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I had this friend who was “ghosting” me for a while. Replies my chat with “lol”. It was hurting cos this guy is my gee, his wife is also my person.

Was wondering if his wife was managing to talk to me cos her husband had completely gone cold!

Decided to mute his updates on WhatsApp,same guy that wasn’t buzzing me on my birthday, anniversary or anything, was busy posting memes

I moved on but I needed to know if I’ll stop talking to his wife too, so I’ll know the friendship is gone

Gave a last try by calling him out..

I watched a testimony on NSPPD this morning about how a father spanked his children, they pressed charges & he was facing 10yrs imprisonment until God intervened🥹

Their Mum was in Nigeria while the kids (3),were with him abroad. The two kids he spanked were taken by government 3yrs later,his lawyer asked him to beg his daughter to drop the charges but she refused

Their mother kept praying and believed God to soften the hearts of their kids

On the day of judgement,the Judge tried speaking to the girl and asked why she won’t forgive her dad ..

Dear First daughters,you don’t have to sacrifice your happiness for money..

If your mum married who she felt she loved but tells you “don’t make the same mistake I made”,caution her

The younger siblings they want you to raise by marrying rich men, will marry who they want while you watch them happy from afar ..

Your parents should live with the consequences of their choice (birthing a particular number of children)

They can only be overlooked if they are dead, bed ridden or life happened to their finance

Twitter for logic & science,avoid this post

Do you know that FAMILY PATTERNS are real?

You enter into some families & discover that almost everyone is a widow/widower,majority are divorced, women are bread winners cos their men don’t prosper/die young,women die in childbirth “My case will be an exception”..agreed but what steps have you taken to fix it?

Have you sat down to handover your marital life/r-ship to God in prayer?

You’re marrying someone that has lost more than one of their spouses to strange ailments & you think it’s ok to jump in?…

As an online business owner,most of your contacts have muted you

Wondering why you aren’t making sales or getting inquiries?

These may the reasons
-Posting more than 5 pictures at a time(how do you expect them to view something that is like waist beads)

Post intermittently! One of the advantages, is that it keeps your status update at the top. If you post everything at once, it’ll stay at bottom while the recent ones stay up

-Your status should be like a mini blog. If your contacts know you will always post the “full gist”,they’ll hurriedly view it

Any woman that says “I can’t have bp Abeg,let him just provide” isn’t totally truthful. It’s just a coping mechanism they put up

She’ll snoop at intervals (a hunch) or calls you out if you’re making too obvious. Unless what she feels for that man is dead & gone

She’s human! Others can say it for the man to get comfortable & loose his guards, then go behind to cheat recklessly

He’ll walk around with the mindset that “I’m meeting her needs, so she’s looking away”.

Until he gets the shock of his life!

Rich people’s problems…

On a serious note, there are issues that couples have… Only them can provide solutions cos you can’t invalidate the feelings of both sides

I used to love front seats. Taking picture with hubz man, chatting & rubbing him while he drives Pregnancy made me permanently stay at the back

I wasn’t driving back then,so I stayed at the back to breastfeed.
Even with a car seat,i had to monitor the baby

Certain “inconveniences” come with having kids

They won’t be kids forever,she will have all the time to fly 1st clas

The genesis of a smelling coochie is urinating or pooping and using Tissue to clean
Why is tissue a no no?

Tissue is dry in texture, it only does surface cleaning.

Try using a wet rag to clean a sticky surface & do same with a dry rag, the result will never be the same.. When I go out, if I can’t carry a big pack of wipes, I’ll pick some pieces & drop in a ZIPLOC nylon. It helps retain the moisture

There are places you may not get water or the water may not look clean, bring out your wipes and use. When you get home, go and wash up properly…

Please if you can’t argue respectfully, keep scrolling cos I won’t spare you & your household🙏

This “emotional baggage” they say women carry around, is it that men don’t have emotional baggages too?

Are Men supposedly robots? There are women who end up with men that have a truckload of emotional baggages from their past. Which in turn was a problem …

Men also get stuck on their exes, just that they act unconcerned on the surface

If the new woman doesn’t fill emotional vacuum, she will see fire..

