Late 20’s is when you rebrand from fuckboy to old money If ur a fuckboy at 31 it’s like “alright buddy let’s get married and have some kids huh”

But if you’re old money & divorced at 32 then you’re classy once again

Easy choice

If you use full ai to write anything we should be allowed to throw your account in an internet dungeon & force you to only interact with all other ai accounts

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Living your life in full alignment (and being as principled as you can with it) often looks like a life of opposites

Ur lifestyle will look 1 way 1 year & the opposite the next year. The pendulum is always swinging & redesigns are always taking place. What works for new you may be something old you couldn’t fathom new you wanting/becoming/targeting

Ppl think “if i live in alignment its 1 straight shot forever!”

Literally looks the opposite. INFINITE zig zags & criss-crosses This is what happens when people feel “lost” or “unmotivated to go farther down the path”

It means their soul got it what wanted & has now pivoted - but they haven’t been able to get their mind to accept it

The GPS is always in u. But sometimes honoring it throws ur life into chaos. This is just how it ACTUALLY is & looks

An untrained psyche subconsciously wants “maximum certainty, so i can then go slow”. Completely flip this.

If it feels 70% directionally correct, fly at it like a fucking psychopath. ALL IN. FULL SEND. Ur entire orientation should be to GET CONTACT WITH REALITY. ACTUAL feedback

When you start, only 3 things u should care about. Question series:

1) Does this feel MOSTLY directionally correct?
2) How can I get actual feedback from reality as FAST as possible?
3) Am i “all in” like a psychopath?

Once all 3 “yesses” in place, u fly in & make all adjustments as reality gives u data/feedback. U don’t “GUESS INTO PERFECT”

You “FIX ALL PROBLEMS INTO PERFECT”

But in order to know/fix problems u gotta be in it. And in order to be in it u gotta run that question series People want to wait on sidelines forever without getting actual data

“Which thing should i choose?”
“Which way should i do it?”
“Which (input any question”?

Ask yourself “what’s the laziest possible way i could “try on” this thing & get my answer asap?”

“Can’t figure out my major!” - go shadow someone who has the job you’d get for a day. Give yourself 2 hours to find him.

Extrapolate

You want to look at every ops task in your business through lens of emotional dag rather than how complex/simple the task ITSELF is

There will be things that are “complex” but YOU can do quickly / “lightly” that have virtually zero drag. Speed

There are other things that seem retardedly simple (and are) but come with monstrous amounts of inescapable emotional drag for YOU

“Micro delegation”. U control outcome reins but delete all emotional drag point within whatever normal process is. Can design the dragpoints on top of eachother & have someone or THING chop them. U can also be a prepper instead of executer. Prep may reduce all drag & u just build in the handoff

Target is ALWAYS light, fun, bouncy
Throw all density away U may also sometimes confuse nonclarity weight with emotional drag. These are different things

Weight of uncertainty is not wieght of task drag but this MAY get conflated until you write it out. Uncertainty drag is ez fix, on opposite side u must correctly command someone to specifically reduce emotional drag of task. This will be a very unique type of delegation that can’t be “copy & pasted” because it’s stained with your essence. “Here’s my goal, here’s what i’m avoiding” & then correct every time a dot of drag is missed until it is all known/exposed

If someone can SEE and ARTICULATE all of YOUR dragpoints, u will fucking cook

Every tall rich charismatic entrepreneur that I know is like “there’s actually zero fucking wives” & then when I say “just fade all women and join the side of the incel” they finally start enjoying their life

MAJOR lesson in there. “Oh i’m with 8 figures liquid and im gonna spend time talking a fatherless 7 into marriage and kids!”

Brother… *places 2 fingers on each shoulder & softly lifts his chin*

Welcome to inceldom.

If ur young & lost just go for the cash

Fuck a passion. Fuck having fun. Fucking liking anything that you do.

Wake up, acquire thy cashflow, lift, boredmaxx.

