🐝 The Messy Coach 🐝 Supporting #PhD students to find more balance, ease, joy & clarity in the PhD | Quals/Social science | Human design + trashy TV + cake!
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Jan 31 • 14 tweets • 3 min read
It's been 2+ years since I officially graduated from my #PhD + I've been reflecting 🤔
Here are 12 things I know now that would have saved me a TON of stress + heartache back then 🧵
#phdlife #academicchatter @ThePhDPlace @PhDVoice @MasterAcademia_ #phdtips #postgrad #phdchat
1 NOBODY CARES HOW OR WHEN YOU WORK
Whether you work 9-5 at an office, or you write the whole thesis from your living room in the evenings, NOBODY CARES.
You get to your viva + realise that 0% of the examination is on how many hours you work, how 'efficient' your routine was.
Jan 24 • 12 tweets • 2 min read
It's a mistake to think that the only wins in the #PhD worth celebrating are the big flashy events - submission, acceptance, awards.
Here are 30 other wins in the PhD you might think are "no big deal" 🧵
#phdlife #phdchat #academicchatter #academictwitter #phdtips
1 knowing when to stop work for the day (and trusting that rest now = more energy and focus when you come back tomorrow)
2 asking that embarrassing question (which is probably not that embarrassing and something 159 other PhDs have)
Aug 14, 2023 • 25 tweets • 5 min read
8 years ago, I started my #PhD!
Here are 50 things I've learnt about this wild, messy, joyful, challenging + hugely fulfilling #research journey 🧵
#academicchatter #academictwitter #phdlife #phdchat @ThePhDPlace @MasterAcademia_ @PhD_Genie #research #doctorate #postgrad
1. The PhD can be challenging AND pleasurable - the two are not mutually exclusive
2. The PhD can be joyful and fun
3. Enjoying the PhD and finding ease in the process doesn't make it any less valuable
4. The PhD shouldn't take over your life; it is a PART of your life
Feb 22, 2023 • 26 tweets • 6 min read
All the horrible things I have thought and done during my #PhD that I was absolutely sure nobody else was thinking or doing
If everything went EXACTLY as we planned/controlled +was already known, there’d be no need to do the research in the first place, right?!
Jun 5, 2022 • 5 tweets • 4 min read
Hot #phdtip for the super driven goal-oriented type-a perfectionists to GET MORE REST & loosen your grip:
Set goals or a mini 'challenge' for your fun/leisure/social life
Examples in thread below
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#phdchat#phdlife@PhDVoice@OpenAcademics#AcademicChatter#AcademicTwitter
* meet/call/zoom non PhD friends/family at least once a week
* try a new recipe/bake once a week
* see one art exhibition a month
* Set a leisure reading challenge (like @goodreads annual book challenge)
* knit a blanket for a friend's new baby before their birth
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Jun 5, 2022 • 7 tweets • 3 min read
EVERYONE I knew who completed their #PhD before me had a miserable time in the last stages of writing up. I dreaded having to struggle too but those last 6 months ended up being the most fulfilling, happy time of my PhD 1/
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I voiced my dread/fears to my supervisor. She shared that she loved writing up; that it was a wonderful time of seeing her research come together + gain confidence in her own voice/findings. She was the first person to suggest there was another way to write/wrap up the PhD...
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Jun 5, 2022 • 15 tweets • 6 min read
How I planned for + wrote 6 #thesis chapters in my last year while keeping all my mornings, evenings + weekends free.
But I’m also…
a former education journalist
a former magazine writer
a life coach
a tarot reader
a daughter
a girlfriend
a friend
a public-speaking award-winner
a spiritual practitioner
a weight-lifter
....
.... #phdlife#phdchat 1/
Every single one of those ‘identities’ carries its own weird quirks, interesting characteristics, insecurities +anxieties, skills +capacities, fun, worries, likes+dislikes.
But also, each of those parts of me are entwined with all the other parts...
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Jun 3, 2022 • 6 tweets • 3 min read
Just gonna say it: if you're doing a #PhD for the prestige, reputation, just to say you're a Dr, it's going to be that much harder to sustain motivation or to feel really passionate & joyful & in flow with your work 1/ @PhDVoice#AcademicChatter#phdlife#phdchat#AcademicTwitter
You're in it for the long haul w/ a #research project. You gotta actually give a shit about the thing you're researching & invested at some level in creating change & being of service to the world through your work.
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