Once your child turns 1yr, they see clearly and imitate you

-I don’t kiss or do any erotic thing if we are not alone. Strictly PECKS & hugs

-Nobody kisses anybody on the mouth or touches private parts jokingly

- We shut the door while in the bathroom

-We don’t dress up or strip carelessly

-Once your child starts touching places in your body that are private,correct them so they won’t do it outside

- You can’t use the F word & other vulgar languages carelessly etc

Having kids around you, RESHAPES YOUR LIFE

You no longer live for yourself

If you think you will always look exactly the way your partner met you, you are delusional

Marriage is total “nakedness”

Only partner knows how you look after your girdle is removed, how your breasts look like when the padded bras are off, the shape of your head without your luxury frontal wig and your real face after the layers of foundations are off

Only your woman knows the size of the D when it’s at rest and at work

Only her sees when age has shrunk your balls

Let’s not forget the receding hairlines, beard growth etc

I have a customer I usually buy beef from. His meat gets sold out fast cos of how honest and cheerful he is

One day, he wasn’t around, so I went elsewhere. One of the guyz was harsh and unreceptive while the other ones were like “because your customer no Dey,you remembered us today madam”..

I was disgusted and appalled by what they said

This was their chance to attend to me & possibly “snatch” me from my customer but envy didn’t allow them think

These things happen a lot in every other sphere of life. Rather than watering your grass,

Its because relationship has turned to poverty alleviation scheme, that’s why people are angry and dropping comments like “what can a man offer me”.

The men will reply with anger & say “what can a woman do for me”

In a MARRIAGE SETTING, if both of you are coming correct, you’ll see that you need each other

God is the wisest, he created Men & Women for a reason !

It’s because you open your mouth & tell a man that “men with private jet want me”, “ I am high maintenance” etc

They get triggered & tell you they want virgins, woman that earn

Bible says for ALL HAVE SINNED & COME SHORT OF GOD’s Glory

I don’t have issues with being a new creature in Christ. Some things should be PRIVATE cos it creates the impression of “deliberately do as you like, pray & start afresh”

Same Bible says “God cannot be mocked, For whatsoever a man sows, that he shall reap

Twitter has a lot of judgmental people that are ready to drag you. Only God forgives & allows you to have a fresh start

Try to keep your “new creature”away story from social media, else, you’ll set yourself & loved ones for drags

So an acquaintance who is abroad said Mothers take their teenage daughters to hospitals for implants (the one we call family planning)

Some people had mixed reactions towards it. Some said such mothers are encouraging promiscuity while some said those mothers are wise I am of the the opinion that doing it for those girls, is their own way of saying “I know you are sexually active, so I might as well help you prevent pregnancy”

Beating or screaming has never stopped teenagers from trying to explore and I feel appealing to their conscience

Our parents married as virgins and never engaged in premarital sex but you were born 3-6 months after they got married 🥱

Your parents never did BF or GF, they just married straight up. But their old school mates called them “love birds” that were everywhere (what a wawu) The need to appear holy or righteous,has made children seek counsel from people who they feel are sinners like them and are less judgmental

Will you tell them the truth inorder for them to tow same path? NO!

The goal is let them know there are CONSEQUENCES,they may not escape

Since the wife “forgot” to talk about N35m & you people expect the man to be “okay” with it,please maintain same energy if he does same

Some of you have taken this“his money is our money & my money is my money”overboard

Is marriage squid game?
Marrying with polluted mentality! They are from same background, this isn’t a case of “hungry” husband

There are broke husbands that wont expect a kobo even if they are aware of your millions

Why marry who you can’t trust?

If I’m that man, a lot will really change. No be only you get sabi hide

Broke shaming a woman and broke shaming a man hits differently

You and I know there are things that are expected from a particular gender. Mocking them will hurt cos it’s the truth!

Laughing at a man that his woman didn’t physically fight for him will be weird but a man will feel like shit, if he couldn’t defend his woman from an aggressor (protection)

Mocking a wife that she’s being fed by her husband or drives his car, will sound weird cos it’s her husband’s job to provide

But a man can’t brag about his wife providing for him or feeding him etc

When they tell you people to marry & reduce your focus on PHYSICAL things, you’ll be whining

If he was the one that suffered erectile dysfunction, I hope she can also divorce?

Watch how they will come here to talk about “hit the gym”, “Beyoncé did it”

As long as our fingers aren’t equal, there will always be slim and fat people

Your mum’s belly isn’t flat, neither is her belly smooth as a result of pregnancy & childbirth. Some of your mums got fat and never lost weight despite everything but your dads didn’t divorce

Neither did your father’s

Let me tell you the bitter truth ..

You will enter that vagina over 2,000 times in marriage

That dick that has been servicing you in marriage may not feel the same but you are “stuck” with it”

It’s very possible to lose physical attraction for someone you’ve been married to for years

Breast will sag, balls will look shriveled, bumbum won’t be round & jiggly anymore (it can have block form)

What sustains you? It’s COMMITMENT & FRIENDSHIP

Something attracted you to that person character wise and physically

Please, if you get less physically