Once it starts working, everything will become fun Bonus points if u just move into the middle of literal nowhere & figure it out

Empty apartment with 1 beanbag & a desk.

Nothing but boredmaxxing & cashmaxxing

“Treat her well” is a semantically confusing for dudes. fucked a lot of dudes into thinking they need to “do something” to get/keep a girl. Inherently subcommunicates “you alone are not enough”.

You don’t “treat her well”

You “lead & love yourself properly” & once YOU are solidified internally, everything you do via self-generated affection will ‘appear’ as the perfect thing, because it’s been blessed by internal wholeness/certainty (of which she residiually feels from all actions)

“Omg u gave me ur water 🥺👉👈”. Small things, done naturally, infused with ur being = “treating her well”. It’s the lens you have of YOURSELF, not a specific act/thing

Meanwhile some dude just gave a bitch a house and she still hates him

Moshi moshi She doesn’t like you: “Hey don’t do that” = controlling

She does like you: “hey don’t do that” = “thnx 4 proteccing me 🥺👉👈”

I thought that sentence was pretty self explanatory but what I mean is before i got the corp job i thought it would be gay & i’d hate it but it was actually fun af, got paid 6-figs for a job i did on literal autopilot & got off at 2:30pm, had all the homies there, and was “the guy”

Experiencing that made me realize exactly why people never leave. It hits every paychological human need at the exact same time lmao. U have to be lowkey sick in the head & actually about ur growth to bail on that. If i didn’t have the desire to turn my yearly income into my monthly income i would have never bailed. But soul overtook comfort & i needed aventure+risk+fun. I knew my potential was way higher than the world’s smoothest/safest 6 figures

A lot of life actually works this way. You think you’ll hate something (and will probably tell people how gay it is) BEFORE you even actually experience it yourself. then when you ACTUALLY experience it, You’re like “oh I get it”

Once i went through this experience I stopped making judgements on things I had never directly experienced because I was very aware how much of an asshat that made me

“Corp jobs are gay bro I could never get a corp job!” - guy that’s never had a corp job

https://x.com/retirementkeys/status/1980541539551178791

I will also say there was monstrous identity pain for me being associated with literal incapable emotionally-stunted normietards

I didn’t give a fuck about the fact iw as getting paid more / was “better”, me doing the SAME THING as some retarded bitch doing drugs in the bathroom while casting spells on me in her free time made a part of me hate myself. It’s like “what the fuck is you doing buddy” type shit lmfao. If u settle for bottomfeeder-accessible shit you’ll have always a little bottomfeeder alive inside of you

The wildest part about the corp world for me was how the adults are literally children

When I first got that job I was actually slightly offended because I thought the manager was being a patronizing asshole

Then i realized later on "oh no he's just genuinely trying to be understood by literal retards"

Then also realized how u can just gigafarm aura because if you have even the slightest modicum of competence ur basically a goldenchild. It's like if u were upper-echelon AAU player & then u decided to play w/ ur town team. It's like charity. Except when u do it in corp the soys rally against u & the women try to impose themselves as ur work wives but u have 2 fade all poon because u don't shit where u eat & ur a man of purity

I knew day 1 my stay was temporary. One time I was leaving office & this chick & i enter doorway at same time & she literally goes "oh you go first, you're way more attractive than me"

I was like bitch, what?

i wish I was joking. U can literally aurafarm ur way to sexual harassment in corp EASILY.

Don't focus on your ability to earn consistent income, instead focus all your time/attention/energy on how HIGH you can "tap" your income in a very short amount of time (2 weeks to a month)

if you target THAT ^ skill, then you have NOW created a "safety unit that is stored beyond the physical". You now have a bank account that you can hide in the clouds, and pull from whenever you want

That is where your focus/energy SHOULD go (raising the ceiling of the tap), and THEN you supplement your life with consistent income as the base/foundation.

