I got a phone call Thursday night at 11:45 from my ex-wife.... I don’t have to tell any parents out there the feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when you have teenage or young adult children and the phone rings late. When I answered the phone I could hear her wailing into it before I could put it up to my ear. I couldn’t understand a word she was saying, but didn’t need to. I knew we had lost one of our girls.