People don’t realize how much sensory processing issues can vary from day to day depending on a number of factors (mostly how tired/overwhelmed/overworked my brain is).
For example, on a bad day the grocery store can be physically painful, but on a good day (if I’m well rested and haven’t had a lot of sensory exposure recently) I can walk in and out of the store without pain.
So it can be frustrating to get comments like “you didn’t need your sunglasses last time” or “are you sure you really need that?” and “can’t you tough it out?”
Not that it’s anyone’s business but, yes, I need my sensory protection, otherwise I wouldn’t be putting it on.
Now that I work from home most days, and have more control of my sensory environment, my tolerance for sensory stimuli has increased.
When I worked in an office with fluorescent lights, I had almost daily migraines and regular sensory overload.
I now take care of myself autisticly, with sensory sensitivities in mind, limiting my exposure to environments that assault my sensory system.
Before I was constantly running myself to and past sensory burnout.
Learning about sensory processing issues changed the way I care for myself and I’ve never been healthier.
The founder of ABA said the following about Autistic kids:
“You see, you start pretty much from scratch when you work with an autistic child. You have a person in the physical sense – they have hair, a nose and a mouth – but they are not people in the psychological sense...."
"One way to look at the job of helping autistic kids is to see it as a matter of constructing a person. You have the raw materials, but you have to build the person.”
Lovaas strongly believed in intense behavioral modification interventions, that included harsh aversive techniques such as withholding touch and attention, isolation, and even giving electric shock "therapy"...
The first thing I would love for people to understand about sensory processing and sensory overload is that a NeuroDivergent Person, with sensory processing difference’s ability to tolerate certain stimuli can vary, from week to week, month to month, even day to day.
The ability to tolerate sensations can very, depending on a variety of factors.
One of those factors being how well rested, or how well off that individual NeuroDivergent Person is doing, on that particular day.
It can be the perfect storm if that person is feeling low energy that day, or they’ve already got a lot on their plate.
Maybe they’re already really stressed out about some personal thing or some change that’s happening in their life, or they’ve not slept well all week.
Well, for me, that is when some kind of sensory input becomes so overwhelming to me that I either shut down, meltdown, or run away from it; because I am basically sent into almost a panic or, just this need to stop, or get away from and escape it.
Some of my common triggers for sensory overload would be bright, fluorescent, lighting, certain smells, and certain sounds just really get to me.
Before I found out I was Autistic, I thought a lot of this was anxiety and panic attacks, but then I realized there was actually environmental triggers, causing this reaction inside me.
💯% FALSE: I want to set the record straight that, though I have PARTICIPATED in MANY campaigns and boycotts with others in the #ActuallyAutistic community, I do not have any such boycott list.
I have made lists of resources before, listing HELPFUL resources, but I personally don’t like boycott lists, because I feel they don’t leave people room to grow, since people often don’t update these lists.
Lots of claims being thrown around about me recently but NONE of them have had any evidence or are conveniently omitting and changing details- EX: claiming I worked to get a single mom fired - who ACTUALLY got herself fired for harassing minors on TIKTOK.
There have been a lot of people this year trying to get me to quit, thinking that if they make post after post about me, and harass me I will stop speaking about the issues that impact me and people I care about. I’m oppositional & defiant so it fuels me to do even MORE.
Every time someone tells me “stop taking about ________ - stop saying _________ - it becomes forbidden fruit, compelling me to scream louder and through more channels.
They are fueling my growth by demanding I stop.
I won’t stop… you can’t make me.
Keep sending your list of demands but I’m not interested in them and I won’t obey.