U need income to keep ur raft riding down the river (consistent income), but u then need firepower to shoot ur squirt gun as high as u fucking can.

Once the height of ur squirt gun (how much you can make in a 2 week-30 day window) exceeds ur expenses for 1 YEAR, you are "free" - but invisibly. You've now just created your infinite bank account that is stored safely in the sky. hit list cuz ill start sending some emails soon probably again maybe

grantlannin.com/emails

Pretty fucking wild how effective the body is at storing emotional energy

You can "catch" your body holding reactions to shit like 20-100 times within a 24 hour window. Pretty fucking insane to think you have boomers carrying 70 years of that shit totally unchecked. Not even a basic bodyscan to go through everything & poke at it/release with psyche. Not even a little psychic self-massage. NOTHING.

fucking WILD. Physical massage is important but NOBODY talks about psyche-massaging yourself. I am constantly doing this. U have a tension? Go there with your mind, dive into it & wring it out like a towel. U can get in there & shake it up PURELY with your focus/attention & u can "unjumble" MOST shit that gets "balled up" within a 24 hr window

Continual mental massages, all of the time

One of the core psychological certainties of a healthy male psyche is never laying down the hand that pulls arrow from quiver, despite any & all temporary misses

U will eventually get absolutely fucking ROCKED by % odds, and when this happens, u r faced with a decision - do u gaslight urself/pretend what you just did was "retarded" because it's too high t of a play for a normie? Most DO. "ahh well, guess it was kinda dumb". "ahh well, guess that wasn't the smartest". Most backpedal into the normiepsyche when they hit the lows. But this is when u have to double down. This is when you stand by your own conviction that it could have been a GENIUS fucking play, if odds tilted into your favor

""Given a 10 percent chance of a 100 times payoff, you should take that bet every time"

To ever question your own decision to take the fucking shot, roll the dice, take the chance, whatever the fuck u wanna call it is virtually impossible if you're playing your own game psychologically & have the blinders on for you & your OWN life.

Only when u start looking around for post-wrecked approval & second-guessing the core essences of your being does the gaypsyche start attempting to creep in

Ignore.

More shots on goal

RUN THE FUCKING NUMBERS When u quit ur 6 fig job to go all in on ur dreams, and u have 4 cred cards maxxed the fuck out as u have zero idea how the fuck ur gonna pay them off before rent is due in 3 weeks

Do u go "well i'm a muhretard! Guess this was a bad idea!"

Or do you FIGURE IT THE FUCK OUT & RIDE IT ALL THE WAY TO THE FUCKING FIERY FINISH LINE

U KNOW THE ANSWER.

NEVER LAY THE HAND DOWN THAT PULLS FROM QUIVER

Lowkey insane your business can just have 20 year olds major in YOUR ROLES in college so you just have infinite employees. And they pay for the whole thing lmao.

✍️✍️✍️✍️ “Yeah you should DEFINITELY go into nursing Sarah”

*owns a hospital*

All the psychology sauce you need/want is quite literally just found in going after ur goals. it is ver sinple

On ur way there (if u actually go), u will realize 99.99999% of whats stopping u is ur psyche. the answers r found when u just try to fix ur own shit (by going after the goal - the fix is the byproduct). U will realize u:

- cant make a decision
- cant sit down & work
- cant plan something out
- cant get urself to do a task
- too tired to function
- cant stick to 1 thing long enough
- cant research long enough to find the answer
- cant track anything & lose everything
- cant have a harsh direct conversion

Etc etc. Then ur like "so how do i actually do (thing stopping you). Then in the process of solving it u learn way more about it. U go "oh wow, this is way different than I thought". Congrats. U now know psychology.

Wild to me that the average person doesn't realize the infinite psych training ground is literally strapped to them 24/7 U can only study/learn about something if there's a directionality attached to it. Without a target, there is no baseline/metric/foundation for comparison. there is no good or bad, up or down. U literally can't learn anything useful about anything, because you have no USE for it.

