It’s heartbreaking when you come to terms with the fact that maybe the safest way to live is alone. You start to realize you’re getting older, and finding someone real to build a life with just isn’t likely. Most people are either too into themselves, still chasing the streets, stuck on an ex, trapped in their past, or they come into your life just enough to confuse you. They want you, but not enough to choose you, and still won’t let you go. We’re living in a time where being toxic is normalized, and it’s depressing to admit that being

Nobody talks about how people who grew up in broken, chaotic, dysfunctional homes don’t always dream of fame or fortune or some picture-perfect lifestyle. Their dreams are simpler. Softer. More sacred.
They dream of stability. Of a home filled with peace instead of tension. Of waking up in a space that feels safe… not one where they have to walk on eggshells or brace for impact. They don’t care about luxury... they care about security. About having something they can call theirs without the fear of it being ripped away.

Nobody gets angrier than a narcissist being accused of something they absolutely did.
It’s wild, really....the way they flip the script, twist the truth, and turn it all back on you. The moment you call them out, the moment you dare to hold them accountable, they explode with rage, denial, and blame.
Suddenly, you’re the problem.
Suddenly, you’re “crazy.”
Suddenly, you’re the villain in the story they’ve rewritten in real time.
A narcissist doesn’t get angry because they’re innocent. They get angry because they’ve been

Thokozani 👏

Word of the Day : Don't ever listern to " Dream Crushers". We have people who have a Phd in crushing people's dreams or ideas. Those people are just bitter people.

Dream big Nana Okay. Can we be that generation that don't crush other children's dreams including your own children. Can we be that generation " Don't worry I have ABC who can help you. " " I support you".. Make your ancestors proud. It's your turn now.

Alot of people could have been big things in life now but because "Auntie/ ugogo/ umama / siblings/

Its not always when a snake comes into your yard that you must kill it, especially in the surburbs.
A stranger cannot kill you without the approval of your ancestors or anyone from your bloodline, that is why i tell people to cleanse, to clear bloodline hurt, hate and curses. When an enermy is targeting you, they use a snake as an "art of represantion". What i mean is, they use muthi and the snake to control you, they name that snake "you", they can bottle it, harm its tail, and abuse it, and the exact same thing will be happening to your real life.