Thread by @YDrshivaji

#PARENTINGJOURNEY👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 highly enduring evolutionary instinct to foster guidance till child's maturation Focus on child's holistic attachment, when initiated with untiring effort towards their authenticity has worthy purpose to achieve independence & yearn to their secure future 1/25

#parentaldrive an altruistic attachment to promote survival, provide secure connection to emulate loyalty & belongingness with impact on child's identity
Integrity, persistence & tenacity in context to primary competing attachment determines childs individuality & significance 2

child development advances through multi contextual relationship #feedbackloop
Parental markers humility, intellect, neglect, poverty, social conditioning & ACE's guide resp interaction via diverse behaviour to rationality, vulnerability, dependency, deprivation & indoctrination3

#parentesepractice initiate with compassion &values Environment & experience modulate innate predisposition by enhancing abilities with efforts towards reward Myriad sociocultural interactions we portray, affect how children imbibe &respond to our responses rightfully or not 4

aim of parenting #teamwork is to complement, successfully navigate life-long journey by paying⬆️attent'n on process focused efforts instead of results Our action convey learning better than pounding
Engaging in infancy encourages, enriches & empowers kid to learn & develop 5

parenting is social need legacy quest to consistent empowering, encouraging to achieve #harmoniousoutcome Beware of deprivation to child, as parents we risk to forgo attachment rights Practicing unconditional acceptance & emotional caring allows children to evolve into trueself 6

parenting is the ultimate #multifacetedduty to best guide the child to overcome dependency, evolve selfassertion with repeated efforts in most essential skills, boys must be inculcated with personal values concordant with action to respect modesty to girls & women in gen 7

occ parental indifference may imply deep rooted status quo as convenient #hierarchicalstrategy Patriarch & those with only sons need to be sensitized that others need hearing, entitled to self respect esp girl & women Teach them moral boundaries & inculcate that consent matters 8

#Enabler #facilitator role vulnerability is a reality to connect, belong, love & be loved Empowered enabler must guide child to be self reliant, nurture & respect to
foster curiosity to self regulate cognitive tasks Compassonate facilitator must offer gradual +ve reinforcement 9

parents need to be vary #meanregression phenomenon when trying to establish causality btw deterministic & random element to achievement Skill matter so does random luck Where correlation is imperfect the best will always appear to get worst & the worst will improve overtime dk10

long-term perspective must allow minor failures & miss small victories to accept, internalize, regulate & prepare to social competence thus nurture cognitive ability
To accomplish purpose in life one must be willing to work for it, nothing is given everything has to be earned 11

persistent effort, resilience, self satisfaction, practice foremost to improvise, allow creativity to flourish thus bolster motivation Avoid interference, be supportive & amend fallacies with acceptance, cooperation & respect to principles so that children can choose to emulate12

virtuosity, wisdom, acceptance & ongoing learning guides to mitigate past judgemental mistakes by forgiving but not repeating Empathise & prioritize our holistic duties with humility, find elusive balance tactfully btw involvement & benign neglect without prejudice to kids 13

new fatherhood must empathise with partner hear out Rewind childhood where parental resilience & response tought us to endure misery
Family addition is occasion to rejoice & shoulder responsibility to adjustment Afap give ones best to family, as cohesive team work triumphs 14

upbringing kids is an enduring pursuit to mitigate untimely partner absence to a single parent👩‍👦‍👦due to death,separation,divorce or natural indisposition Embrace workable arrangement attentively with extended family support, as duty requires sensitivity & handling adaptability15

In relation'p parity matters all time is created equal respect each other's point of view Both need to adjust to how one values & commits to the goal of rebalancing btw domestic chores & nurture "default mode network"
Both must honour & restore others right to self worth ASAP 16

👨‍👩‍👧 endeavour is best doubles partnership to life
Respect & trust is mutually binding agreement
Practice concordance as values cannot be thrust upon children who are observant to assimilate our traits Parent need to be mindful to any deviation warranting appropriate consult'n 17

contentment, accept limitation & inculcate healthy habits to kids so they feel safe & loved with independence, kindness & stability Where duality, deceit, highhandedness & lack of interpersonal trust exist these are recipe for suppression,low self esteem & emotional detachment 18

#girleducation empowerment & literacy to girl child will promote self esteem, resilence & encourage resourcefulness in them thus guiding culture of self reliance & independence Social construct to family must be of equality & inclusive along scientific temperament 19

where confusion,discordant relation & past truma event exist w'out closure psychologically teen suffers, there's fear to censure & punishment The bias & strict rules against pursuit of liking leads to deviation, peer influence, rebellion, vices & elopement as way to belonging 20

happenstance of unwanted teen preg deserves acceptance & necessitates preventive action, instead of stigmatizing subject Societal challenge is from myriad causes collate circumstances to comprehend, educate & implement appropriate remedial measures with therapy to all involved 21

parental & family aspirations can become unjustifiable against the best of enduring effort by child in dynamic competitive system to achieve desired goal resulting in burnout & desperation Interparental rapport of acceptance, being nonjudgemental, amenable & motivation matters 22

With parental double standards, unable to recognise own failings, using money facade as cure to all, lack of trust, interference in kids decision making, nonrectifying mistakes at a given opportunity & dysfunctional family suggest failed parenting to desired value installa'n 23

Parenting remains on going dynamic process, state of being self reflective & accommadative with multitude of variables
Insatiable desires & unrealistic expectations have multifaceted offshoots through child's upbringing while navigating needs, maturation towards authenticity 24

home contentment is a social barometer reflecting parenting & quality of environment till child's maturation Parents perception, reflects own past Respect & care children receive now will get ingrained & influence type of future care legacy to children /old age we provide 25/25