If u just try to look inside ur mind u won't find anything. Nothing there. But if u say "im going to make myself sit down and work for 20 minutes", now you get to observe ALL OF THE STUFF that is stopping you from doing that. "oh wow, this thing is fucking me up". Then u figure out how to beat it. Then when u do, congrats. u now have a piece of content 😂

Fuck "the way it's supposed to be done". Do it how YOU THE FUCK WANNA DO IT. That is how you add SPEED to your life, and genuinely leapfrog the trajectory/progress you're making INSTANTANEOUSLY

people telling u to cold email but u can just pick up the phone & rip? Do that.

people saying "build muh slide deck" but u have better idea? do that

people saying "blah blah blah im a npc blah blah blah"? (obviously)

Ask yourself "how would I get this done as quickly as possible assuming I had zero fucking clue how other people did it". Tap into your NATURAL TENDENCIES, TRUST that GOD GAVE YOU THE FACULTIES, and fly at the target without all of the added bullshit resistance of wondering how "mUhOThERpERson" did it or wants you to do it. Who Gyves thy Phuk.

Even as a test experiment, just drop the gaymap u think u gotta follow & just pull out the dub ur way. Let the blueprint go & ask yourself "how the fuck do i wanna do this tho"

Chances are that answer is NOT like anything else you see but WILL speed you the fuck up tremendously

No rules. Game of 1. I got roasted by my HS football coaches EVERY FUCKING DAY because I was literally technique-retarded. I played basketball & just said "fuck it, i'll play football". They put me at D end, had zero clue how to do anything. But I was faster than anyone I played against, so I'd quite literally just go around them or under them. Our D-line coach was on vikings & he'd continually lose his shit at my technique, but who gave a fuck

Got the sack record

Btw you can cure ur depression by saying “fuck it” and abandoning the boring retarded life ur pretending to live to make other people “accept you..?” to just fucking full send it on ur dreams giving zero fucks about “what it looks like on muhh paper”. Fuck ur paper.

Quit the gayjob and go find a part time one doing something thats super fucking fun for you. If u wanna do music just go find engineer & be his slave & use studio 24/7. Happiness is just a couple “fuck its” away. Fuck making other people happy, enjoy this shit & go after what makes ur soul sing. Anything else is LITERALLY retarded & monstrous waste of actual time Funny part now with internet is if u really fuck with it u can just film it & ball from content creation. Literally insane lmao. If i wanted to fucking bowl all day I’d rip my bowling brand & make way more than some gay 6-figure corporate job that rapes my soul lmao. Hometown friends in shambles that retard bowler mcgee printing their yearly salaries in 30 days smiling & ripping strikes with 70 year old men in striped socks. But that’s the fucking internet. The differentiator is now if ur fucking alive inside or not. The path literally doesn’t matter. U go FUN WAY, u’ll figure it out. Can’t afford shit on the boring way anyway. Might as well STILL be poor but now u love ur fucking days

Don’t know who needs to hear this but you can literally sidestep all of your nagging identity issues by just creating a new character

U want to be super social? Mentally create “Social (ur name). Identity prompt: this guy is super social+confident+always knows what to say

Then you just go use that character in the real world. Go play the role. Go play pretend.

If u actually do this (do it but while pretending) u will realize the actions were always inside of u, and the blocker was ur mind/identity. “But this isnt me, i’m just pretending”

Problem is u fail to realize it literally is u, cuz ur doing it. Then u realize ur actually as many of these characters as u wanna be, and “who you are” is an umbrella entity that incorporates & includes all of them.

Usually to enact this u must first call who u r now (name 1.0). U must realize uve played older roles with prompts u didnt create.

Once u cut all internal strings that stop u from playing pretend (which actually isnt pretend) u then realize how ur always on ur own way.

