Another thing not to say to eating disorder survivors: "real women have curves," "men love curves," or anything of the like. Such statements body-shame women & reduce their worth to their ability to produce erections. bustle.com/articles/66973…#EatingDisorderAwarenessWeek
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Instead of telling women their breasts are sexy no matter their size, how about we stop sexualizing breasts?
There's room for reminding people they're capable & deserving of confidence & sex lives no matter what they look like.
But "all boobs are sexy" messaging is old & overdone & risks furthering objectification.
We get to define our body parts & decide how sexual we consider them.
Rather than focus on which features are sexy, let's remind people that sexiness comes from the inside — and, more importantly, that they don’t have to be sexy.
Has anyone had things not work out with their quarantine boo? Please DM me if you're willing to be interviewed for an article!
Still looking to talk to people who have had things not work out with their quarantine boo. DM me if that's you and you can help with an article. Thanks!
Update: I'm looking in particular for people in their 20s who had things fall apart with a quarantine boo. Let me know if you'd be willing to be interviewed for an article. Thanks!
How many people would attend an online cacao ceremony/discussion group if I held one? I've got this meetup group, which has details on how they work, and I could expand them beyond LA... meetup.com/LA-spiritual-i…
If I were to host a virtual cacao ceremony, would you prefer it be done over Facebook Live or Zoom?
All right, I'm officially hosting a virtual cacao ceremony next month! All are welcome. RSVP here: meetup.com/LA-spiritual-i…
In case you’re wondering what I’ve been doing with my quarantined time, I’ve got 152 pages of a memoir written.
It contains such lines as, “Once I ingested the San Pedro, this threesome seemed like the most important thing in the world.”
Another preview of my memoir:
“I think iboga wants me to go on Tinder,” I announced to a few other participants the next morning, a tad embarrassed that this plant spirit would have given me such seemingly unsanctimonious instructions.
Another snippet from my memoir:
"And that was the moment I knew my three-year relationship was about to end because of a 90-minute orgasm."
I don't believe in chasing people. I also don't believe in rules like "don't text someone twice in a row." Rules are for people disconnected from their hearts. Follow your heart and nothing else matters. If it says to double-text someone, do it.
Fuck "don't chase men." Sometimes men are clueless and/or scared and if you know the relationship's right, you gotta fight for it, even if that means chasing them to the end of the goddamn Earth.
Women get told don't make the first move, don't be too aggressive, you were meant to be chased.
If you take this advice, I can guarantee you'll be pursued by a lot of mediocre suitors & the ones you like will have no clue you like them bc they'll be busy w/ women who chase them.