Thread by @PGeeman

What do you think is the cause of such violence? Whatever the cause, violence is not the solution to conflict resolution. Let me share some points on "Conflict resolution in marriage and relationships during the lock down."

In Luke 17:1 Jesus said to his disciples “It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe to him through whom they do come!” God created us for connection, not isolation.

Everything that is alive relates to something else, the proof that you are alive and well is your ability to connect with others. Broken relationship is man's primary problem; that's why we need redemption and reconciliation, first to God and then to other people.

Conflicts are inevitable, mainly because we live in an imperfect world, with imperfect people and circumstances. During this lockdown, our imperfection may irritate our spouses and family members, causing big conflicts.

We must endeavour not to allow any of such conflicts degenerate into any form of violence, battery or assault.

How to resolve conflicts?
1. Identify the source of conflict
2. What is at stake : money, health, ego, self esteem, your feeling, fun,

3. Focus on the real issues : Refuse to get personal, no name calling etc

4. Manage your emotions by focusing on the big picture which should be resolution and peace.

5. Focus on win-win and deal with ego and selfishness, engaging in open and fair discussion.

6. If after a day you are still unable to have a civil, non-abusive discussion, ask for help. Call a trusted friend, mentor or counselor.
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7. Enjoy wisdom from God to handle every situation and may the peace of God abide with you.

It's my prayer that your marriage and relationships be sweet.

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