Here’s a 🧵of advice about relationships that has served me well lately in a tough moment and applies to all kinds of big life stuff like love, work, friends, family, etc … People show you who they are and what they care about over and over. Pay attention and believe them. It is valuable to know where you stand, even when it feels bad.

Some of you considering moving to Miami may be turned off by the hype about a particular social scene here that sounds a lot like the same old tech bro cliques. BUT, there are many, many more communities to join. Fi:rst, if you’re actively building a tech company, you may not have much time for social stuff. (I don’t.) You may hate large groups. And COVID. DM people who seem cool and set up a call. I do this a lot. Most people like to meet people who think they’re cool!