My next book is forcing me to organize a powerful idea that's formed in my mind over the past 4 years.

You are responsible for your life and all the things in it. The actions you take are yours and yours alone.

You can't blame anyone for what you DO.

With that said...
At age 34, I'm now old enough to see the effects of family members born and raised in a cycle or ignorance.

There is a very real disadvantage to be being born to shit circumstances and raised by shit people.

Furthermore, disadvantages compound...
If you don't know how to cope with the inevitable challenges in life, you'll likely fail, and then cope with that failure in a way that brings even more challenges.

Socio-economic class is a compound word for a reason. It's about being poor AND around shit people.
I mentioned that last point because there's always someone who says they grew up poor, but they lived in rural America.

For many reasons, it ain't the same thing.

In short, I grow more sympathetic to effect of circumstances. Maybe I'm just lucky I made it out.

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After studying copy and working with many fitness Twitter accounts, I've come to a conclusion that most suspect but perhaps are hoping is just hyperbole:

People don't give a shit about being healthy.
They don't even give a shit about being in shape.

What do they care about?
They care about not getting laid and not being broke.

The first one needs no explanation. People will even accept low quality or a substitute.

That second one is a little depressing when we dig deeper.

I promise, I'm gonna get back to fitness, but this detour is necessary.
People care about being comfortable.

They don't want a lot of money. They don't want a lot of success. They don't even want to develop skills.

They just don't want to work hard. Get rich schemes only work on the lazy, almost by definition.

If you wanna sell something...
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Today I turn 37.

Here are 10 random ideas things I've picked up along the way to stay sane and enjoy your time on this rock.

I'm sure you've read many of these type of threads, and mine probably won't say anything new.

But here we are. Because engagement.
1. People are the most important thing. It doesn't matter what you have if you don't have anyone to share it with.

2. The difference between a late-bloomer and a loser is only evident after you've bloomed

3. "He has potential" is just a nice way of saying he ain't done shit yet
4. Social media can change your life. But when it does, don't let it change your life.

5. You never think about the people who didn't support you, but you will never forget the people who actively doubted you.

6. The harder the flex, the more you should doubt its authenticity.
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Feb 12
Here are 6 of my favorite tips to improve your writing from my article on how to be a better writer.

You probably didn't learn any of these in school, but that's ok because I got you covered in this thread.

Or read the article here:

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1) Have something to say

Good writers create content to either entertain or teach.
Great writers manage to do both.

It's easy to do this when you have something valuable to say.
2) Treat writing like a labor of love

Writing is a skill. Like any other skill, it requires consistent practice to improve.

There isn't a day that goes by where I don't try to write something. You should do the same.
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How to be more likable—without being nicer.

The best way to be likable is to not try to make people like you. It’s cliche, but be yourself.

This doesn’t mean being an asshole, but don’t change your fundamental interests, hobbies, and mannerisms to appeal to the masses.
Don’t worry about what other people think of you.

This isn’t the same thing as not caring about how you present yourself to the world.

The former is the benefit of focusing on the process of living. The latter is the consequence of obsessing over the outcome you can't control.
Good manners go a long way

If you can treat people well when they don’t deserve it, you can make a bad situation good and a good situation great.

Or put differently, good manners never made a situation worse.
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I've found that anyone can fix their life, no matter how far gone it seems.

Except for 1 type of person.

If you have a combination of traits that I call "The Scumbag Trifecta", then you are lost and will sink to the bottom of humanity.

What are those traits?
1) No self-awareness

I can tell you that you're wrong and acting stupid until I'm blue in the face and you're blue in the ears from listening...

But if you don't know that you're doing something stupid until you deal with the consequences, you're gonna hurt for a long time.
2) Laziness

Humans prefer to do things the easy way. This is fine some of the time, but eventually, you gotta do more than the minimum.

If this is you, you're gonna hurt for a long time because life doesn't get easier unless you get better.

And that means doing hard shit.
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How I made almost $100K in one single product launch with a product I didn't create.

And 5 lessons I learned during the launch that anyone can use.

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My buddy @OneJKMolina and I launched a Twitter course called “The Templates.”

It was a simple concept with a big promise.

We supplied you with high-performing tweet structures.

And all you have to do is plug in your own words to see the magic happen.
I’ve been part of many launches.

But I’ve never sold 690 units in one week.

We only promoted on Twitter and our mailing list.

No paid ads. No Instagram. No shoutouts.
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