about a mechanism that’s being spoon fed to me?”

Simplest question to snap yourself out of the bullshit. Dudes will complain about things that they put zero self-generated effort into. “Wah! Da food in da wunchwoom tastes byad!”. Mfer make your own lunch & bring it with you.

“But i can’t make my own thing! Wyah! Too much work!”

THAT is usually their ACTUAL problem, and the complaint is a front for laziness / fear-of-social embarrassment

U only earn right to complain if u developed ur own solutions & then attacked with some form of consistency/high agency. Only then can u remove URSELF + the spoon-fed mechanism from equation & blame market or broader variable

Usually if complaining, it is 2-fronted issue:

1) You have either a skill issue, laziness issue, social fear issue
2) You are using the “pre-provided” tool It would be like your teacher (who’s never built silverware) making you a spoon & then it just snapping or crumbling every time you eat with it. But instead of solving it, you just complain about how the food is hard to eat, like a helpless baby. It’s actually THAT bad 99% of the time

Dheururururururur

If you went to college & continually pressed the gas afterwards in entrepreneurship you will realistically “make it” (owning your time/freedom) by 25/26ish

If skipped college will be like 22/23

There are variances but you’re usually looking at 3-4 yrs to get “over hump” from 0 First year nothing really happens cuz ur just discovering all the shit u don’t know + learning how to work/get tasks done/prioritize

2nd year u’ll prob get small successes but aren’t aware “doing more of that” is the answer yet

Year 3 ur like “oh” & can gaspedal

Raising your self-awareness as you get older is largely knowing your own patterns but also includes the meta pattern of being able to "know" (moreso feel) the amount of potential/kinetic energy within you (willingness/willpower) to snap one of your set patterns if & when you want to

You basically find yourself in situations & can go with either "Oh i've seen this before & if i just keep going as i normally do then this will happen so i'll just let it happen" OR, if you DON'T want that, can quickly check/tap into your current willpower reserves to see if you have enough "spring" or willingness to snap the inevitable pattern/loop you know you're walking into. If u don't u can then plan (in that moment) around ur own pattern that you know will later unfold.

Essentially your relationship to "oh but this time will be an exception and i'll finally do X!" finds its way closer to reality (as in you realize it is never an exception & stop being fooled by your states) but yet at the same time do actually gain knowledge on when you have enough 'oomf' to make it an exception

When younger u think ever single time is/will be an exception (NOW its time!!) & are completely blind to your own patterns. When older u can see "this time" will never actually be an exception (and will unfold like it always does), but then additionally at same time get very good at predicting when you'll actually snap a pattern by choice, and hit rate basically becomes 100% Basically ur accuracy/hitrate of "this actually will be a behavioral exception to my normal pattern" goes from 0% to 100%

When young it is a perpetual miss

When older (if you've paid attention) it is largely a perpetual hit. Allows you to plan accordingly

all the pull/swag/aura u want is already within u but ur issue is ur looking somewhere else

asking "what should I do here to look cool" is what normies THINK will give them aura but it is literally going opposite direction where it is found

it is simply "what do i like" & repping it when every1 else says its gay. It is literally an "opposite target" of what the normie thinks it is. It doesn't feel like "yeah im fitting in" it feels like "they r gay for not liking this" but their disagreement doesn't fuck up ur stride in the slightest It is also not "what can i do here to be different". That is same thing as asking "whats cool". U r still searching away from yourself. Your gravity is within YOU, not OUTSIDE of you. This is internal realization you have to make. ur sauce IS you, but ur beliefs about urself are prob what is cucking u. U with sweg is literally same u but with genuine beliefs that same u is sweg

As a man your core focus should be developing & maturing your relationship to work

If that was ALL that you did, your life would look fucking FANSTASTIC in 2 years & almost unrecognizable in 3-5

Everything in your life must be less important than doing important work. and this is not “your job”, this is pushing YOUR life forward, in a perpetual & non-negotiable fashion Push your cash FORWARD
Push your fitness FORWARD
Push your relationships FORWARD
Push your standards/ideals/values FORWARD

