So I got a private message from a prominent conservative man asking for advice -- which I'm sharing here, with his permission but without attribution... and then I want to offer some thoughts but invite others to do so too! Let's call it #adviceforgoodmen He wrote:
"Struggling with all of this. I have to say that I have serious doubts about these accusers but I've limited my criticisms because I don't want to dissuade women from coming forward by publicly blasting someone who did (even if I am struggling to believe them)...."