Okay, let me tell you about my friend Jose. Jose is AMAB, 6’5” and built like a linebacker, with lots of visible tattoos. They’re trying to grow a big lumberjack beard but the genes for it aren’t quite there so for now it’s Quentin Collins-style mutton chops. /1 Jose is a master of wearing just enough eyeliner to make you question whether they’re wearing eyeliner or just have really pretty eyes. But in general if you saw them on the street you’d likely think “that is a big scary looking dude.” /2