The way to become stronger is by simply committing to honor your intuition. That’s it. It is training yourself to honor BODY (TRUTH) over logical mind. Your body is a truth mechanism. U already know the answer, u just gotta not be a bitch & listen to it. Thst’s it. Simply honoring the perpetual glaring/vibrating/screaming truth within you OVER the bullshit you tell yourself to avoid/dampen it for no other reason than fear. It’s all very fucking simple. Tap into body, act. That’s it. Pointless to cloud this process with “reasons to not do it” cuz truth will just forever-loop back in ur lying fucking face until u listen. And most spend their entire lives RUNNING. Living an EXHAUSTING life. stop running. Face it, feel it, breathe, LIVE

People spend their entire lives running from that perpetual beam of truth within them. That’s fine because its normal - but at some point you have to look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself “what the fuck am I actually doing?” or “when I am actually going to do this?”. Why the self-hatred? Why the self sabotage? Where is the self love? Where is honoring & respecting yourself? Where is the permission to win? And funny enough, ruthless self-honesty is the only way to “win”. U must burn through all bullshit & build ur life up from 0 on top of truths that you know. All else is weak, temporary, and monstrously exhausting to maintain. U have no energy cuz ur busy holding up the lies. The facade. Trying to keep the fake life together. Just let it go. Choose truth & the strength God grants you from that decision IS and WILL FOREVER BE more powerful than the debris from anything it explodes. Choosing radical truth within yourself & having balls to live it despite all external bullshit/kickback IS is the only way to find meaning & live a fulfilling life.

And it all begins with a simple commitment to stop lying to yourself & other people. To drop the weight of deception. Let it go, breathe. Let truth burn it all away. Tell yourself the truth, and honor it.

For most people this is a process because it is such a completely inverted way of living from where they currently reside. All these lies they tell themseves & others, ALL of the fucking time. NEVER fucking ends. Step 1 is to STOP LYING. And at first you don’t have to ACT on it, but you need to FAMILIARIZE yourself with it, because the normie psyche is DESPERATELY afraid of it.

U simply start asking urself questions - do I like this? (Whatever it is) If yes, why? If no, what part? What don’t I like & what do I wish it was? Why am i tolerating this if i don’t love it? What am i waiting for? Is that true, or cope? What am i avoiding? What am I actually looking for? Am I who I want to be? If not, why not? What am i doing wrong? Did i behave in that situation how i wanted to? Did i speak up? If not, why? How do i feel about it now? What would I do NOW if i wasn’t pretending to be helpless?

Dig deeper, be honest with yourself & build whatever you find back into your external life. Don’t bury the truth, design your life with it.

Nobody is perfect, as we are all human - but CHOOSING truth as a direction will give you immediate clarity on what to keep & what to cut away.

Lead your life forward & walk through the unknown with power & love. Don’t run AWAY, walk INTO. Ironically the big glaring truths are easier to obey than the little ones.

“I hate my fucking job”
“I hate where i live”
“I hate the people around me”

Normal advice is “start small!” But this is monstrously retarded. Rip the BIG FUCKING LIES out from underneath you & then the rest become easy. Attack the MONSTROUS ONES RIGHT IN UR FUCKING FACE THAT YOU’VE IGNORED SO LONG UVE FORGET THEY ARE THERE & once u can dagger the big ones, ur basically good to go. Reverse videogame. Beat boss asap

Zoom out & realize shit really not that big of a deal

Take the chance, have the convo, let it fly

U r litrly gonna die. It's ending. Just re-remember that all of the time & ur probably fine.

Shift out of "ahh huge deal" POV into realizing its a spec in ur story, and ur story is spec of infinity. Spec of a spec

No good reason not to let it fly & see what happens. U'll be happy u sent into the chaos & got to watch the show Opposite side to pull from is realizing ur little spec can be made into a beautiful, heroic masterpiece

Is actually very fucking important to master what's in front of u. Actually try. Actually make it amazing to best of ur ability

But jump out into larger pov to not give a fuck when u need it. Perspective jumping. Gather all tools & fire @ target. It means something. Get it done & have fun