Simply psychologically side-step then incorporate (but incorporation happens naturally with enough de-pedestaling of trait+familiarity). To pretend is to familiarize, and to familiarize is to see what it really is, which is a smaller version of what uve built it up in ur mind to be (that it isnt).

My first conscious one was “business Grant”. I was getting ragdolled by clients at 18 so i needed to create a shark. After 2-3 months business Grant was me, and i was running show with my negotiations.

Repeat on whatever issue u think ur facing. Even a “Transformation” is attacked indirectly. “Pretend” = a psychological detachment mechanism that can be harnessed long enough until it “actually lands”. Can just view it like a practice facility/code once u delete all negative connotations with it. If u truly see its usecase, ull cut the negative strings. But takes a lot of reframing.

Lots of fun ways to solve ur personal/emotional issues/sticking points. Most won’t exhaust evey fucking solution to get over them. Fuck it - no rules If you’re paying attention, you actually have a different “character” for each person you meet anyway already. Its very slight differences, but nonetheless different versions of you. You’re doing this already, just without it being self-generated. And isn’t that strange?

Difference is - those little characters haven’t been labeled & identified - but if you label/identify them you can basically package them up into little psychological prompts & take them with you for whenever

Another one i have is “spanish Grant”. Felt weird learning spanish as “me” so i just said fuck it & created a new guy. Spanish Grant is very interesting, much more flowy & expressive.

These things are already happening & you’re already doing & using them - might as well just make it conscious. Ur mind is already using set prompts/characters - so fuck it

Almost all of the shit that will actually turn the tides for you are totally unpredictable and are things u could have literally predicted 0%. WHITE SWANS

Monstrous random W’s/tools/people of high quality will fly at your face at astronomical speeds if u just start doing shit. This is why going outside is so fucking important, and this is why kicking up dust is so fucking important

Once u generate a little momentum tornado & start SENDING SHIT & DOING SHIT and BEING PLACES and PARTICIPATING IN THINGS and engaging with life & the uncertainty that comes with it - the wildest magic happens. Every time. Total “thats fucking amazings” flying at u randomly. They just keep infinity spawning across the dash if ur in the car ripping down the highway

Do shit, be places, have convos. Start stuff, meet people, have fun. The best shit you can’t even predict, but u know it will find u if ur meeting it all half way If ur sitting alone in ur room being a failureveg ur brain goes “i have zero idea how any of my plans will even work. I genuinely have no idea”

No shit sherlock. Ur not supposed to know. Thats the whole fucking point. thats literally why this shit is fun lmao. Thats not ur fucking job. Ur job is to delusionally convince urself ur intuitive internal compass screaming at u to go for that specific thing was placed into your soul by God himself & your job is to blindly follow that shit IN FULL with a 100% gigasend/balls out knowing everything you fucking need/want will collide with your face randomly & magically as you’re flying down the galactic highway of experience on the path your internal GPS pointed you to go. Your job is to fucking get up & start glididing through the experience of life giving zero fucks because you’re riding the convictions of your own intuitions forward into the infinite abyss of magic & infinity resource. U send & God provides. Ur gaymind thinks ur walking into a dark abyss/cave alone when ur actually walking into a friendly autoshop with every fucking trinket/part required to make your shit putter forward just long enough to make it to the end of the path thats in your soul. The infinity spring. Some avatar planet type shit, but full of shit so helpful that u literally couldn’t have thought of it, but God did. Ur like “woah, that’s way better than what i was trying to do or find”. It just appears. But u gotta get the fuck up and get out there to get dripped in the magicfluff

On my incel shit If u have no bitches i genuinely can’t comprehend how you’re also poor

Like what the fuck r u doing with all ur time lmao

It is almost unfathomable to me

You can’t really kill a good relationship

Can throw anything at it. Distance, people, logistical problems, time

It just endures This tweet was about male friendship & dudes responding with “she’s fucking tyrone”

Find God

from your chair in the corner